Jerome Lost His Home - Apples of Gold - September 15, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for September 15, 2008

“Jerome Lost His Home”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Jerome lost his home.

In a car accident.

Not even a bad car accident.  He was a passenger in his friend’s little convertible.  They had the top down and were driving through Nashville when suddenly a guy in a pickup merged into them. 

It hardly damaged the car, but Jerome’s elbow took a hit. 

It’s funny.  The newspaper made it sound like no big deal.  “Treated and released.”

But Jerome lost the lateral movement in his lower right arm.  That elbow just didn’t work right anymore.

And Jerome lost his job – as a well-paid studio drummer. 

Drumming was all he knew.  Why bother with a backup plan when the first plan is going so well?

Payless paydays took their toll, and Jerome lost his home.

The bank took possession and put it on the market. 

And Jerome sank into a depression.  Here he was, 30 years old, living with his parents, and completely unproductive. 

Enter Jerome’s older sister Janelle. 

Janelle owned an apartment complex that turned a healthy profit.  This one property alone would take care of her for life.

But after visiting her parents one day, and after seeing the state of her brother, she decided to make a bold move.

Behind the scenes she arranged for the sale of her apartment complex – and the purchase of Jerome’s house.  Then she worked with a company to build a complete drum kit designed to work within Jerome’s limitations.  It was part acoustic and part electronic, and the designers assured her that Jerome could use it to create all the sounds he did before, and more.

Jerome’s birthday rolled around, and it promised to be his worst ever.  He wanted no party, and didn’t even come out of his bedroom when Janelle arrived. 

Well she talked him into coming out to eat, and then they went for a drive – to his old house.  There were balloons on the mailbox and a giant ribbon across the front porch.

“Happy Birthday!” she said.

“You’re kidding,” said Jerome.  “What did you do, pay my back mortgage?  You realize I can’t make the payments.  I can’t do anything.”

“First of all, no, I didn’t pay the back mortgage.  I paid it off, dear brother.”

“What?  How did you do that?”

“I sold the apartment complex.”

“But that was your money maker.”

“Yeh.  You make money to do important things.  And this was the most important thing I could think of.  And that’s not all.  Come inside.”

And Janelle showed her brother the custom-made drum kit. 

By Christmas Jerome was back to a full schedule of recording sessions.  He tried to give his sister some money, but she refused.  She said the satisfaction of seeing him doing what he was born to do was all the payment she needed.

And that, my friends, is an illustration of the great concept of redemption.

Jerome’s life was redeemed by his sister.  The accident had taken his home and his career, and she bought it back.  She redeemed it.

That story gives us a hint of what redemption is, and it can help us understand the Bible when it talks about redemption.

The Bible says that God has redeemed us through Jesus Christ.

Titus 2:14 says that Jesus “…gave Himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness…”

Ephesians 1:7 says that in Christ “…we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins…”

For Jerome, the accident took away his life.  For us, sin takes away our life.  We are dead in our sins.

For Jerome, his sister sacrificed her own secure income to redeem him, to buy back his life from the accident.  For us, Jesus sacrificed Himself; shed His own blood to buy us back from the sin that had plundered us.

Hebrews 9:12 says that, by Jesus’ own blood, we have obtained eternal redemption. 

Galatians 3:13 says He redeemed us from the curse of the law.

Verse 14 says He redeemed us so that we could receive the Holy Spirit.

Galatians 4 says Jesus redeemed us from slavery to the principles of this world so that we can receive our full rights as God’s children.

Through sin we lost our rights.  We lost any claim to our inheritance as children of God.

But Jesus redeemed us.  With His blood He bought us back.  Galatians 5:1 says that Christ “has set us free.”

Jerome didn’t have the money to put his life back on track.  But his sister did, and she made the sacrifice to pay the price for her brother.

And we have no way to put our life back on track.  We can’t possibly pay for our sins and make things right with God.  But Jesus did.  He made the sacrifice to pay the price for us.

What we couldn’t possibly do, Jesus did.  So we trust in Him, and put our faith in the work He completed on our behalf. 

And now we can live the life we were created to live, all because we have been redeemed by Jesus Christ.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.

(end with “Redeemed How I Love to Proclaim It” by The Martins)
 
The story of Jerome is fiction – an illustration I made up as I pondered the whole concept of redemption.

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Stop the Stampede to the Feed Trough - Apples of Gold - September 12, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for September 12, 2008

“Stop the Stampede to the Feed Trough”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

We had a little lesson at dinner this week.

See, we always pray before we eat, but sometimes it’s a hasty prayer.  Sometimes I don’t even think the person praying is paying attention.

So before we prayed I decided to slow everyone down, to stop the stampede to the feed trough.

I pointed out the importance of being thankful, that not everyone had such a delicious meal, and that we should never take it for granted.

I asked everyone to truly think about God when we prayed, and to be thankful to Him.

Then I asked one of the boys living with us, 13-year-old Devion, to say the prayer. 

I expected an impatient, jittery prayer with a quick amen.  But what we got was a patient, thoughtful, beautiful prayer of true thanksgiving from the heart. 

True thanksgiving is hard to come by these days, and I think it’s because we are spoiled. 

Now you’d think that the more we have, the more thankful we would be.  But it doesn’t work that way. 

