My Wife is Not My Rock - Apples of Gold - May 30, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 30, 2008

“My Wife is Not My Rock”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

My wife is my companion, but she is not my rock.

God and God alone is my rock, my sure foundation.

Now let me tell you, that takes an incredible amount of pressure off of a marriage.

Don’t get me wrong, I love my wife, and I am a strong advocate of marriage, the two become one, ‘til death do us part, the whole kit and caboodle – especially the caboodle.

But sometimes we elevate our marriage and our spouse almost to the point of idolatry.

Recently I heard about an older woman whose husband died.  Her son said that she just never recovered.  Her grief became depression, and she could not go on without her husband.  She just gave up, and died shortly thereafter.

I understand the grief, but to me, this man was the foundation of her life – a position that only God should fill; that only God can fill.

When I die I’m sure my wife will grieve.  Or she’ll at least notice I’m gone.  But my hope and prayer is that the Lord is the rock in her life, and that no matter what storms come along, she will not be shaken.

At our wedding I had a friend sing a song that doesn’t sound very weddingish.  It’s called “I Pledge My Head to Heaven” by Keith Green.

The second verse says:
“I pledge my wife to heaven, for the Gospel,
Though our love each passing day just seems to grow.
As I told her when we wed, I’d surely rather be found dead,
Than to love her more than the One who saved my soul.”

Some wives might have taken offense at that.  They want to be first. 

But if your spouse ever comes before God, my friend, you are building on sand.

But when God comes first, you are building on rock, which means a stable marriage, a stable home and a stable family.

My wife is not under pressure to be my all-in-all.  I am not clinging to her or sucking the life out of her. 

No person can be your salvation.  They just can’t be.

That is God’s role, and His alone.

Psalm 18 is all about God as our rock.  Verse 2 says, “The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge.”

Verse 31 says, “For who is God besides the Lord?  And who is the Rock except our God?”

And verse 46 says, “The Lord lives!  Praise be to my Rock!”

Yes, we should put our spouse high on the list.  Of all the people in the world, they should be number one.  They are the only person God says we become one with.  That makes them the most important person in our lives.

But in the end, they are just a person, another human being.  They make for a great companion, but they are not suited for being the foundation of our lives.

For that we turn to the Lord Almighty.  We are to put Him first, to love Him first, to serve Him first.  We are to seek Him first and obey Him.  We are to take up our cross and follow Him.

In a figurative sense, a husband and wife are not to look at each other.  Instead, we should both have our eyes fixed on Jesus.  Like it says in Hebrews 12:2, “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith.”

When married people fix their eyes on Jesus, they end up walking in the same direction.  They have the same priorities.  They become servants to one another, not because they need each other, not because they are codependent, but because they are servants of the Most High.

So is your marriage feeling a little shaky today?  Maybe what you need to do is not focus on your marriage.  Maybe you need to take your eyes off your marriage altogether and fix them on Jesus.  And if both of you fix your eyes on Jesus - well, you’ve got it made.

Remember, your spouse can be your companion, but only God can be your Rock.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Let's Major in the Majors - Apples of Gold - May 29, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 29, 2008

“Let’s Major in the Majors”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

I read them all.

Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.

Not every word, just the red ones.

Then I tallied it up.

My goal was to find out what Jesus taught about the most.  I figured if it showed up a bunch of times, it must be more important.

This will help me get my priorities straight.  Put first things first.  Major in the majors.

It all started when I read Matthew 7:24 where Jesus said, “…everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.”  I thought, “Well, what did Jesus teach that I can actually put into practice?”

So I read through the four Gospels with sheets of paper beside me.  Every time I came across a teaching of Jesus, I wrote it down.  Then I grouped them together and added them up.

You gotta picture the scene.  All this paper with scribbled notes and hash marks.  All the decisions, “Does it go in this group or this group?”

I did all that, and guess what?  I came up with a result that is really no surprise.

Here is the thing that Jesus taught about most:  Loving and serving God.

In Mark 12 Jesus was asked, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”  Jesus said the most important commandment is, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.”

Yes, I knew that before I did my little study.  But it was kind of an eye-opener when I finished my research and found that this is what He taught about the most – loving and serving God.

He taught it from many angles.  He said things like take up your cross, and lose your life, and follow Him, and seek first His kingdom, and fear God, and store up treasures in heaven.  He said we should obey God and hold to His teachings and do what He said.

On and on Jesus went, driving home the number one point.  God comes first.  It’s all about Him and His kingdom and His word and His Son and His Spirit.

Now let’s go back to Matthew 7:24.  What did Jesus teach that I can actually put into practice?  The thing He taught about most was this:  loving and serving God.

So what did Jesus teach about the second most? 

Once again, after I did all that work, it’s really no surprise.  After Jesus said that loving God was the most important commandment, He went on to tell us the second most important commandment, “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

When I added it all up, this is what Jesus taught about the second most.  He said things like do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and be reconciled to your brother, be a servant to all, and even love your enemies.  There are a lot of ways to say it, but they all fit nicely in the category of Love Your Neighbor.

So what did Jesus teach about third most?

By my count that would be having faith and believing.  Over and over we are told to have faith, and believe in God, and believe in Jesus.  The book of John is especially full of teaching about believing.

