A Good Dad is Like a Center of Gravity - Apples of Gold - September 16, 2010 -vi-

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“A Good Dad is Like a Center of Gravity”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

The cutest little girl is sitting in the back seat of the car.

Her mother is speeding down the highway when suddenly police lights flash in her mirror.

The officer asks for the mom’s papers, and while she is fishing them out, he says to the girl, “Hello!  Mummy in a bit of a hurry, was she?”

The little girl whispers, “That’s not my mommy.”  Then she holds up her notebook on which she has printed one word in large capital letters:  HELP.

The officer looks at her cherubic face for confirmation, and while holding the sign she mouths the words, “Help me.”

He finally realizes the gravity of the situation and shouts at the driver, “Step out of the car, madam!  Step out of the vehicle…now!”

The camera cuts back to the little girl who now has a smug look on her face, and the video ends with these words flashed up on the screen, “Born to create drama.”

That’s a short video that’s making the rounds on the internet.  My daughter-in-law sent it to me with the subject line, “Grounded for Life!”

She and my son are expecting our first grandchild in March, and she wrote in the e-mail, “Hopefully my baby will never do this to me.”

Of course that video is a bit far fetched, but when it said “born to create drama,” wow, isn’t that what it seems like sometimes?  These little buggers come along and next thing you know some two-foot-tall person is ruling the roost.

After watching the video I thought, “My kids never would have done something like that.”  Why not?  Because I wouldn’t have put up with it!

I sat with my oldest daughter in church last night and she also had received the video so I asked her, “Would you kids have ever done anything like that?”

“No!”

“Why not?”

She paused for a second, got this mischievous gleam in her eye and said, “Because you would have beat us!”

Of course I never “beat” my children, but they knew there were definitive lines that they crossed at their peril.  These lines were established at an early age, and even though we didn’t have a rule for every single situation, they had a good idea of what would bring the law down on them.

Have you ever seen kids that acted like brats?  All kids act like brats sometimes, but some kids push the envelope and finally just swirl out of control.

When I see kids like that I have one question.  Where’s the father?

Not that Mom can’t take care of things, but right now I’m talking about fathers. 

A good father is like a center of gravity.  His strength, wisdom, rules, love, discipline and guiding hand keep the kids from swirling out of orbit.

First of all, his love keeps them in check because you don’t want to disappoint someone who loves you.  A good father builds strong, loving relationships with his children.  He talks to them and listens to them and spends time with them.

A good father injects wisdom into his children, which means he must be growing in wisdom himself.  A good father is maturing, even as his children mature.

A good father is strong.  That doesn’t mean he’s a body builder, but that he has a strong constitution.  He has self control and dignity.  He’s not just one of the kids, and they know it.  He is Dad.

A good father establishes rules; not things he makes up off the top of his head and changes tomorrow, but rules that are well thought out and are the same the next day and the next year.  A good dad thinks before he speaks, then does exactly what he says.

A good father disciplines his children.  Yes, that involves punishment when they break the rules, and it involves rewards for good behavior.  He encourages them to be the best they can be and works with them to make it happen.

And a good father has a strong, guiding hand which points and says, “This is the way, walk ye in it.”

Yes, moms are super important, too; of course they are.  But lately it seems like the importance of dads is underplayed by some, so let me state one more time the effect I think a father should have on his family.

A good dad is like a center of gravity.  His strength, wisdom, rules, love, guiding hand and discipline keep the kids from swirling out of orbit.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.



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Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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My Refuge - Apples of Gold - September 15, 2010 -vi-

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“My Refuge”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Over and over in the Psalms, God is referred to as a “refuge.”

Have you ever needed a refuge?  Have you ever just felt battered and threatened and needed a safe place to run? 

Have the cares of life ever just crashed down around you and you wished you could just run away and escape from it all?

Psalm 46:1 says that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

Where do you run when you need a refuge?

When I was a little boy, my refuge was my mother.  If I was hurt or sick, I ran to her.  She didn’t necessarily solve every problem for me, but I knew I was in the presence of someone who loved me and who wanted the best for me. 

As an adult, where do I run for refuge?  Well I don’t mind telling you, I run to the Lord.

I could probably come up with hundreds of times when something about life slapped me upside the head and I went running to the Lord for refuge.

Have you ever been squeezed between a rock and a hard place?  Have you ever felt like there was just no good solution for your situation, with compromise on one side and failure on the other? 

I have, and when that happens, I run to the Lord for refuge.

Psalm 91:2 says, “I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God, in Him will I trust.”

Throughout my Christian life I have had a regular prayer time.  This makes it easy to run to the Lord as my refuge because I’m already in the habit of coming to Him.

James 4:8 says, “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.”

I often claim that promise as I begin to pray.  I say, “Lord, I am drawing near to You right now, and I know that You are drawing near to me.”

That means, in a sense, you don’t have to run all the way to your Refuge.  He will come to you.

In Jesus’ story of the prodigal son, the father ran out to meet the son.  I think our Heavenly Father does the same.  As we make a move to draw near to Him, He draws near to us.