Have you ever had a car that wouldn’t start?  An unfaithful car is enough to drive you batty.  But then when you get a good car, you are more thankful.  I’ve been there and let me tell you, most everyday when I turn that key I think, “Thank you Lord for a car that works.”

On the other hand I knew a young man whose parents bought him a new car as soon as he turned 16.  He wrecked it and they bought him another new car.  I would have loved to have had a new car at 16, but you know what?  He took it for granted.  He wasn’t thankful for it.  In fact, he was kind of arrogant about it, like it was the least they could do for him.

Now let’s look at Hosea 13:6.  Here the Lord says, “When I fed them, they were satisfied; when they were satisfied, they became proud; then they forgot Me.”

Did you follow that progression? 

It started with their need for food, and God says He fed them.  He kept them fed, and they were satisfied.  So far so good, right?

But then it says, “…when they were satisfied, they became proud…”

Why is that?  I think it’s because they came to expect it.  They took it for granted.  They thought they deserved that and more.  They made themselves the center of the universe.  That’s what pride is, making yourself the center of the universe.

And if you are at the center, if you are on the throne, guess who isn’t? 

Back to Hosea 13:6, God says, “…when they were satisfied, they became proud; then they forgot Me.”

This is easy to do if you are a middle to upper class Christian.  When you have good cash flow, when you’re able to go buy things, when many problems are solved by writing a check, it’s easy to become satisfied…and proud.  It’s tempting to think that you are just a little above the common rabble. 

And it all goes back to the fact that things are going pretty well for you. 

So this is the true test.  How do we react when things are going pretty well for us? 

Now here is the main point.  God said, “…then they forgot Me.” 

That is what we do not want to do.  We don’t want to forget God.

So let’s look at that progression again.  We are well fed, then we are satisfied, then we become proud, then we forget God – the very one who fed us to begin with.

And that is the key, that we do not forget that it is God Himself who provides for us.

This would be a good message for Thanksgiving Day, wouldn’t it?

But of course, as a Christian, everyday should be Thanksgiving Day.

So take a look at your life.  Would you consider yourself “well fed?” 

Then don’t take it for granted.  Don’t have the attitude that you earned it, or that you deserve it.

Instead be humble before the Lord.  Acknowledge the fact that if He doesn’t make a way, there is now way.  We have no reason for pride.

So we humble ourselves.  We bow our heads before Him, and say, “Thank You.”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Where Were You When You Heard? - Apples of Gold - September 11, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for September 11, 2008

“Where Were You When You Heard?”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

School started at 8* so I dropped off my kids a little before that, then ran to the store. 

I needed to pick up something in the electronics department before heading to the radio station.

While scanning the shelves, my cell phone rang. 

“Where are you?”

“I’m standing in Wal-Mart.”

“Go look at the TVs.  The World Trade Center is on fire.”

I looked up at a row of televisions and, oh my gosh, I was riveted.  A skyscraper on fire, live on TV.

Then the unthinkable happened.  As we all watched the fire in the north tower, a plane crashed into the south tower.

Fascination was replaced by dread as I realized it was no accident. 

Our Christian stations became news stations that day, going wall-to-wall with live coverage as the events unfolded.

We had a TV in our studio, and my heart sank as the south tower collapsed.

That afternoon at a press conference, New York Mayor Rudy Giuliani was asked how many people were killed.  He said, “I don’t think we want to speculate about that – more than any of us can bear.”

And isn’t that the way all tragedies are?  I mean really, if we want to get by at all in this life, for the most part we just can’t think about them.  They are more than any of us can bear.

For most of us, life has moved on since September 11^th, 2001.  Already there is a new crop of kids coming of age with no personal memories of it.  It’s just another date to memorize for history class.

And that’s the problem with history.  Its lessons are hard to pass on to even to the very next generation.  If it didn’t happen to them personally, it’s just another distant tale. 

So what are the lessons from September 11^th? 

And you know what?  I don’t just want to know what people say, I want to know what God says. 

So for that I turn back to the Bible. 

See, today we can hear the news, but we don’t get God’s spin on it.  But in the Bible we get the news, and we get God’s perspective.

So I flip back to the book of Lamentations which was written after a national tragedy, the destruction of Jerusalem in 586 BC.

Lamentations 3:38 says, “Is it not from the mouth of the Most High that both calamities and good things come?”

Now I realize that goes against our grandpa theology, but there it is.

Job said, “The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”

Now why on earth would God even allow a calamity?

Lamentations 3:33 says, “…He does not willingly bring affliction or grief to the children of men.”

Now listen, I am not saying God caused terrorist attacks on September 11^th.  What I am saying is that we need to learn the lessons of history, and I’m going back to the history where I can see God’s part, and that is in the Bible.

And in the book of Lamentations the lesson is clear.  Chapter one verse five says the Lord brought them grief because of their many sins.

Verse 14 indicates that God took their many sins, fashioned them into a yoke, and placed it on their necks.

Verse 12 says the Lord brought suffering on them in the day of His fierce anger.

And how did the Lord bring suffering on them?  Through the hands of enemy warriors, the Babylonians.

Lamentations 2:3 says the Lord had “withdrawn His right hand.”

So the lesson we learn from Lamentations is that when people sin and do not repent, eventually God judges them.  And in their case, judgment came through the violent acts of other people.

And God laid a lot of the blame at the feet of the prophets.  Lamentations 2:14 says, “The visions of your prophets were false and worthless; they did not expose your sin…”

The lesson here is that people who claim to speak for God – what good are they if they don’t expose sin and call for repentance?