What did Jesus teach about fourth most?  Prayer.

We are told to ask and agree and come to Him and pray in His name.  We are even told to pray for those who persecute us and mistreat us.  We are to pray and not give up.

Now let’s talk about character traits.  What character traits did Jesus teach about most?

Obviously the far and away most important character trait is love.  Christians should be known first and foremost by their love.

Next we find a character trait that Jesus taught about often:  humility.  We are to be humble, childlike, servants.  He used words like last and least and lesser.  Christians should be known by their great humility and their servant’s heart.

Here’s another thing Jesus spoke about a lot:  letting our light shine to others.  That includes making disciples, preaching the Gospel, bringing in the harvest, calling others to come to the Lord, reaching out and bringing them in.

These all seem obvious, don’t they?  Love God.  Love people.  Have faith.  Pray a lot.  Be humble.  Tell others about God.

Is there anything on the list that isn’t obvious?  Here’s one that might surprise you.  Jesus taught a lot about watching the signs of the times.  It’s the idea of being ready, being watchful and alert.  He sums it up in Luke 21:28, “When these things begin to take place, stand up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near.”

And finally, here are the last few things that Jesus taught about somewhat often in the Gospels:
--Bearing good fruit and using what we’ve been given.
--Watching out for false prophets and deceivers.
--Forgiving people.
--Giving to people in need. 
--And watching what we say.

And that is my list of what Jesus taught about most that we can actually put into practice.  If we do these things, we will be majoring in the majors.  Yes, He taught about a lot of other things, but if it’s not on this list, then it doesn’t show up very often in the Gospels.

This is how we build our life on the rock.  By hearing these words of Jesus, and putting them into practice.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
 Let me tell you, it was such a blessing to pour myself into the study of Jesus’ words!

And no wonder.  In John 6:63 Jesus said, “The words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life.”

In John 8:31-32 Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."   Then in verse 36 He said, “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.”

In John 15:10-11 Jesus said, “If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.”

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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All About Grace - Apples of Gold - May 28, 2008 -vi-

At the end there is a unique medley of Amazing Grace I cobbled together to play on the radio.  It features various artists, and I wonder how many you can name.

To listen, go to our website, www.wave94.com, look at the Apples of Gold section on the right, and click on Today’s Audio. 

I will give you a head start.  The man singing “I was blind…” is Ray Charles.

 

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 28, 2008

“All About Grace”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Let’s take a look at what the Bible says about grace.  This includes no commentary by me.  Just Bible.

Before the beginning of time, God’s grace was given to us in Christ Jesus.  (2 Timothy 1:9)

Though He was rich, through grace He became poor for our sakes.  (2 Corinthians 8:9)

When He came as a child, the grace of God was upon Him.  (Luke 2:40)

He was called “The One and Only, full of grace.”  (John 1:14)

The law was given through Moses, but grace came through Jesus Christ.  (John 1:17)

And now God, the God of all grace, calls us by the grace of Christ.  (1 Peter 5:10 and Galatians 1:6)

Through Him and for His name’s sake, we received grace.  (Romans 1:5)

It is by grace that we believe.  (Acts 18:27)

And we who believe receive God’s abundant provision of grace.  (Romans 5:17)

We are justified freely by His grace, having the hope of eternal life.  (Romans 3:24 and Titus 3:7)

It is through the grace of our Lord Jesus that we are saved.  (Acts 15:11)

It is by grace we are saved.  It is the gift of God.  (Ephesians 2:8)

We do not set aside the grace of God.  (Galatians 2:21)

Where sin increased, grace increased all the more.  (Romans 5:20)

Sin shall not be our master, because we are under grace.  (Romans 6:14)

His grace is sufficient.  (2 Corinthians 12:9)

His grace is a surpassing grace.  (2 Corinthians 9:14)

God shows us His kindness through the incomparable riches of His grace.  (Ephesians 2:7)

Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may find grace to help in time of need.  (Hebrews 4:16)

And God is able to make all grace abound to us, so that we have everything we need.  (2 Corinthians 9:8)

From the fullness of His grace we have all received one blessing after another.  (John 1:16)

God’s grace builds us up and gives us an inheritance.  (Acts 20:32)

He has called us to a holy life, not because of us, but because of His grace.  (2 Timothy 1:9)

So we walk in holiness, not according to worldly wisdom, but according to God’s grace.  (2 Corinthians 1:12)

We are strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus.  (2 Timothy 2:1)

It is in this grace that we now stand.  (Romans 5:2)

We set our hope fully on this grace.  (1 Peter 1:13)

The promise comes by grace, and that grace, from the One man Jesus Christ, overflows to the many.  (Romans 4:16 and 5:15)

This grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men.  (Titus 2:11)

We must see to it that no one misses the grace of God.  (Hebrews 12:15)

At the present time there is a remnant chosen by grace, and this is the task the Lord Jesus has given us – to testify to the gospel of God’s grace.  (Romans 11:5 and Acts 20:24)

He who testifies to these things says, “Yes, I am coming soon.”  Amen.  Come, Lord Jesus.  (Revelation 22:20)

The grace of the Lord Jesus be with God’s people.  Amen.  (Revelations 22:21)


(close with medley of various artists and various versions of “Amazing Grace.”)