David wrote in Psalm 9, “The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.”

So how is the Lord my refuge?

First of all, I think it’s just knowing that He’s there, that I’m not alone in whatever I’m going through. 

And I know that He’s up to something.  I may not know what, I may not know how or when, but I believe and trust that God is up to something, and that knowledge is a refuge.

And knowing that He accepts me.  Yes, He hates my sin, but He made a way through Jesus Christ for my sins to be forgiven.  I come to Him in repentance and sorrow for my sin, and He accepts me.  In fact, He welcomes me.  I can come boldly to Him, and I do, just as a child caught in a downpour might boldly dash into a king’s palace to escape the rain.  And not only does the King tolerate me as a mild curiosity . . . He loves me!

God is also my refuge through His Word.  He gives wisdom and insight through the Scriptures which provide a mighty shelter for me in this mixed up world.

One of the great burdens of being adults in this life is having to provide for ourselves.  Has a lack of money or a job, or a financial crisis ever made you wish for a refuge? 

Well for me, God is my refuge, knowing that He is my provider, my “Jehovah Jireh.”  I know that I have my part to play, and I am more than willing to dive in and do the work.  I work with the attitude of Nehemiah – God Himself will provide; therefore we will arise and build.”  Yes, I’ll work to provide for my family, but it’s a great comfort to know that, in the end, God is my Provider.

Another way God is my refuge is when it comes to protection.  Yes, I will work to protect my family, but in the end, God must be my shield.  I take the attitude of David – I will both lie down in peace, and sleep, for You alone make me dwell in safety.

It is a refuge to know that God’s way is the best way.

It’s a refuge knowing that I have a part in God’s family, in the body of Christ.

It’s a refuge to know that God has a calling on my life, and that He is bringing other people into my life. 

No matter what is going on, no matter what storm is swirling around me, I find shelter and peace and rest and tranquility in my Rock, my Fortress and my Deliverer.

Second Samuel 22 says God is my rock, in whom I take refuge.  He is my stronghold, my refuge, and my savior.

So if life has knocked the wind out of you today, here is my advice.  Draw near to God in prayer.  Open yourself to Him and receive from Him.

That is what I do on a regular basis, and I have found great comfort in knowing that I can always run to my Lord and my King…my Refuge.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.



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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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I Want to Bless the Lord - Apples of Gold - September 14, 2010 -vi-

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“I Want to Bless the Lord”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

We sing a song at church that says, “Bless the Lord.”

I’ve heard that line in church songs for years, but lately it’s found a tender spot inside me.

There’s a soft spot that is responding, “Yes, Lord, I want to bless You.”

Sometimes before doing things a voice inside me says, “Will this bless You, Lord?”

I want my life to bless the Lord.  I want my attitude at all times to bless the Lord.  When I encounter trouble, I want to bless the Lord.  When I come to a fork in the road, I want to take the road that will most bless the Lord.

It’s hard to describe the effect when this is bubbling around inside you.  For me, it’s a gracious, humbling effect.  It stills my heart before the Lord, not in fear but in love.  I know He loves me and I want to love Him in return, and bless Him.

So how can I bless the Lord?

To me, the most obvious, tangible way is to bless people.  Jesus indicated that if we do something to others, we’ve done it to Him; so if I bless people, then I’m blessing the Lord.

Opportunities to bless people come up often.  You don’t have to go out of your way to find them.

Here is something I say a lot.  If someone reveals how you can be a blessing to them, and you can easily do it, then do it!

Here is one way I applied that to my own life, and it was somewhat controversial.

I worked for a man who had a beloved little dog.  When he was out of town he would ask me to walk it.

How does that strike you?  How do you feel about your boss asking you to do something personal, especially if it’s on your own time?

You could be offended.  How dare he ask you to do something unrelated to work, something you aren’t being paid for?

Or you could go the other way and think of how to play it to your advantage.  “If I do this for him, then he’s more likely to do something for me.”

Now listen.  I know there are some twisted bosses out there.  I’m not talking about them.  I’m talking about normal situations.

So what did I do?  First of all, I didn’t look at him like my boss.  I just said, “Here is someone who is making it very clear how I can bless him.  It’s obvious.  It’s simple.  I can easily do it, and it will bless him.  Why wouldn’t I do it?”

“But Doug, you can’t give in to the boss like that.  Either you are a weakling or you are a suck up.”

I’m neither, because in the big picture I’m not just doing it for him.  I’m doing it for the Lord, to be a blessing to Him.

Ephesians 6:7 says, “Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men…”

When we bless people, we do it as unto the Lord knowing that doing something to people is doing it to Him.

So do you want to bless the Lord today?  Then do this.  If someone makes it obvious how you can bless them, and you can easily do it, then just do it, because blessing them is blessing the Lord.

Another obvious way to bless the Lord is to obey Him, to do what He already said He wants done.

If your son says he wants to bless you, but he hasn’t taken out the trash that you told him to take out three hours ago, what are you going to say?  You are going to say, “Son, the best way to bless me is to do what I already told you to do.”