Lamentations 1:9 says the people did not consider their future, and their fall was astounding.

The lesson to us is, we must consider our future.  If our nation keeps moving in this direction, where are we headed?

The good news is, Lamentations 3:25 says the Lord is good to those whose hope is in Him, to the ones who seek Him.

Chapter 2 verse 19 says, “…pour out your heart like water in the presence of the Lord.”

Chapter 3 verse 40 says, “Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord.”

Seven years ago many people did just that.  They got the point.  Churches filled up.  People prayed.  We sang, “God Bless America” and meant it.

But when there were no more attacks, and things settled down, church attendance dropped, and we went right back to life as usual.

On this anniversary, let us be sober.  Let us consider our future.  Let us examine our ways and test them.  And let us return to the Lord.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
*  This is central time.  I lived in Illinois in 2001.

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000

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B.C. Is Being Replaced By B.C.E. - Apples of Gold - September 10, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for September 10, 2008

“B.C. Is Being Replaced By B.C.E.”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

So has it dawned on you yet that B.C. is being replaced by B.C.E.?

And that A.D. is being replaced by C.E.?

B.C. stands for “before Christ.”  For example, we say that Aristotle died in 322 B.C.

A.D. stands for anno domini, which is Latin for “in the year of our Lord.”

That’s probably what you grew up saying, B.C. and A.D.

But the wind has shifted, and in a generation or two no one will be saying B.C. or A.D. 

Why not?  Because they refer to Jesus Christ.

Well, we can’t have that, can we?  So the change has been made, and it’s slowly taking over. 

Now think about it.  This is a nation that couldn’t switch from miles to kilometers.  We just didn’t have the heart for it.

But to remove the reference to Christ in our calendar?  Oh yes, we definitely have the heart for this one.

Now what if you tried to remove the reference to Julius Caesar from the calendar?  That means calling July something else.  Who would have the heart for that?  Who would even care?

Or the reference to Augustus Caesar.  Well, we can’t change August because my birthday’s in August.

And besides, those were powerful people in history and it’s nice to recognize them.

But this Jesus, no, no, no.  Get Him out of there.

“But it’s religious,” you say. 

Oh, so we want to remove the reference to Christ because it’s religious?

Then what about Thursday?  You know, the day named after Thor, the “god of thunder.”  Isn’t that religious? 

See, it can’t be about influence because Jesus was, and is, a powerful influence in the world, more than all the Caesars combined. 

It can’t be about religion because we really don’t care about the other religious references.

So what is it?  Why are we replacing the beautiful “Anno Domini” with the clunky “Common Era?”

I’ll tell you why.  It’s because Jesus bothers people.  Jesus gets under their skin. 

See, we don’t care two hoots that Venus is named after a Roman goddess.  It’s just the name of the planet and who cares?

But people care, and they care a lot, that B.C. stands for “before Christ.”  They don’t want Christ anywhere in that equation.  And even though it’s longer, and even though it’s less descriptive, brother we are going to start saying B.C.E.

Like I said, Jesus gets under people’s skin.  He irritates people.  Why is that?

It’s because Jesus is light, and the world is in darkness and they want to stay there.

It’s because Jesus reveals our sin and our need of a Savior.

It’s because Jesus shows us the way to God and we really don’t want to know because then we have to act on that knowledge.

First Peter 2:8 calls Jesus “…a stone of stumbling and a rock of offence…” (KJV)

He is a stone that makes men stumble and a rock that makes them fall.

First Corinthians 1:23 says, “…we preach Christ crucified:  a stumbling block to Jews and foolishness to Gentiles…”

Back to First Peter 2 – it says, “They stumble because they disobey the message…”

The Gospel of Jesus Christ is a powerful, life-changing message.  Millions of people testify to the fact that the real and living Jesus has come into their life and changed them forever.  He has forgiven their sins, cleansed their conscience, set them free, and given them hope. 

On the other hand there are those who have rejected the message.  And now listen.  They may say that Jesus isn’t real, that He is just another made up god, like Thor or Venus or Jupiter. 

But then how do you explain their animosity?  If it’s just some made up thing, then why the urgency to remove Him from our calendar system?

I’ll tell you why.  It’s because He is real and He is getting to them.  And He has a spiritual foe, the Father of Lies, who is also getting to them.  What else explains it?

Jesus – a stone of stumbling and a rock of offence. 

But to us who believe He is the Light of Life.

So call it whatever you want.  Let them do all they can to minimize Jesus Christ.

But as long as I’m alive you will still hear someone calling it B.C. and A.D.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Is My Home a Deserving Home? - Apples of Gold - September 9, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for September 9, 2008

“Is My Home a Deserving Home?”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Let’s say your pastor gets up and announces, “We need to build a home for unwed mothers.”

Everybody claps, right?  It’s a great idea. 

And then we wait for the pastor to do it.  Hopefully he will round up the money and organize a committee and oversee some leaders and it will all fall into place.  Go pastor!

But what happens in the meantime?  Until they have an official home of their own, where is the ministry to unwed mothers?

Now listen to this.  Maybe the home for unwed mothers…is your home.

I’m just thinking here.  Think about all the homes in every church.  Think about all those empty bedrooms.  They’re air conditioned all summer and heated all winter, yet they are rarely used.  Wouldn’t that be a great place to care for and nurture an unwed mother in need?