To listen, go to this link:  http://www.wave94.com/audio/apples/2008/05may/28.mp3

 
© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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How Do You Feel About Your Boss Today? - Apples of Gold - May 27, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 27, 2008

“How Do You Feel About Your Boss Today?”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Most of us are employees. 

We work for someone who pays us.

That gives them a certain power in our lives.

When you have a job, and when you actually need that paycheck, not for “blow money,” but to pay for your basic necessities – then your employer plays a key role in your life.

So how do you feel about your boss today?  Do you really like them, or do they act like they’ve sold their soul to the devil?

And what does the Bible say?  Does the Bible offer any advice to employees?

Well, if you search most versions of the Bible, you won’t find the word “employee.”  It’s not even in the Amplified Bible.  So now what?

When I can’t find a reference to my specific situation, then I start looking for the heart of God based on similar situations.  And something similar to an employee is…a slave.

Now don’t laugh!  I’m not saying employees are slaves.  But when I read the advice for slaves in the New Testament, I think I see the heart of God for employees.

First Peter 2:18 says, “Slaves, submit yourselves to your masters…”

That means surrender to their will.  When your boss tells you to do something you don’t want to do, don’t fight.  Just surrender.  Let your will become their will.

“Okay, I’ll do it, but I’ll let everyone know I think it’s dumb.”

Back to verse 18.  It says to submit to your masters “with all respect.”  That means yes, we do what they say, but even more than that, we show them “all respect” while doing it.

“Sure, Doug, but you don’t know my boss.  He doesn’t deserve respect.”

Okay.  Back to verse 18.  It says to show respect, “not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh.”

“But Doug, I don’t deserve to be treated this way.”

Let’s say you don’t.  Your boss treats you harshly and you don’t deserve it.  Now what? 

First Peter 2:19 says it is commendable to put up with it.  Verse 20 says, “…if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God.”  Then it talks about how Jesus suffered when He didn’t deserve it. 

Now what if your boss is so bad that they are breaking the law?  Do you let them get away with it? 

No.  In that case the law is the higher authority.  You need to take steps to hold them accountable.

But usually tough bosses aren’t breaking the law.  They’re just tough.  Maybe unpleasant.  You might think of them as “slave drivers.”

Or maybe you think they just don’t know what they are doing.  Yet they are your boss, telling you what to do. 

Ephesians 6:5 says, “Slaves, obey your earthly masters…just as you would obey Christ.” 

Now listen to this.  I think when your boss tells you to do something, unless it is a sin, then that becomes the will of God in your life. 

Look at Ephesians 6:6.  “Obey them…like slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart.”

This is how we should think as employees.  When our boss says it, it is like God saying it.  When we do what our boss says, it is like doing what God says.  It is doing the will of God.

Ephesians 6:7 says, “Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men…”

See, when our boss tells us to do something, we don’t think of it as doing something for them.  We think of it as doing something for God. 

“God, if this is what You want me to do, I will do it.  I will do it respectfully, and sincerely, and I will do it with all my heart – for You.”

Now let’s look at a big temptation for employees.  It’s tempting to work hard when the boss is watching, but then to slack off when he isn’t.  We work harder at jobs we will be accountable for, but if we think no one really cares, we get lazy.

That won’t happen when we do every job as if we are serving the Lord.  Colossians 3:22 says, “Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you…”

Sometimes we slack off when we don’t see a pay off.  But with the Lord, there is always a payoff.  Colossians 3:24 says the Lord will reward us.  When we work, we are working for Him.

Titus 2:9 indicates that we should not talk back to our employer.

Verse 10 says we should not steal from them.

We should work in such a way that our boss knows they can fully trust us, whether they are around or not.  We won’t disrespect them behind their back, and we won’t slack off when they’re not looking.

Titus 2:10 puts the icing on the cake.  As Christian employees, when we behave like this on the job, it makes the Gospel more attractive to our employers.

As Christians, we should stand out in the workplace.  And it will happen as we realize it’s not about serving men, but in our job, everyday, we are actually the servants of God.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
You might say, “But my boss doesn’t want me to advance.  If I do what he says, I will be stuck below him forever.”  Well here is a verse for you.  Proverbs 22:29 says,  “Do you see a man skilled in his work?  He will serve before kings; he will not serve before obscure men.”  So do your best work possible, and you are bound to advance.

Also, the Bible doesn’t say that slaves had to be slaves forever.  First Corinthians 7:21 says, “…if you can gain your freedom, do so.”  If your boss is like a harsh slave master, you are not bound to stay there.  Yes, do your best while you are there.  But “if you can gain your freedom, do so.”

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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The Big Six - Apples of Gold - May 23, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 23, 2008

“The Big Six”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

“What does God want me to do?”

Have you ever considered “The Big Six?”

“The Big Six?  What’s the Big Six?”

Jesus gave us The Big Six in Matthew chapter 25.

These are six things God is checking on.  In student lingo, yes, these six are going to be on the final exam.

God is watching to see how we treat people who are in need, and Jesus broke these needs down into six categories.

The first need He mentioned is hunger.  Are we providing food for people who are hungry? 