In John 14 Jesus said, “If you love Me, you will obey what I command.”  In verse 21 He added, “Whoever has My commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves Me.”

So a great way to bless the Lord is to find out what He said, then do it.

Like I said, this thought has been marinating inside me for days now, and it has affected by attitudes as well as my actions.

I feel a gracious humility before the Lord, and a soft spot in my heart as I bow my head before Him and gently say, “Lord, I want to bless You.”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.



© 2010 The Arrow’s Tip 
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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When You Think There Is Nothing You Can Do About It - Apples of Gold - September 10, 2010 -vi-

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“When You Think There Is Nothing You Can Do About It”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

It was a beautiful Saturday morning!

All the summer world was bright and fresh and brimming with life, and there was a song in every heart!

Except Tom’s.

He stood on the sidewalk with a bucket of whitewash and a brush, and as he surveyed the fence, all gladness left him.  Thirty yards of boardfence nine feet high.

He dipped the brush and ran it along the top plank.  He did it again, then compared his insignificant streak to the far-reaching continent of unwhitewashed fence – and he sat down on a box, discouraged. 

He thought of the fun he had planned for this day, and his sorrows multiplied.  Soon the free boys would come tripping along on all sorts of delicious expeditions and they would make a world of fun of him for having to work – the very thought of it burnt him like fire.

He fished through his pockets to see if he could pay the other boys to do the work for him, but he could not. 

Suddenly, at this dark and hopeless moment, an inspiration burst upon him!  Nothing less than a great and magnificent inspiration!

Do you recognize this story from “The Adventures of Tom Sawyer” by Mark Twain?  Tom’s great idea was to make the whitewashing look like fun instead of work so that the other boys would want to do it, and pay him for the chance! 

One boy said to Tom, “Oh come, now, you don’t mean to let on that you like it?”

“Like it?” said Tom, “Well I don’t see why I oughtn’t to like it.  Does a boy get a chance to whitewash a fence every day?”

What you have here is a great example of resourcefulness.  Tom used his resourcefulness to get the fence painted without doing it himself, and without paying someone else.

We don’t hear a lot about resourcefulness these days, but it’s a great character trait.

Resourcefulness means making wise use of what you have, instead of wringing your hands about what you don’t have.

Resourcefulness is problem solving.  It’s finding a way where there seems to be no way.  It’s seeing things in a new light, with an open mind. 

Psychologist Karl Duncker created a test called The Candle Problem.*  You’re given a candle and matches and a box of thumbtacks, then you’re told to fix the candle on the wall in such a way that the wax doesn’t drip onto the table.

What would you do?  Maybe you would try to tack the candle to the wall.  Maybe you would try to use some melted wax to stick the candle to the wall. 

But here is what the most resourceful people do.  They dump the tacks out of the box, then tack the box to the wall.  The box then becomes the candle holder, fixing the candle to the wall and catching the wax. 

The less resourceful people only see the box as a container for the tacks, while the more resourceful people see the box as another tool to be used.

Resourcefulness means having an open mind to new possibilities, beyond what meets the eye.  What immediately met Tom Sawyer’s eye was the idea of paying boys to work for him.  But when he realized he couldn’t pay them, his resourcefulness kicked in.

Here is a great example of resourcefulness on the football field.  The quarterback calls the play in the huddle and the team goes to the line.  Then the quarterback notices something about the defense that he can take advantage of, so he calls an audible.  Instead of sticking with the original play, he resourcefully changes it to something that will work better, based on the new information.

Do you remember Jesus’ Parable of the Talents?  Three men were given money, but weren’t told what to do with it.  Two of them doubled what they were given.  How did they do it, especially with no instructions?  They used their resourcefulness.

An example of resourcefulness on a national scale is the story of Joseph in Egypt.  A famine was coming, so what should he do?  He used his resourcefulness to develop a massive and detailed plan to collect and store vast amounts of grain during the good years.  A less resourceful person may have just thrown up their hands and said, “Well, a famine is on the way and there is nothing we can do about it!”

Tom Sawyer might have said, “Well, I have to whitewash today and there is nothing I can do about it.”

The quarterback could have said, “Well, they’re going to blitz and there’s nothing I can do about it.”

And you might be in a tough spot today and saying the same thing, “There’s nothing I can do about it.”

Well there’s almost always something you can do about it, if you will just open your mind and be more resourceful. 


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


* http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Candle_Problem

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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Shallow Thinking Leads to Shallow People - Apples of Gold - September 9, 2010 -vi-

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Radio Script for September 9, 2010

“Shallow Thinking Leads to Shallow People”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

“Using Facebook ‘can lower exam results by up to 20%.’”

That was a newspaper headline this week,* referring to a new study which didn’t surprise me at all.

Some people say that kids are different these days, that they are used to multitasking and actually thrive on it.  Of course they can study and do Facebook at the same time.

There’s a new book out called “The Shallows:  What the Internet Is Doing to Our Brains” by Nicholas Carr.  Listen to what he wrote.