So why don’t we do it?  I think it’s because somewhere along the line we decided that “this is my home.  It’s my sanctuary.  I can’t have strange people coming in here.”

Now let me share with you a strange Bible story.  In Matthew 10, Jesus called his 12 disciples together, then sent them out to various towns.  He told them not to pack anything, no money, no clothes, nothing.  They were to simply walk into town and stay at someone’s house.

Then in verse 13 Jesus used this ominous phrase, “If the home is deserving…”

Now I’m thinking about my home.  If Jesus’ disciples came to my home, would it be “deserving?” 

What did He mean by deserving?  I’m not sure, but verse 14 separates homes into two groups – those who welcomed the disciples and those who didn’t.

So I think a deserving home is a welcoming home.

And if a home was not a welcoming home, Jesus told them to shake the dust off their feet as they left.

Again, that is ominous.  I know, it sounds sort of petty, but Jesus said nothing petty.  If Jesus told the disciples to shake the dust off their feet as they left your home, that is not a good thing.

In Matthew 25 Jesus described a great judgment day.  And one of the things He will be judging is whether or not we invited people in.

Romans 12:13 says, “Practice hospitality.”

First Peter 4:9 says, “Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.”

You’ve heard of the “Proverbs 31 Woman.”  Verse 20 says, “She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.”

What if I asked you, “What have you spent the most money on?” what would you say?  For most people, it’s their home.  This is our biggest investment. 

And our homes are very personal.  We decorate them and organize them just the way we want.  It’s for us, for our pleasure and comfort.  That’s one reason we hold them so tightly as our own.

In Mark 10 Jesus talks about some people who actually left their home for His sake.  They gave up their home altogether.

But I’m not talking about that today.  Instead, I’m talking about keeping your home, and offering it up for His service.

Do you have some extra space?  How might it be used to serve God and bless people?

Now I’m thinking of Jesus hanging on the cross.  Standing there in front of him were his disciple John and his mother Mary.  Jesus basically told John to treat Mary as if she was his own mother.  And John 19:27 says, “From that time on, this disciple took her into his home.” 

I don’t know how big John’s house was, but I know that it was a “deserving” home, a welcoming home.  He had no problem with Mary moving in.

When I was growing up, my parents made sure our home was very welcoming.  Over the years they invited several people to move in with us, both young and old, just because they needed it.

Now what about us?  Would we have a problem with someone moving in, even for a short time?  Or is our home just that, our home?

“But Doug, I don’t have that gift of hospitality.”

Look, it doesn’t mean you have to serve crumpets and tea on a silver platter.  It just means that you love them, see their need, and want to help.

Now not every home is right for every need.  I wouldn’t send an unwed mother to live with a single man.  I wouldn’t send a paroled embezzler to live with the rich old widow.  So work through your church.  Talk to your pastor.  They know about all kinds of needs, and they will know who will be a good fit for your home.

So I hope this causes you to look at your home a little differently today.  Look at it like a tool God has given you to use for His sake. 

Make it so that if Jesus and His disciples were to walk by your house today, they would point to it and say, “Now there is a deserving home.”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Let Patience Have Its Perfect Work - Apples of Gold - September 8, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for September 8, 2008

“Let Patience Have Its Perfect Work”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

He tried to open the package with his mouth.

He ended up writhing in pain because he got a zip-tie jammed between his teeth.

Never open anything with your mouth.

Unless you are a 13-year-old boy.  Then you should try everything that occurs to you.

The package belonged to his brother’s new combination lock.  You know, the kind that are preset at 0000, then you reset them to any combination you want.

Of course, the key when resetting is that you actually remember what you set it to.

Unless you are a 13-year-old boy.  Then, honestly, anything could happen.

Let’s say you put on some flip-flops, jump on your bike and ride over to your friend’s house.  And let’s say the flip-flops aren’t yours.  And let’s say your friend’s dog rips them apart. 

Could happen to anyone, right?  But throw a 13-year-old boy in the mix and guess what?  He wore two different flip flops.  So instead of ruining just one pair… 

And this is right after my wife said, “The boys are going to a friend’s house, so you can have your afternoon in peace.”

Last week I went to a middle school open house, and let me say, I salute you people.  I don’t know how you do it. 

One summer many years ago I was asked to teach a junior high Sunday School class.  I don’t think they checked my spiritual gifts inventory.  The word teenager isn’t there, not even in a footnote.

And now we have twin 13-year-old boys living with us.  Yes, it has its joy and laughter.  It’s also a lot of work, and often it is downright trying, as in “You are trying my patience.”

So what is it that tests your patience?  What gets under your skin, and it’s all you can do to keep from lashing out?

Now think about that while I change the way we look at it.  When something irritates us, we say it is trying our patience.  But the book of James frames it up differently.  It says that it is actually trying our faith.

Do you see the difference?  We say it is testing our patience, but the Bible says it is testing our faith.

James 1 talks about the various trials we face, and it calls them a testing of our faith.

Our faith is when we trust in God.  We trust that He is who He says He is, and that He will do what He says He will do.

So when trials come, do we continue to trust God?

Listen to my definition of trials.  A trial is when we don’t get what we want.  We hoped it would happen one way, but it didn’t.  We wanted one thing but got another.

That tests our faith.  Do we continue to trust God when we don’t get what we want?

If we do, then we have a combination of trials and faith.  When you combine trials and faith, what do you get? 