I think one reason that America has been so blessed is because we are great at this.  We have welfare programs for our citizens, and we send food to the needy abroad. 

The second need He mentioned is thirst.  Are we meeting the needs of the thirsty?

Most of us can’t relate to this because in America, even if food might take a little effort, you can get a free drink just about anywhere.  Just go to the nearest water fountain. 

But that is not the case in other parts of the world.  I read an article in the Washington Post that said about one billion people lack safe water.  It said that we use more clean water in one flush of the toilet than most Africans have to perform an entire day’s washing, cleaning, cooking and drinking.*

Some of the world’s conflicts are over water.  For example, the tragedy in Darfur was driven in part by tensions over water.  Between the warfare and the drought, clean water is an incredible need in Darfur, and many relief agencies are trying to help.

Number three in the Big Six is the need for shelter.  Are we helping people find shelter?

This is a problem in America because adequate shelter is costly.  Most of us have shelter, so the next question is, what are we doing to help those who don’t?

These first three needs are critical in times of natural disaster.  For example, one report I heard said that the earthquake in China left 5 million people homeless.  That’s about like the entire state of Alabama losing their homes.

In Myanmar, after the cyclone, I don’t know how many hundreds of thousands of people are in need of food, water and shelter.  I do know that a $100 gift to World Vision provides one family with a survival kit that includes emergency food with a cooking set, clean water, and temporary shelter.**

No, your neighbors may not be lacking food, water and shelter.  But you don’t have to look far to find millions of people who are. 

Number four of Jesus’ Big Six is clothing.  As far as I can tell, we seem to be doing a great job of clothing the needy.  Clothing is one of those things that you can use yourself, and then share with someone else, and the same item of clothing can end up clothing several people in its lifetime. 

In America we have a great pipeline for used clothing, primarily through thrift stores.  And a good percentage of people drop off their clothing there instead of just throwing it away.

But there are ways you can help someone with their clothing.  For example, someone may have clothes, but maybe they could use some new clothes to help them get a job.  Or you might buy a needy child some new clothes so they won’t be embarrassed wearing their same old, ill-fitting clothes to school. 

Number five on the list is looking after sick people.  We do a pretty good job of that in America, but there is a never ending stream of sick people pouring through our hospitals and doctors offices.  I commend all of those doctors and nurses who have dedicated their lives to caring for the sick.  And I commend our welfare programs that pay for healthcare for the needy. 

But there is something more that sick people need besides medicine.  Sick people need friends.  They need a support group, people who will be there to see them through.  We aren’t all physicians, but we can all do something to look after the sick.

And number six on the list is looking after prisoners.  This seems like it doesn’t belong because, after all, don’t prisoners deserve to be isolated?  They’re criminals! 

Yes, and they are in prison.  They have been humbled and degraded.  They know that they have been placed at the bottom of society.  And now what?  Should we leave them to rot? 

That is not God’s plan.  God’s plan is for us to reach out to prisoners and care for them.  It’s so important that He included it in The Big Six.  And I commend so many great prison ministries, including Chuck Colson’s “Prison Fellowship.”***

So are you asking yourself what God wants you to do with your life?  Well you can’t go wrong when you help people who are:
--hungry
--thirsty
--sick
--in prison
and those who need
--clothing, and
--shelter.

Those priorities come from Jesus Himself, and that’s what I’m calling “The Big Six.”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
*  http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2005/09/19/AR2005091901295.html

**  http://www.worldvision.org/Worldvision/eappeal.nsf/egift-disaster-response-southern-asia-cyclone-relief?OpenForm&campaign=11365555&cmp=KNC-11365555

***  http://www.prisonfellowship.org/site_hmpg.asp

 
© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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When Life Delivers the Unexpected - Apples of Gold - May 22, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 22, 2008

“When Life Delivers the Unexpected”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

What do you do when life delivers the unexpected?

That’s exactly what happened to one married couple, Priscilla and her husband Aquila.

They were Jews living in Rome.  Caligula, the Roman emperor, was assassinated on January 24^th in the year 41.  Immediately the Praetorian Guard declared that Caligula’s uncle, Claudius, would take his place.

Before the decade was up, Claudius decided to banish all the Jews from Rome.  That meant Priscilla and Aquila had to pack up and move.  It wasn’t fair.  It wasn’t right.  But you know what?  Sometimes life delivers the unexpected.

Where should they go?  Well they ended up across the sea from Italy, over in a town named Corinth in Southern Greece.  I wish I knew how they made that decision.  I don’t know, but I can speculate that, as God-fearing people, they prayed and asked the Lord to lead them.  And something happened that pointed their way to Corinth.

So there they were, far away from home, and they set up shop as tentmakers in the bustling port city of Corinth. 

Meanwhile, the Apostle Paul was also in Greece, over in Athens.  After preaching there, he decided his next stop would be…Corinth.

So Paul was in Corinth, and somehow he met Aquila, and they had something in common.  They were both tentmakers.  Something must have clicked, because Aquila introduced Paul to his wife Priscilla, and they invited Paul to join them in business, and to live with them.

I imagine Paul was an amazing houseguest.  I am sure he regaled them with incredible stories:  his conversion on the road to Damascus, the riot in Thessalonica, his miraculous escape from the Philippian jail, and on and on.