“The news is even more disturbing than I had suspected.  Dozens of studies by psychologists, neurobiologists, educators and web designers point to the same conclusion:  when we go online, we enter an environment that promotes cursory reading, hurried and distracted thinking, and superficial learning.”

“So what?” you say.

Well the “so what” is that shallow thinking leads to shallow people. 

Listen to one of Carr’s important findings.  Experiments show that more distractions equal less empathy and compassion.

Here’s an illustration.  It’s late at night and I am buried in a project.  My daughter walks in, and she has a problem.  I’m distracted by my project, so I quickly diagnose her problem and send her on her way.

But if she comes in with a problem when I’m not busy, I will sit and listen to her and find out what she’s going through.  I will have much more empathy and compassion because I am less distracted.

Distracted thinking leads to less empathy and compassion, as well as lower grades.

UCLA researchers experimented with distracted thinking and multitasking, and here is what they concluded.  It short circuits deeper understanding.  Yes, you get a lot of things done, but you lose the meaning of it all.

This was going on long before Facebook.  I remember doing homework while watching Gilligan’s Island.  Yes, I got the homework done, but I didn’t absorb the full impact of the information.  I was a shallow learner.

By the end of my college career I finally started to get it right.  I studied in the silent stacks of the library and found that zero distractions led to both faster and deeper learning.

Learning in silence.  Pondering.  Contemplating.  Concentrated thinking.  Meditating. 

If shallow thinking leads to shallow people, then deeper thinking leads to deeper people.

Here is one of my favorite scenes in the Bible.  It only takes up half a sentence, so you have to fill in the scene with your imagination.

Genesis 24:63 says, “…Isaac went out to meditate in the field at eventide…”

That’s all it says.  Did he walk out there or ride a horse?  Or a camel?  Was it amber waves of grain or rocky wilderness? 

Have you ever seen the famous painting of George Washington praying beside his horse at Valley Forge?  That’s how I picture Isaac meditating in the field.

Now you might think of meditating as some witless activity where you chant a mantra and let your brain waves flat line.  But when I think of meditating, I think of concentrated thinking. 

When I meditate on something, I take a thought and turn it over and over.  I look at the different angles and nuances and applications.  What does it mean?  Where did it start?  Where is it going? 

I block out all other thoughts and focus my thinking on one thing.  To me, that is meditation.

In Joshua 1:8, the nation of Israel was told, “Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it.  Then you will be prosperous and successful.”

Of course they were not careful to do everything in it, and much of the time they were not prosperous and successful.  Why not?  One reason is because they didn’t meditate on the Law.

The Psalm writers wrote about meditation, saying things like:  “I will meditate on Your precepts.”  “Meditate within your heart on your bed, and be still.”  “I will meditate on all Your works.”  “I will meditate on Your wonders.”  “I will meditate on Your decrees,” and “I will meditate on Your promises.”

Do you want to go deeper in your Christian life?  Then cut out some of the multitasking.  Block out the distractions and take time to meditate on God and His Word and His ways.  Let your thoughts run deep about what He wants and how to put His ways into practice. 

Shallow thinking leads to shallow people, but deeper thinking, deeper meditation on the things of God, leads to deeper people and a more fulfilling life.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.

* http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1309612/Using-Facebook-lower-exam-results-20.html

You can see portions of the book The Shallows here:  http://books.google.com/books?id=9-8jnjgYrgYC&printsec=frontcover&dq=%22nicholas+carr%22+%22the+shallows%22&hl=en&ei=Zo2HTKOgLMP_lgfN9LAG&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1&ved=0CCkQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q=distracted&f=false


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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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The Pull of Your Possessions - Apples of Gold - September 7, 2010 -vi-

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“The Pull of Your Possessions”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

What did you invest your money in as a child?

You probably weren’t buying stocks and bonds and real estate at 12, but most American kids got money from someone for something, and the question is, what did they do with it?

When I was a kid, the girls were spending their money on things like Barbie clothes, while we boys were buying baseball cards.  I would get a dime, or on a good day fifty cents, and would go down to the Red & White store and buy packs of Topps baseball cards with that flat stick of pink bubble gum. 

Over the years I bought a lot of sports cards, and graduated from buying single packs to whole boxes to complete sets.  Then I began ordering my favorite old cards from dealers and suddenly, the magic was gone.  The challenge to obtain certain cards disappeared when I realized you could simply buy any card you wanted.

So when I hit my teen years I stopped buying sports cards and started investing in something much more substantial:  records!

Do you remember the old Columbia House record club?  You could join for just one penny and get like 15 of your favorite albums.  It was a great way to build your collection and I can’t tell you how many times I joined.

So through my teenage years I invested in music – albums, 45s, cassettes and yes, even some 8-tracks.

Now if you’re keeping score, that means by the time I was 20 I had invested my money in two main categories:  sports cards and music.

And then I answered the call to surrender my life to the Lord.  My new life in Christ was so captivating that those old collections lost their meaning to me.

Like the old song says, the things of this world grew strangely dim in the light of His glory and grace.