Patience.

When you combine hydrogen and oxygen you get water.  When you combine trials and faith you get patience.

When you don’t get what you want, but you continue to trust God anyway – then patience is growing within you.

That is what is happening in me (I hope).  I wish these 13-year-old boys were perfectly mature, full-grown Christian men.  But, of course, they are who they are and all that goes with it.

That means at any given minute I will end up with conditions in my house that aren’t what I want.  That is my trial.  I don’t get what I want, now how do I deal with it?

If I am impatient, that is a lack of trust.  I am not trusting God, that He is fully at work in the situation. 

James 1:4 says, “…let patience have its perfect work…”

To me, that feels like a power-grinder working on my soul.  Sparks fly and it’s noisy.  Who wants to hang around for that?  Yet the Bible says, “Let patience have its perfect work.”

When the boys are boys, how do I react?  First of all, I must trust God, that He is involved, that He has a purpose for this, and that He will help me deal with it.  I trust that He will give me wisdom and strength, and that He will never put on me more than I can handle. 

Trusting God in the middle of a trial is exactly what brings about patience.  It’s a combination of trials and faith.  Put the two together, and you get patience.

And look at the rest of James 1:4, “…let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.”

So is some situation grinding away at you today?  Are you just not getting what you want?  Then realize it’s a trial you’re going through.  Your faith is being tested.  So trust God through it all.  And as you do, behold the wonderful thing being produced.

Patience.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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What If I Lost It All? - Apples of Gold - September 4, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for September 4, 2008

“What If I Lost It All?”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Have you ever studied the Great Depression?

After the stock market crash, many people lost everything they had. 

And some of them committed suicide.

Their identity, their sense of self worth was so wrapped up in their possessions that when they lost them they saw their life as worthless.

And that leads to this question.  How would I react if I lost my possessions?  How would that affect my identity?  Would I still be who I am without my stuff?

What if I didn’t have my house or my car or these clothes?  What if I lost it all?  Would I still be the same old me, or would part of me be lost?

What about you?  What if you had to move to a poorer neighborhood?  What if you had to drive a beat up car, would you be lessened somehow?  What could someone take away from you that would really hit you personally? 

Ladies, what if they took your makeup?  Would being forced to go without makeup shred your identity?  What if they cleaned out your closet and you had to wear someone else’s leftovers?

Men, what if they took your tools, or your truck, or your big TV?  Would you be less of a man without them?

This is a good mental exercise, because I think many of us would be rocked to the core if we lost our possessions. 

See, if we’re not careful, what we own can become our identity.  “Who am I?  I’m the one with that house right there.” 

“I’m the one with that car.” 

“I’m the one who always has the latest cell phone.”

Cell phones may not be your thing, but what has its hooks in you?   Take it away and it would tear away a piece of you – and you would grieve the loss.

“Come on, Doug.  What kind of person could be robbed of their stuff and not be shaken?”

Look at Hebrews 10:34.  It’s talking about people who had their property confiscated.  And listen to their reaction.  It says they joyfully accepted it. 

That’s crazy!  How could anyone joyfully accept that? 

Here’s how.  When they lost their stuff, they basically lost nothing.  Oh, they were inconvenienced, but they didn’t grieve the loss.  They didn’t lose part of themselves because their identity had nothing to do with their possessions.

In Matthew 6 Jesus said, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.  But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.”

So how could those people joyfully accept the confiscation of their stuff?  Because it didn’t hurt.  Their true possessions were actually in heaven.

Back to Hebrews 10:34.  It says they joyfully accepted the confiscation of their property because they knew they had “better and lasting possessions.”

It’s sort of like going to play football and wearing an old ragged t-shirt from the garage.  When your opponent rips your shirt, you don’t care.  Back home you have plenty of shirts, better shirts.  Ripping that rag-of-a-shirt doesn’t phase you.  In fact, it’s kind of funny.

That’s how those people in Hebrews 10 could react joyfully when their stuff was confiscated.  They said, “What?  Those old rags?  Take ‘em.  My true possessions are in heaven.  Who I am has nothing to do with what I own.  My identity is secure as a child of God.”

In our materialistic society, it is so easy to get wrapped up in the stuff.  We pour over catalogs and surf the web.  We walk the malls looking for more.  We invest so much of ourselves in our possessions, they become our treasure. 

Jesus said where our treasure is, that’s where our heart is.  That’s why it’s so disheartening to lose our stuff, because part of our heart goes with it. 

The heart of who we are, our identity, is tied to our treasure.  If our treasure is on earth, and we lose it, we lose our identity.  That’s why some people kill themselves when they go broke.  They see their life as worthless without their possessions.

But as a Christian, who I am has nothing to do with my stuff.  If I lose it all, I will still be exactly who I am, a child of God.  My identity – my heart – is where my treasure is, and it’s rock solid secure, in heaven. 

Anything I have here is simply part of my stewardship, tools to be used for the Lord’s will.  And if they are taken from me, well then I’ll just look around to see what other tools He’ll provide me with.

“Sounds great, Doug.  Great idea.  But if I lost my stuff, I’ll be honest with you, I would grieve.  How can I change that?”

The first step in any change is to change your thinking.

So look at Colossians 3:2.  It says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.”

That means, change your thinking.  Change the channel in your head.  Turn it from “earthly things” and set it on “heavenly things.”