Every Sabbath Paul went to the synagogue and spoke about Jesus as the Messiah, and I’m sure he spent plenty of time teaching Priscilla and Aquila back at home.  Imagine having such daily access to this great man of God!

Then Silas and Timothy showed up in Corinth.  Paul spent more time preaching and teaching, and many Corinthians believed in the Lord, including Crispus, the synagogue ruler, and his entire household.

For a year and a half great things happened in Corinth.  Imagine all of this activity swirling around Paul!  And Priscilla and Aquila were right there in the middle of it.

Eventually Paul decided it was time to pack up and move on from Corinth.  And who went with him?  Priscilla and Aquila!

They ended up all the way over in Ephesus.  Paul did some preaching there, but before long he was off to his next destination.  Meanwhile, Priscilla and Aquila stayed in Ephesus.

While there, they encountered a powerful speaker, a Jew named Apollos.  He was a native of Alexandria, but was teaching in the synagogue in Ephesus.  He taught about Jesus, but was lacking a few details.  Enter Priscilla and Aquila, who were loaded with details having spent all that time with Paul.  They invited Apollos to their home and taught him more thoroughly about Christ.

When Apollos left, he went on to become a powerful and persuasive preacher of the Gospel.

Priscilla and Aquila must have had the gift of hospitality.  When their names show up in the Bible, so does their home.  It seems like they were always inviting people over.  In both Romans and First Corinthians, Paul mentions the “church that meets at their house.”  Imagine having people in your home like Paul and Silas and Timothy and Apollos.

Isn’t it interesting what happened to them after life delivered the unexpected?

It looks like Priscilla and Aquila eventually returned to Corinth.  In the year 54, the emperor Claudius died, and Jews were allowed back into Rome – and some think Priscilla and Aquila returned to Italy.

Turning to church tradition, Priscilla and Aquila are said to have journeyed to Asia where they spread the Gospel with great zeal.  They discipled new believers, started churches, and destroyed idols. 

In the end it is said that they were martyred as the pagans had finally had enough of this evangelistic couple.  Tradition says they were killed together.

What a life!  So much joy and excitement.  So much action.  So many lives influenced and changed.  So many saved.

And look when it all started.  It all started when they got that terrible news that they were being kicked out of their home.

Sometimes life delivers the unexpected.  Sometimes things look bleak.  Bad things happen, not what we planned at all. 

But the great news is, God is always up to something.  We often don’t see it, but He is pulling things together.  And the end result can be a life far better than anything we would have planned on our own.

So has your life taken a sudden turn?  Remember Romans 8:28, “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.”

It may be hard to see, but you can put your faith in the fact that, when life delivers the unexpected, God is right there, somehow and some way, working all things together for good!


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
 
© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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God Has the Power! - Apples of Gold - May 21, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 21, 2008

“God Has the Power!”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Men my age do stupid things.

You think you can do what you did 20 years ago, but baby, it’s just not there.

Like last year when I went to the park with some teenagers.  They all climbed up this huge tree, starting with a branch that was low enough to reach, but too big to grab with your hands.  You had to wrap your arms and legs around it, then twist yourself to the top of the branch. 

They all had a great time while my wife and I watched.  But then they challenged me.  “I bet you can’t get up here!”

“If you can, I can!”

“Prove it!”

“I will!”

And I did.  But somewhere in that motion to wrench myself to the top of the branch, I twisted my knee.

And you old timers know how it goes.  The problem didn’t really show up until the next day.  My knee felt like it was going to fall apart.  With each step I thought, “This thing is gonna buckle right out from under me.”

Your brain dredges up words like “arthroscopic” and “degenerative” and “knee replacement.”

And that’s no good, because they all involve doctors and I’m kind of anti-doctor.  I don’t even take pills if I can help it.

So I decided to fix the knee myself, with my own little homemade rehab.  It involved prayer and exercise.

Now listen, I am not saying this is good medicine.  I’m just telling you what I did.  I figured if it didn’t work I could always go to the doctor later.

I took it easy at first, and it didn’t seem to help.  It was all I could do to walk without a limp.  I became very aware of everyone in public who was limping.  I felt for them, and I prayed for myself, “God, please, I don’t want to walk with a limp.”

It’s kind of humbling, and humility is a good thing.  It takes you down a peg or two. 

But anyway, I worked my legs more and more.  And slowly it got better.  And now, several months later, I hardly notice it.  I go running three times a week with no problems.  Thank you Lord!

I thought of all this when I read Hebrews 12:12 which says, “…strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees.” 

I can relate to that, because I know about strengthening weak knees.

But the Bible isn’t talking about physical knees.  I assume it’s talking about strengthening ourselves spiritually.

So what can we do to strengthen ourselves spiritually?  To find out, I searched the Bible for the word “strengthen.”

I came across this great passage about Abraham in Romans chapter four.  Verse 20 says he was “strengthened in his faith.”

Well I want stronger faith.  So how did Abraham do it?

I think the answer is in the next verse.  It says Abraham was “fully persuaded that God had power to do what He had promised.”

Let me tell you, that is good news for me, because I can do that.  I can believe completely that God has the power to do what He has promised.  I totally know that God has the power.