It doesn’t mean we can’t have things in this world, but it does mean that they can’t have us.

First John 2:15 says, “Do not love the world or anything in the world…”

As Christians, we are to love the Lord and our fellowman, but we are not to love the things in this world.

It’s almost like two planets with their own gravitational pull.  We are drawn toward God, but we are also drawn toward the things of the world.

Remember the story Jesus told of the rich young man in Matthew 19?  He was drawn toward God, so he inquired of Jesus – who saw the gravitational pull on the young man.  So He told him to sell all he had, give the money to the poor, and follow Him. 

The young man was torn.  He felt the pull of God, but he also felt the pull of his possessions.  Finally, “he went away sorrowful,” the Bible says, “for he had great possessions.”

I don’t know how great his possessions actually were, but he thought they were great – great enough to pull him away from the exciting adventure of following Christ.

There is a pivotal scene in that story, and I picture it in slow motion.  Jesus told the rich young man what to do, and then there was a pause. 

The moment hangs there, like it’s paused on your DVD player.  Now move your DVD forward one frame at a time – click, click, click – and there it is.  The man’s eyes drop.  He breaks eye contact with Jesus – and do you believe in body language?  Well here the man sends an astounding message in body language to Jesus.  He turns his back on Him.  He moves away from Jesus and toward his possessions. 

I wonder how many times we have done this.  The Lord is pulling us toward something exciting, but then our possessions pull us back toward them. 

The gravity of ball cards and records lost their pull on me, but then came cars and homes and big boy toys.  The more money we make, the more opportunities we have to send that body language to Jesus, to turn our back on Him and move towards our “great possessions.”

So today, let’s take a good look at our possessions and their place in our heart.  Do they come before God and people?  Do we love our possessions?

Think about these two gravitational pulls, then answer this question.

Which will you surrender to:  the pull of the Lord, or the pull of your possessions?

 
Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.



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Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Sarcastic Comments and Negative Nicknames - Apples of Gold - September 2, 2010 -vi-

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“Sarcastic Comments and Negative Nicknames”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Yes, Apple is my real name.

And no, no relation to the computer.

A lot of people think that since I’m on the radio, Apple must be an “air name.”  But no, Apple was my dad’s name and his dad’s name and on and on, at least as far back as the Revolutionary War. 

In school, some kids liked to poke fun at the name Apple.  I didn’t like it, but later I realized that some kids are going to find something to make fun of no matter what, and in my case the name was such an easy target it kept them away from more personal things. 

I remember one old guy telling me about his school buddies, and he remembered them all by their nicknames.  And get this, most of them sounded negative, names like shorty or fatty or squeaky or gopher or humpty.

I noticed there was no “Joltin’ Joe” or “Stan the Man,” nothing like “The Iron Horse” or even “Primetime.” 

And that’s the way I remember it.  Nicknames tended to be negative, picking on some less-than-stellar quality.

But that’s just school kids, right?  Only bratty boys make fun of friends.

But no!  I’ve seen this spill over into the church.  I’ve heard pastors poke fun at their deacons or their assistants in front of the congregation, and everyone laughs at the great fun.  I’ve heard Christian businessmen mock their employees.  Of course it goes the other way, too.  Christians mock their pastors and employees mock their boss. 

Yes, I realize that sometimes it can be done respectfully and no one gets hurt, but that is a very fine line.  How do you make sarcastic comments about someone without hurting them? 

I guess it’s possible that someone could be on the receiving end and not be hurt, but I wouldn’t like it.  If my pastor stood in front of the congregation and poked fun at me, or if my wife started mocking me in front of our friends, my disapproval would boil over.

People don’t like to be mocked because it shows disrespect.  People don’t like to be the butt of jokes.  People don’t like negative nicknames and sarcastic comments about them.

It’s one thing to be treated like that in the world.  The world is a rough place where people let their sin nature run amuck. 

But in the church?  No one should be treated like this in the church.  And no Christians should be treating anyone this way.

If you are a Christian, you should not be cutting other people down.  You shouldn’t make negative, sarcastic comments about people just to get a laugh.  You shouldn’t tag people with negative nicknames, and you shouldn’t use such nicknames even if everyone else does.

You know that guy everyone calls Fatty?  Get him alone sometime and ask him what he would prefer to be called.  If he genuinely prefers Fatty, fine.  Some guys probably do.  But some guys probably don’t, and you can find out by asking.

I’ve done this many times, asked people what they preferred to be called.  My favorite response was, “I don’t care what people call me, as long as they call me for dinner.”

Now see, that’s sarcasm that didn’t hurt anyone.  Yes, it is possible to use sarcasm as good humor, as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone in the process.

The church is to be a place of love.  We Christians are to be known by our love.  We should love one another so much that there are no doubts, that even outsiders say, “Boy, those people really love each another.” 

And that should come out in the comments we make, and the names we call each other. 

Ephesians 4:29 says, “Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.”