As you spend more time thinking about the things of God, it will completely shift your outlook.  The stuff that once seemed so important won’t seem so important anymore. 

And eventually your possessions will lose their hold on you.  Your stuff will have nothing to do with your identity. 

Then you’ll be like the people in Hebrews 10.  You could have all your possessions confiscated yet react joyfully, because who you are is a child of God, and you have far better and lasting possessions – a full treasure – in heaven.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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I Can't Believe People Still Read Horoscopes - Apples of Gold - September 3, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for September 3, 2008

“I Can’t Believe People Still Read Horoscopes”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

I can’t believe people still read horoscopes.

I receive news alerts on my cell phone, and the other day one of them had an ad for a daily horoscope text message.

When you Google “horoscopes” you get over 44 million hits, which is more than “Oprah” and “Dr. Phil” combined.

How on earth did horoscopes make the leap into the new century? 

I’ll tell you how.  Because people still want help making decisions.

And they want hope.

A horoscope provides that. 

For example, when it says, “Play your hunches in November,” you think, “Wow, that’s it!  I was wondering when to start my new business.  I’ll do it in November!” 

See, you needed help making a decision, and you got it from the horoscope.

Or when it says, “A new soul will drift into the picture this month – someone you will never tire of,” you think, “Wow, that’s it!  I was hoping for something new and exciting, and there it is.”

Even if you don’t believe in astrology, even if you don’t believe in anything supernatural or metaphysical, you might still benefit from a horoscope just because any sense of direction is better than no sense of direction.

Otherwise horoscopes would have gone the way of…well, I was going to say séances and ouija boards, but they’re still around, too.  Come to think of it, I don’t know of any superstitious (or demonic) tools that have gone by the wayside.

It’s because people want answers.  They want advice.  They want hope.  And they will turn to the most unlikely places to get it.

And you know what?  Many Christians do the same. 

I’ve seen Christians use the Bible like it was some kind of magic 8 ball.  They need advice, so they flop open the Bible, close their eyes, and point.  And wherever their finger lands, that is their divine guidance.

Or they pray, “God give me a sign,” as they drive down the street.  And when they pass the Super China Buffet which is “now hiring” – that’s their sign to quit their job and join “Team Buffet.”

“So what are you saying, Doug?  God doesn’t use signs?”

I’m sure He does, but there is a superior way to receive divine guidance.  Look what it says in Colossians 3:16, “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly…”

When I see that word “richly” I think of the word “plenty.”  To me that means to have plenty of the word of Christ within me.  It needs to take up plenty of my mind and plenty of my time.  For the word of Christ to dwell richly within me, it means a lot of my resources are dedicated to the word of Christ.

Then when you need guidance, you don’t dust off the Bible and try the pointing trick.  Instead, you turn to the wisdom of God that is dwelling within you.

So how do we let the word of Christ dwell in us richly?

Yes, you can read it.  You can study it.  But the best way I know is to memorize it.

For me, the Word of God never comes alive more than when I am memorizing it.  As I commit the Word to memory, I meditate on it.  As I dwell on it, it begins to dwell in me.

Now some people get all nervous when they think about memorizing.  It reminds them of some ghoulish school assignment. 

But let me tell you, this is different.  This is the Word of God, and you have the Spirit of God helping you.  Jesus said in John 14 that the Holy Spirit will teach us all things.

God has given you a wonderful brain, and no matter how you did in school, you can memorize the Word of God.  When we don’t, our only real excuse is laziness.  Our brains don’t want to do the work. 

But we must.  We are to let the word of Christ dwell in us richly, and the best way I know is to memorize it.

My son and I have started memorizing the book of Ephesians.  We hold each other accountable.  It’s not really a contest, just a joy to be learning the Word together.

My goal is to learn a new verse each weekday.  That’s not too hard, but by his birthday next March we should have the whole book of Ephesians memorized. 

Look, next March is going to come one way or another.  So think what you could commit to memory between now and then.

And nothing helps you comprehend the Scripture as a whole like memorizing it.  Then you are less likely to take things out of context, and far more likely to do what God wants you to do.

Yes, we all need advice and hope.  And the best place to get it is the Word of God.  And instead of plucking out a verse here and there, it’s best to follow the advice of Colossians 3:16.

“Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly…”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Stop Sinning or Something Worse May Happen to You - Apples of Gold - September 2, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for September 2, 2008

“Stop Sinning or Something Worse May Happen to You”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

We don’t think of Jesus as the kind to make threats.

Well, maybe to the Pharisees – but to the average Joe?  No.

He is Jesus meek and lowly, full of love and grace.

But then we come to John chapter 5.  Here Jesus heals a man who was a cripple for almost 40 years.  Then in verse 14 Jesus looks him up at the temple and delivers this ominous message. 

“See, you are well again.  Stop sinning or something worse may happen to you.”

Well that sounds terribly old fashioned, doesn’t it?  That doesn’t fit our 21^st century philosophy.  God is love, remember?  He’s not sitting up in heaven waiting to beat us with a stick.

Yes, God is love.  Yes, He is gracious and kind and very patient.  But.

If we keep on sinning, we will be punished.

“Come on, Doug.  That’s not the God I believe in.” 

Well it is if we’re talking about the God of the Bible.

Look again at what Jesus said to this man, a man that He had just healed.  He said, “Stop sinning or something worse may happen to you.” 