What I lack is specific faith.  Some people would say that I should have been fully persuaded that God would miraculously heal my knee.  I wasn’t.  Call it a lack of faith, but I was not fully persuaded that God would heal my knee. 

Why not?  I don’t know.  For one thing, I could easily see some benefits from having that limp.  The humility alone is worth a lot.  So who am I to say that God didn’t want to use that limp to make me a better person?  I’m not saying He did.  I’m just telling you where my faith was.

So I admit, I did not have full and specific faith that God would heal my knee.  However, I am fully persuaded that God has the power!  Of course God has the power. 

So the focus was not on my knee, but on God’s power.  My focus was not on my faith, but on God’s power.  My focus was not on my interpretation of certain Scriptures about healing, but my focus was on God’s power.  That is something I totally believe in.

I think Abraham was the same way.  His focus couldn’t be on his circumstances, because it was impossible for people their age to have children.  His focus wasn’t on God’s promise, because in Genesis 17 we read that Abraham doubted the promise.  So how did Abraham strengthen his faith in spite of his circumstances and his doubts?

By focusing on the power of God.  He was fully persuaded that God had the power to do it.

Today, maybe your circumstances look impossible.  And when you read God’s word, maybe you find it hard to believe.  If so, then take your eyes off of all of that, and set your focus on this one thing.  Strengthen your faith like Abraham – by being fully persuaded that God has the power!


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
 
© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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The Gift of Prophecy - Apples of Gold - May 20, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 20, 2008

“The Gift of Prophecy”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

First Corinthians 14:1 says, “…eagerly desire spiritual gifts, especially the gift of prophecy.”

Verse 39 says, “Therefore, my brothers, be eager to prophesy…”

Ephesians 4:11 says that Christ “gave some to be…prophets…”

First Corinthians 12 says that “through the Spirit” each one is given “the manifestation of the Spirit” for the common good.  And what some receive for the common good is called “prophecy.”

Verse 27 talks about the parts of the body of Christ, and some parts are called “prophets.”

Romans 12:6 indicates that some men were given the gift of prophecy.

Acts 13:1 says there were prophets in the church at Antioch.

Acts 11:27 says there were prophets in the church at Jerusalem.

Acts 21:9 says there were four daughters of Philip who prophesied in Caesarea.

Verse 10 mentions a prophet named Agabus.

Acts 15:32 says that Judas and Silas were prophets.

In First Corinthians 14, Paul said it was important to coordinate the prophets and how they spoke during church meetings.

While preaching on the Day of Pentecost, Peter quoted from the prophet Joel who said, “In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people.  Your sons and daughters will prophecy…”

He went on to say, “Even on my servants, both men and women, I will pour out my Spirit in those days, and they will prophesy.”

So there are a lot of Bible verses that talk about prophets and prophecy.

Now for the longest time, I admit, I thought prophecy was only about telling the future.  A prophet told you what was going to happen someday.

But I’ve come to realize that a prophet is more than that.  So what is a prophet?

I like the definition of prophecy in my study bible:  “A communication of the mind of God imparted to a believer by the Holy Spirit.”

That’s easy for us to picture in the old days.  Some guy in a robe wondering around in the wilderness, then Bam! he gets a message from God and goes and shouts it all over town.  Kind of a weirdo, but yes, a prophet.

Or maybe we see a prophet like some wizard from the middle ages.  Something like Merlin.  We doubt it’s even true, but it’s a great story.

But the Bible talks quite matter-of-factly about prophets.  And not just in the Old Testament.  And it wasn’t just some spooky thing for strange loners.  It was something to be eagerly desired.

Apparently prophets were not rare, or you wouldn’t have to coordinate them in church meetings.  In fact, they were told to “be eager to prophesy.”

First Corinthians 12 tells us about the body of Christ, the church.  It is a unit made up of many parts.  Verse 28 says, “in the church God has appointed,” among other things, “prophets.”  This is an important part of the body of Christ.

Of course the importance of this part of the body is obvious.  The prophet is someone who hears from God and passes the message along to the rest of the body. 

This is not a message that someone made up.  It’s not cobbled together or imagined.  Second Peter 1:20 says, “For prophecy never had its origin in the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.”

Wouldn’t it be great to hear from God?  Wouldn’t it be nice to know what He would say to us right now, today, for the circumstance we are currently dealing with?

I think that is the role of the prophet, to hear from God and speak to the people.

It sounds like going to a fortune teller, doesn’t it?  Like reading a crystal ball or tea leaves.  But here is what’s happened.  Because of false prophets and nuts and quacks, we have despiritualized the body of Christ.  These days if someone said, “I am going to the prophet to get a word from the Lord,” you might look at them like they were nuts. 

And yet this is a very legitimate part of the body of Christ – the role of prophet.  And it’s not to be a rare person.  There should be many people with this gift – where the Holy Spirit actually reveals God’s will to them and they pass it on to the rest of the body.

Of course, you have to be careful.  Ezekiel 13 indicates that some people “prophesy out of their own imagination.” 

Jesus said to “watch out for false prophets.”  He said we can judge a prophet by the fruit of their life, is it good or bad?  First John warns about false prophets, and says we need to test for truth and falsehood. 