The NIV says we should only say “what is helpful for building others up according to their needs…”

So think about it.  Do you poke fun at people to get a laugh?  Do you make sarcastic comments or toss out little “zingers” or put downs? 

Is it possible, even remotely possible, that those people are hurt in some way by your comments? 

If so, then stop saying them.  Excise them from your vocabulary.

The church is to be a place of love, and we Christians should be known by our love, and that includes the comments we make and the nicknames we call each other.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.



© 2010 The Arrow’s Tip 
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Be Ye Also Ready - Apples of Gold - September 1, 2010 -vi-

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“Be Ye Also Ready”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

“The wrath of God abides on him.”

That is not a place you want to be.  You do not want the wrath of God “abiding” on you.

What does that mean?

It’s something Jesus said in John 3:36.  He said, “He who believes in the Son has everlasting life; and he who does not believe the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him.”

If you want to get a glimpse of the wrath of God, check out Revelation 14 verses 9 through 11.  An angel cried out with a loud voice and said, “If anyone worships the beast and his image, and receives his mark on his forehead or on his hand, he himself shall also drink of the wine of the wrath of God, which is poured out full strength into the cup of His indignation. He shall be tormented with fire and brimstone in the presence of the holy angels and in the presence of the Lamb. And the smoke of their torment ascends forever and ever; and they have no rest day or night, who worship the beast and his image, and whoever receives the mark of his name.”

That’s the wrath of God on those who reject Him and receive the mark of the beast in the end times.  So if you thought of God as the old grandfather upstairs who wouldn’t hurt a flea, think again.  It says that some people will drink the wine of his wrath, and will be tormented with fire and brimstone.

That is not a place you want to be.

Now back to John 3:36.  Jesus said, “Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on him.”

You do not want God’s wrath to remain on you, so what can you do?  Believe in the Son.  Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, Jesus said.

After the description of God’s wrath in Revelation 14, the Apostle John heard a voice from heaven say, “Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on.”

That’s what happens to those who believe in the Son of God; when they die they “die in the Lord.”

So would you rather believe in the Son and die in the Lord, or reject the Son and die under the wrath of God?

Yesterday a young man died suddenly in Tallahassee.  A Rickards High School student was crossing the street to get to his school bus and he was hit by a car. 

Monday a school bus driver in Jefferson County, FL died suddenly.  She was driving along, slipped off the edge of the road and slammed into a tree. 

I was talking to a pastor friend of mine about this this morning and here were his parting words, “Be ye also ready.”

“Be ye also ready?  That must be some kind of Bible thing,” I thought, so I looked it up.

Sure enough, there it was, in Matthew 24.  Jesus said, “Therefore be ye also ready, for in such an hour as ye think not the Son of man cometh.”

Now you might think that’s talking about the second coming of Christ, and you might think that’s way off in the future.

But listen.  It doesn’t matter if He’s coming for everyone today.  It only matters if He’s coming for you.

Back to Revelation 14; John wrote, “Then I looked, and behold, a white cloud, and on the cloud sat One like the Son of Man, having on His head a golden crown, and in His hand a sharp sickle.  And another angel came out of the temple, crying with a loud voice to Him who sat on the cloud, ‘Thrust in Your sickle and reap, for the time has come for You to reap, for the harvest of the earth is ripe.’  So He who sat on the cloud thrust in His sickle on the earth, and the earth was reaped.”

“Aw, Doug, that’s some kind of end times stuff.”

Listen.  It doesn’t matter if He’s coming to reap the whole earth today.  It only matters if He’s coming to reap you.  It doesn’t matter if it’s the final harvest; it only matters if it’s your final harvest.

Be ye also ready.

“So how can I be ready?”

Believe in the name of the only begotten Son of God.  Believe in Jesus Christ.  Believe that He came to earth, shed His blood and died for your sins then rose from the dead.

Repent of your sins and ask God to forgive you and cleanse you from all unrighteousness.

Repent and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, like it says in Acts 2:38, “and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.”

Then by the Holy Spirit you will be sealed until the day of redemption. 

You don’t know when your personal “day of redemption” will come, so why wait?  Get right with God now.  Today is the day of salvation.

Heed the words spoken by Jesus, and repeated by my pastor friend this very morning.

Be ye also ready.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.



© 2010 The Arrow’s Tip 
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Make Your Christian Life Come Alive - Apples of Gold - August 31, 2010 ***Happy Birthday to my brother Tim!***-vi-

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“Make Your Christian Life Come Alive”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

“Don’t scare the dove away!”

That was the lighthearted banter around our dinner table.

Yesterday I talked about how the Holy Spirit is pictured like a dove in the Bible, and I quoted Ephesians 4:30 which says, “…do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God.”

Just as a grieving person withdraws, I picture the Holy Spirit withdrawing when we grieve Him.

So back to our dinner table – if someone said something harsh or off-kilter, someone else would say, “Don’t scare the dove away!”

That’s not theologically sound, but what we’re saying is, “Don’t grieve the Holy Spirit.”

If you are a true Christian, the Holy Spirit dwells inside of you.  First Corinthians 6:19 says, “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?”