Does that sound like a threat?  That’s because it is a threat!  It’s a warning shot over the bow.

And I think it applies to us all. 

Look at Galatians 6:7.  It says, “Do not be deceived:  God cannot be mocked.  A man reaps what he sows.”

If we think we can keep on sinning and we won’t be punished, then we are mocking God.  We are looking up to heaven and saying, “Did you see that God?  Did you see what I did?  Well what are you going to do about it?  Nothing.  That’s what I thought.”

God will not be mocked.  Look at Galatians 6:8.  It says, “The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction…”

That’s a strong word:  destruction.  And that’s what will happen in our life if we keep on sinning.  We will reap destruction. 

More than once in the Bible God delivers this terrible phrase, “‘I will repay.”

“But Doug, that doesn’t leave any room for the grace of God.  What about Romans 2:4, that His kindness leads us to repentance?”

The Lord is patient and kind.  That’s why we’re still alive. 

But keep reading in Romans chapter two.  Verse eight says there will be wrath and anger for those who are self-seeking, who reject the truth and follow evil. 

When we sin, that is what we are doing.  We are rejecting the truth and following evil.  And that leads to “trouble and distress,” according to verse nine.  It says, “There will be trouble and distress for every human being who does evil…”

“But I’m not doing actual evil.  Yes, I have my sins, but doesn’t everyone?  At least I’m not out slashing people.”

The Bible says there are all kinds of evil.  And if we participate in any of it, even evil thoughts, we are setting ourselves up for trouble and distress.  We will reap what we sow.

Does that mean every bad thing that happens is punishment?  No.  In Luke 13 a bunch of guys died when a tower fell on them.  Some people thought it was God’s judgment for their wickedness.  Jesus said, “Were they worse sinners than everyone else?  No.”

But then Jesus punctuated His commentary with this warning, “But unless you repent, you too will all perish.”

Now some want to debate what He meant by “perish,” but you know what?  That’s His part.  I need to take care of my part, which is repentance. 

Most children understand this clearly.  There is a zone in which you are operating under your parents’ patience and kindness.  But if you keep it up, you will enter another zone – the zone of judgment. 

And that’s what Jesus was talking about when he warned the man in the temple.  He said, “Keep it up, and you will enter the judgment zone.”

“God will not be mocked,” the Bible says.

“‘I will repay,’ says the Lord.”

“It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living God,” it says in Hebrews 10:31.

“No one who lives in Him keeps on sinning,” it says in First John 3:6.

“Come back to your senses…and stop sinning…” it says in First Corinthians 15:34.

Yes, God is patient and kind.  But His kindness must lead to repentance.  If it doesn’t, beware. 

If you continue to live a self-seeking life, if you continue to sow to please your sinful nature, beware.  I think these words of Jesus are a stern warning for you.

“Stop sinning or something worse may happen to you.”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
If you want to be removed from this e-mail list, simply click reply and type UNSUBSCRIBE on the subject line.
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Beware of the Permission Givers - Apples of Gold - August 29, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for August 29, 2008

“Beware of the Permission Givers”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Sister Susie is struggling with her marriage.

It’s no big thing, really.  They just aren’t getting along.  It’s the little foxes that spoil the vine, they say.

Then along comes Susie’s friend Sally.  They went to high school together and still get together for coffee sometimes. 

So Susie pours out her troubles to Sally in the booth at the Latte Grande.

“You know what?” Sally says, “Life is too short.  When me and Scott weren’t getting along I figured, ‘Why put up with it?’  Divorcing him was the smartest thing I ever did.”

“So you’re saying I should leave Steve?  I don’t know, Sally…”

“Oh, hey, I’m not saying you should leave Steve.  Not at all.  I’m just saying that you don’t have to be unhappy.  I mean, look at me.  I’m dating Alex now and I’ve never been happier.”

“So what should I do?”

“Look, Susie, do what you want.  Do whatever you think is best.  But if you’re looking for permission to leave Steve and start fresh, you’ve got it.”

And that’s the way it goes, a thousand times a day.  One person toys with doing wrong, and someone else gives them permission to do it.

And that leads me to offering this warning:  Beware of the permission givers.

Oh, it’s not always so blunt.  They don’t literally say, “I give you permission.”  No, what they usually say is, “I did it” – with the subtle hint that – “You can too.”

“You mean you run that business out of your garage and never report the income?”  “Nope.  Why would I?”

See, when someone else does something wrong, it has a way of giving you permission to do the same.  Beware of that.

Romans 1:32 talks about people who know right from wrong, yet choose to do wrong anyway.  But they don’t stop there.  It says they also approve of others who do wrong.

See, we are all wired to seek the approval of others, to one degree or another.  And when we have an opportunity to do wrong, one thing we consider is what other people will think.  If our action will be roundly condemned by everyone, we probably won’t do it.

But when temptation comes along, it is usually accompanied by a permission giver.  There will be someone to give you the approval you are looking for.  And that will make it so much easier to give in to the temptation.

So like I said, beware of the permission givers.

Now it doesn’t have to be a friend.  It could be an article in a magazine.  Or a character in a novel. 

For example, let’s say you are bored in your marriage, and now someone else has caught your fancy.  And now you read a bestselling book like “The Bridges of Madison County.”  The characters in that novel become permission givers.  They did it, and so can you.

Song lyrics can be permission givers.  Anything that portrays something wrong as being okay can act as a permission giver.