First Thessalonians 5:19 says not to put out the Spirit’s fire and not to treat prophecies with contempt.  But it goes on to say we need to test everything, then hold onto what is good.

First Corinthians 14:29 says, “Two or three prophets should speak, and the others should weigh carefully what is said.”

The most obvious way to test a prophecy is to see if it squares with the Bible.  How can it be a true “word from the Lord” if it contradicts the Word of the Lord?

What is the point of prophecy in the church? 

First Corinthians 12:7 says it’s for the common good.

Chapter 14 says, “…everyone who prophesies speaks to men for their strengthening, encouragement and comfort.”  It adds, “…he who prophecies edifies the church.”

Ephesians 4 indicates that prophets are to help “prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up…”

I realize it’s a rather uncommon thing in the American church as a whole.  But in times like these, I want this part of the body active and working.  This is something the church needs – people who will stand in the council of the Lord, then tell us what He said. 

Why should we live without an important body part?  The church needs this – the strength and edification that comes from the role of the prophet.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
I love this passage from First Corinthians 14:24-25 – “But if an unbeliever or someone who does not understand comes in while everybody is prophesying, he will be convinced by all that he is a sinner and will be judged by all, and the secrets of his heart will be laid bare. So he will fall down and worship God, exclaiming, ‘God is really among you!’”

I think a true prophet, when he hears from the Lord, is compelled to speak out.  I think this happens all the time in the church, whether or not that person is labeled a prophet.  They fulfill the role, whether they have the title or not.

Amos 3:8 says, “The Sovereign Lord has spoken – who can but prophesy?”

Jeremiah 20:9 says, “…His word is in my heart like a fire, a fire shut up in my bones…”

Some people teach that First Corinthians 13 indicates that prophecies have ceased.  Verse 8 says, “…where there are prophecies, they will cease…”  Verse 10 says, “…but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.”  Some teach that the perfection has come, and that is the Bible.  Verse 12 says, “Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face.  Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.”  To me, this perfection has not arrived.  We don’t see “face to face.”  We don’t “know fully.”  We still live our lives here seeing “but a poor reflection as in a mirror.”  I think the perfection comes when Christ returns, when we finally see “face to face.” 

But I must say, some of the people who teach that will, themselves, spend time in prayer, seeking a word from the Lord.  Many pastors who don’t believe prophecy is for today will, nonetheless, pray and seek the Lord each week for a message for their congregations.  To me, that is filling the role of the prophet – to get a word from the Lord and deliver it to the people.

Another thought on that, if prophesies have ceased, what do we do with the two prophets in Revelation 11?  Why would they need to prophesy in the future if perfection has already come?

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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I Must Keep My Word, With No Loopholes - Apples of Gold - May 19, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 19, 2008

“I Must Keep My Word, With No Loopholes”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

If I want to be a good Christian, then I must be a man of my word.

I must be a man of integrity.

If I say it, I must do it.

This applies to the big things in life as well as the small things.

If I tell my wife I will be home for dinner at six, then I better be home by six. 

If I say I will call you back about something, then I’d better call you back.

If I say I will meet you, then I will meet you.

If I say I will pray for you, then I will pray for you. 

If I say I will think about it, then I’d better think about it.

Anything else is of the devil.

“Whoa, that’s a leap.  How did the devil get in there?”

Jesus said it, I didn’t.  In the Sermon on the Mount He said, “Simply let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.”

Why did He say that?  Because people were playing little games with their word.  What they said was true, only if they swore the right way, such as, “I swear by heaven,” or “I swear by Jerusalem.”  If you didn’t swear the right way, then you had a big loophole. 

Jesus closed all the loopholes.  Our word must have 100% integrity.  It must be true to the last drop.

In Numbers 30:1, Moses told the nation’s leaders that they must not break their word.  They must do everything they said they would do.

Sometimes people say they are just so busy.  Oh, is that a loophole?  No.  We must never be too busy to keep our word. 

Here is something that is very hard for some people to do.  Keep your big mouth shut.  It’s so easy to say you will do something.  We do this so often that we don’t think it’s any big deal when we don’t do what we say.

Some people just don’t want to say “No.”  They have no intention of doing it.  They know they probably won’t, but they say they will just so they don’t look bad, or to get you off their back.

This is a lack of integrity.  Better to have the guts up front to just say no, than to even leave the impression that you might do something that you know you probably won’t.

Here’s a popular loophole:  forgetfulness.  Listen, everyone forgets.  Old people forget.  Young people forget.  Everyone forgets. 

But to be a person of integrity means we don’t forget.  So how can we have integrity if everyone forgets?

That’s easy.  When you commit to something, write it down.  Do whatever you have to do to make sure you keep your word. 

I know an old guy who constantly tapes notes to himself on his steering wheel.  He knows he’s not going to forget to drive, so that’s where he leaves his reminders.  I know a woman who uses Post-It notes by the stack.

Now let me ask you, is forgetting your word as bad as breaking your word?  After all, you didn’t mean to forget.

Look at Proverbs 18:9.  “One who is slack in his work is brother to one who destroys.” 

In the same way, the person who forgets to keep their word is brother to the one who breaks their word.  Their motives may be different, but they both lack integrity.