God’s Holy Spirit lives inside of us.

When we were saved, God sent us a teacher, a mentor, a guide – the Holy Spirit.  Yes, I realize some nuts out there have hijacked the phrase “spirit guide,” but in essence, that’s what we have, a spirit guide, as in the Holy Spirit of God.

We are to walk in step with the Spirit and bear the fruit of the Spirit.

How does that happen, by magic? 

No, it happens as our mentor, the Holy Spirit, leads us and we follow.  He speaks to us and we listen.

In John 14 Jesus called the Holy Spirit the Counselor or the Helper, and described Him as a teacher.

In John 16 Jesus described the Holy Spirit as one who convicts and one who speaks.

Second Corinthians 13 talks about the fellowship and the communion of the Holy Spirit.

Galatians five talks about being led by the Spirit, and verse 16 says, “…live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature.”

So how do we “live by the Spirit”?  This is a super important question because if we do so, we can avoid the traps of sin.

The key is to hear or to sense the voice of the Holy Spirit inside of us. 

“Now hold your horses, Doug.  If everyone just starts listening to the voices in their head, we’re going to go off the deep end real quick.”

Very true.  Not every thing inside your head is the Holy Spirit, just like not every report on the internet is true. 

I went to college to be a news reporter, and one thing we were taught is crosschecking.  You crosscheck your facts.  You don’t just believe one source; you see if the same thing comes from two or three sources.

So, for example, you try to hear the Holy Spirit inside of you, and you crosscheck that with the Bible, and with some Godly wise counsel, such as your pastor.

This is the great thing about having a real, living God.  This is not some made up religion.  He is alive and His Spirit is inside of us to guide us!

Now back to what we talked about yesterday.  If we grieve the Holy Spirit and He withdraws in some way, then how can we hear Him? 

We joked about the dove flying away because of some off-kilter comment, but what if there is some truth to that?  What if the Holy Spirit is deeply sensitive and easily grieved by sins and offenses and anything tainted?

It makes sense, doesn’t it, that if anyone is easily grieved by such things it would be the Holy Spirit, right?

So what if we made it our goal to not grieve the Holy Spirit?  We won’t say anything that grieves Him.  We won’t do anything that grieves Him.  We won’t participate in anything that grieves Him.  We will walk away, we will leave the room.

This is not a rock solid analogy, but what if your sister had just lost a child, and anytime she saw children she was extremely grieved.  If you walked in a room with your sister and she suddenly saw children and wanted to leave, wouldn’t you leave? 

In the same way, when we encounter something that grieves the Holy Spirit, shouldn’t we leave?  Even if it’s in our own thoughts, shouldn’t we leave that thought?  If it’s something we see, shouldn’t we turn away?

What if we made a super-conscious effort to avoid anything that grieves the Holy Spirit?  Would we suddenly have a much deeper fellowship and communion with God?  Would we sense His presence in much greater ways?  Would we start to experience all the joys we read about in the Bible?

Could it all come down to the fact that we have been grieving the Holy Spirit?

So why not do this?  Pray and make a commitment for a certain time, maybe a day, maybe a week, but for a certain time you commit to not be part of anything that grieves the Holy Spirit.  Then listen for His voice, be sensitive to His prompting, His nudging.

And every time you think the Spirit might be grieved, make a move.  Get away from it or stop doing it. 

For a set time, avoid anything that grieves the Holy Spirit, and I suspect that your Christian life will come alive like it’s never come alive before.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


* The thought occurred to me that this would be like integrity on steroids! – avoiding everything that grieved the Holy Spirit.

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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Find Out What Grieves the Holy Spirit, and Stop Doing It - Apples of Gold - August 30, 2010 -vi-

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“Find Out What Grieves the Holy Spirit, and Stop Doing It”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

“From veteran pastor to younger pastor, what is the one piece of advice you would give me?”

That’s what a young pastor asked Dr. R.T. Kendall, who was the pastor for a quarter century at Westminster Chapel in London, and who spoke in Tallahassee this weekend.

So what do you think he said to that younger pastor? 

What advice would you give?

Maybe you would have told him to “stay in the Word,” or “be disciplined in prayer.”  You might have said, “Don’t let worldly ideas creep into your thinking,” or “don’t forsake your family while doing church work.”

Well here is what R.T. Kendall said, his one piece of advice to younger pastors:  find out what grieves the Holy Spirit, and stop doing it.

Here it is again.  Find out what grieves the Holy Spirit, and stop doing it.

Ephesians 4:30 says, “…do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God…”

What does it mean to “grieve” the Holy Spirit?

I like what Charles Spurgeon said.  Grief is a combination of anger and love.* 

Yes, there is anger at the offense, but since there is also great love for the person, the combination becomes grief.  The Spirit of God, who loves us so much, is grieved when we are part of anything offensive, anything unholy or unrighteous; anything that is sin.

What do grieving people usually do?  They withdraw.  They pull away.  You hear from them less. 

Dr. Kendall said it is fitting that the Holy Spirit is represented by the dove.  He said the dove is a sensitive creature, and will withdraw without much provocation.