This is one reason it is so important to spend time with God and His Word.  God’s standards must become our standards.  We must be tuned in to His measurement of what’s right and wrong.  Then when anything comes along that deviates from His standard, we know it.

Now here’s part two of this lesson.  Don’t be a permission giver yourself. 

If someone is tempted to do wrong, don’t ever give them permission to do so. 

Now listen to this.  I think Christians need to be careful about telling grand tales of their past misadventures.  If we aren’t careful, we end up giving permission to others to do the same.

And think about this.  Our current actions always give permission.  Anything and everything we do, right or wrong, is a giant declaration that, “This is okay.”

Romans 14:22 says, “Blessed is the man who does not condemn himself by what he approves.”

Sure, you may not stand up in church and announce that you approve of something sinful, but listen.  If you do it yourself, you are approving it.  When we do anything, we automatically give other people permission to do the same.

So don’t be a permission giver.  Don’t approve of doing wrong, which means don’t do wrong yourself.

Permission givers have a powerful influence.  They set the standard for right and wrong.  And we are all more likely to do wrong if someone gives us permission to do so.

So if you want to do right, if you want to stay on the straight and narrow, then be careful who is around you.  Be selective of your influences.  Beware of the permission givers.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
If you want to be removed from this e-mail list, simply click reply and type UNSUBSCRIBE on the subject line.
If you want to catch “Apples of Gold” in its original audio format, go to www.wave94.com
To search through the large archive of past articles, go here:  http://www.wave94.com/modules.php?name=Stories_Archive
If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
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Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for August 28, 2008

“I Got Gaps, You Got Gaps”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

There’s a famous scene in the first Rocky movie.

Rocky is talking to Paulie about Paulie’s sister, Adrian.

Paulie says, “I don’t see it.  What’s the attraction?”

Rocky says, “I don’t know.  She fills gaps, I guess.”

Paulie says, “What gaps?”

Rocky says, “I don’t know.  Gaps.  She’s got gaps.  I got gaps.  Together we fill gaps.”

Isn’t that a great way to look at?  Meanwhile it sends us all off looking for someone to fill our gaps.

In the old days your options were limited.  You had to choose a mate from the few people you ran into.

But now with all these dating sites, you can rip through millions of people in minutes.  For example, eHarmony.com has over 15 million registered members.  In fact, a lot of them have millions of members.  One brags that 60,000 new people sign up every single day.

And it’s scientific.  They have sophisticated software to help you find the exact person to fill your gaps.

So shouldn’t the divorce rate be plummeting?  You’re no longer stuck with Jim Bob just because he was the only guy in town you liked.  Now you can choose from millions.  You’d think the marriages today would be stronger than ever.

But that doesn’t seem to be happening.  Back in 1980 about 6% of the population was divorced.  Today that’s more like 10%.*  In America, only 63% of children grow up with both biological parents – the lowest figure in the Western world.**

And while the population is rising, the number of people getting married is falling.

With so many options, why can’t we find the perfect gap filler?

Here’s what I think.  No person can do that.  There is no one person who can fill your gaps.  And you can’t fill someone else’s gaps.

Now I’ve been married for over 20 years, and my wife and I do a good job of filling each other’s gaps – to a degree.  But there is no way she can fill all my gaps, and vice versa.

Here is what marriage is good for.  In Genesis 2:18 God looked at Adam and said, “It is not good for the man to be alone.  I will make a helper suitable for him.”

So your spouse is designed to be your helper, two people working together to help each other through life. 

But what about our gaps?  Shouldn’t a spouse fill our gaps?

A spouse can fill some gaps, but honestly, we all have more gaps than any human can fill.  To ask someone to do so is to ask the impossible.  That’s why so many relationships crash on the shores of “I just needed more.”

So if a person can’t fill my gaps, where can I turn?

I must turn to the Lord.  God is the great gap filler. 

I still remember when I gave my life to Christ.  I literally felt filled up inside.  I didn’t even realize that I had an empty feeling.  I only noticed it by comparison. 

Maybe most people don’t notice that empty feeling, but it’s like a vacuum trying to be filled. 

Then as we listen to thousands of love songs and watch romantic movies, we get the idea that what we need to fill the vacuum is true, romantic love – from our soul mate.

Well, that’s sort of the idea, except that it’s really God we are looking for, because only He can fill that vacuum. 

Ephesians 1:23 describes Him as the one “who fills everything in every way.”

Ephesians 3:19 talks about being “filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.”

That is how our gaps are truly filled, when they are filled with the fullness of God.

Now listen to this.  This is not just some mechanical filling up that God does.  There is interactivity, there is communication.  This is an actual relationship with God.

The Greek word is “koinonia” which means fellowship, or communion.

First John 1:3 talks about having fellowship with “the Father and with His Son, Jesus Christ.”

First Corinthians 1:9 says we have been called into fellowship with Jesus.  The Amplified Bible says we have “companionship” with Jesus.

Second Corinthians 13:14 talks about “the fellowship of the Holy Spirit.”

So, yes, I got gaps, and you got gaps.  We all have gaps.  And we need a special relationship to fill those gaps.  But a relationship with a person just won’t do it. 

To fill our deepest gaps we need a real relationship, that koinonia, that communion with the true living God.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.
 
*  http://www.divorcemag.com/statistics/statsUS.shtml
**  From The State of Our Unions 2005, a report issued by the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University.

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