So forgetting to keep your word is no excuse.  It just shows you are slack in your work.

Here’s a big loophole:  “But when I gave my word, I didn’t know it would turn out like this.”

Ah, yes.  It’s suddenly going to cost you more than you thought.  A great time to look for loopholes, right? 

Wrong.  This is a great test of your integrity.  Psalm 15:4 talks about people who keep their word, “even when it hurts.”

First Chronicles 29:17 says, “I know, my God, that You test the heart and are pleased with integrity.”

How does God test our integrity?  By putting us in a costly situation.  If we keep our word, it’s going to cost us.  That is a great test of integrity.

Job was put in a costly situation.  Even his wife said, “Are you still holding on to your integrity?”  But Job’s integrity was solid, and he said that when God was done testing him, he would “come forth as gold.”

Even though it costs us, there are blessings when we keep our word. 

Proverbs 10:9 says, “The man of integrity walks securely.”

When you are a man of integrity, your path in life becomes a lot clearer.  You don’t have as many options to weed out, because most options lack integrity.  Proverbs 11:3 indicates that our integrity acts as a guide.

Galatians 6:4 says we should test our own actions.  We need to look at what we do and ask, “Am I a person of integrity?  Is my word good, all the time, every time?”

Yes, I want to be a good Christian.  I want to be a man of God.  And that means I must be a man of integrity, which means I must always keep my word, with no loopholes.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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How Dare You Question My Honor - Apples of Gold - May 16, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for May 16, 2008

“How Dare You Question My Honor”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

In the old days, men fought to defend their honor.

If someone called you a liar, you said in your best gunslinger voice, “Let’s step outside and settle this.”

Or better yet, just pull out your gun and settle it now.

They called that defending your honor, but I think it’s more like pride.

See, there is a line between honor and pride.  Pride is very touchy, but honor stands strong.

And you know what?  I really don’t think honor has to be “defended.”

If you are truly honorable, it stands for itself, doesn’t it?  Do you really have to fight for your honor?  I think the whole idea of fighting over your honor shows you really don’t have it to begin with.

Where did I come up with that?  From Proverbs 20:3.  “It is to a man’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel.”

Have you ever seen someone fly into a rage to defend their honor?  It immediately waters down their honor, doesn’t it?

I’ve seen people go off the deep end to defend the honor of their children or their spouse or other family members.  On the surface, it seems like a really noble thing to do.  “You said what?  Those are fightin’ words!”

But the Bible says it’s more honorable to avoid strife, not rush into it.

So there is a biblical form of honor, and a worldly form of honor.  Worldly honor is almost looking for strife, while biblical honor seeks to avoid it.

We don’t talk much about honor in America today.  We talk about getting ahead and the American Dream, and we talk a lot about our rights, but we rarely talk about honor.

I like what it says in Hebrews 13:18.  “We…desire to live honorably in every way.”

So what does biblical honor look like?

Let me tell you, biblical honor looks a lot like humility.

It starts with humility before the Lord.  He is Master and we are servants. 

Proverbs 22:4 says that humility and the fear of the Lord bring honor.

So to live honorably in every way we must start with humility before the Lord.

When it comes to worldly honor, you don’t see much humility.  It’s hard to be humble when you are cracking on people.

Now imagine the most humble person.  What would the most humble person do if someone questioned their honor?  Would they throw a hissy fit?  Actually, I picture them being very strong, and rather quiet.  I see them like a rock, like a boulder.  You can yell and even push, but the boulder won’t react.  It doesn’t have to.  It’s a boulder.

Proverbs 18:12 says that “humility comes before honor.”

So a key component to true honor is humility before God, and humility in general.

The next time someone dishonors you, can you react with humility?

“Doug, I can’t just stand there and let someone dishonor me or my family.”

I know.  It sounds unnatural, doesn’t it?  And that’s precisely the point.  This is something beyond human nature.  It’s of a higher order.  And that’s what true honor is, something of a higher order.  True honor is something the average man does not have.  We can only do it as we submit to the Lord and then He works within us.

True honor is when the Lord honors us.  Unless we are honorable in God’s eyes, we are not honorable at all.

So how can we be honorable in God’s eyes?

One way is by serving Jesus.  In John 12:26 Jesus said, “My Father will honor the one who serves Me.”

Some who serve Jesus are twice as honorable, according to First Timothy 5:17 – “the elders who direct the affairs of the church…especially those whose work is preaching and teaching.”

Proverbs 27:18 says it’s honorable to look after your master.

Proverbs 13:18 says it’s honorable to heed correction.

If you look closely, you see humility running through all of that.  It’s humble to look after your master – and it’s honorable.  It’s humble to heed correction – and it’s honorable.  It’s humble to be a servant, both a servant of Jesus, and a servant of the church – and it’s honorable.

So the next time someone questions your honor, don’t strike back.  Don’t start an argument and stir up strife. 

Instead, be humble before God and man, for it’s humility that truly proves your honor.


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May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
Romans 2 gives us another way to be honorable – by always doing good. 

Proverbs 21:21 says that it’s honorable to pursue righteousness and love.

Ecclesiastes 10:1 says that a little folly outweighs honor.

Proverbs 25:27 says that it is not honorable to seek your own honor.

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