So if you don’t want the Holy Spirit to withdraw, then don’t grieve Him.

What grieves the Holy Spirit? 

Well the Bible doesn’t include a precise “grief list,” but Galatians 5 gives us some idea.  It says, “…the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature.  They are in conflict with each other…”

Then it says, “The acts of the sinful nature are obvious:  sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like.”

I would say that if you want to make a list of things that grieve the Spirit, that’s a pretty good start.

Find out what grieves the Holy Spirit, and stop doing it.

Do you want God’s blessings in your life?  Do you want His anointing?  Do you want His power flowing through you?  Do you want a living and vibrant relationship with the Lord?  Do you want to be able to read your Bible and get something out of it?  Do you want incredible times of prayer?  Do you want to be able to reach others and change the world in Jesus’ name?

Then find out what grieves the Holy Spirit and stop doing it.

Sin grieves the Holy Spirit.

“But Doug, we can’t stop sinning.”

Jesus told people to stop sinning.  For example, when he healed the man at the Pool of Bethesda in John 5:14.  “See,” Jesus said, “you have been made well.  Sin no more, lest a worse thing come upon you.”

Sometimes I think we have the idea that we can do certain things and it will be okay because, after all, we are children of the King!  We are saved by grace!  Our sins are forgiven, forgotten, forever! 

But if we are casual about sin, about unholiness and unrighteousness, we are in danger of grieving the Spirit of God, and something bad will come of it.

Sin no more lest a worse thing come upon you.

But if we sin, we can repent and ask for forgiveness and be “cleansed from all unrighteousness.”  In a sense, we can “ungrieve” the Holy Spirit.  We can be clean before God and renew our fellowship with His Spirit.

And that’s where we want to be, walking in fellowship with the Holy Spirit.  Second Corinthians 13:14 refers to the “communion of the Holy Spirit.”

Galatians 5:25 talks about keeping “in step with the Spirit.”

We want to be walking in the Spirit, hearing from the Spirit and receiving from the Spirit.  We want the Holy Spirit to bear His wonderful fruit in our lives.

And all the more so if we are in a place of Christian leadership, which brings us back to that great answer by Dr. R.T. Kendall.  When asked what one piece of advice he would give to a young pastor, he simply said this.

“Find out what grieves the Holy Spirit, and stop doing it.”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


* http://www.spurgeon.org/sermons/0278.htm

© 2010 The Arrow’s Tip 
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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If a Man Lies to You, Will He Steal From You? - Apples of Gold - August 27, 2010 -vi-

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“If a Man Lies to You, Will He Steal From You?”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Listen to this old saying and see what you think.

“If a man will lie to you, he will steal from you.”

Do you think that’s true?

I realize it’s more of a proverb than a statement of fact, but let’s take a look at it.

If a man will lie to you, will he also steal from you?

Well the risk is higher when stealing.  People make a bigger deal out of it.  They call the police.  They press charges.  Your name ends up in the paper.

So because the risk is higher, a man who will lie to you may not steal from you.

But if he lies to you, you do know this.  He is motivated by something other than high principles and moral character.

If a man steals a pen, will he steal a car?  If he steals a car, will he commit murder? 

Obviously it’s less risky to steal a pen, so a man may easily do one without coming close to the other.

But this is a man you need to keep an eye on!

“What?  A man who steals a pen?”

Yes.  When a man steals a pen, he reveals something of his character.  You know that he is willing to break a solid moral law if the risk is low.

If that is true, what would he do in a Nazi Germany?  Would he stand up to the immoral tide, or would he be willing to break the moral law?

What we are looking at is a man’s core motivation.  What will he do and why?

Some men will do whatever they can get away with.  If they don’t think they can get away with it, they won’t do it.  But if they think they can get away it?  Look out because that is exactly what they will.

But a Christian man does not try to “get away” with things.  He knows that God sees all, and that there’s really no such thing as getting away with things. 

A Christian man wants to do what is right in God’s eyes.  His core motivation is to please God above himself and others.

His constant prayer is, “Will this please You, Lord?”

If pleasing God is a man’s motivation, then what happens when he thinks about stealing that pen?  He will decide not to because it will not please the Lord. 

This is a man who is guided by higher principles and character.  His decisions are not situational; they’re not based on risk and punishment.  His decisions are based on what is right and good, regardless of the cost.

This man will not steal from you or lie to you, because they both displease the Lord.

Paul said in Acts 24:16, “I myself always strive to have a conscience without offense toward God and men.”

That is the goal, to be clean before God and man. 

We are to do good in all situations, and when we do, God will reward us.  Ephesians 6:8 says, “…the Lord will reward everyone for whatever good he does…”

So back to the original question:  If a man will lie to you, will he steal from you?

He may or he may not, but either way he is not a man of the highest moral character, and not someone we should imitate.

Instead, we are to be people who seek to please the Lord, who choose to do right and good, no matter who is watching, and no matter what we think we can get away with.


Comments?

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May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.



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