Take the High Road - Apples of Gold - July 10, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for July 10, 2008

“Take the High Road”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

I finally landed the big fish.

As a rookie salesman in my 20’s, I knew I had to sell one of the big car dealers.

I mean, if you’re in radio sales, and you don’t have at least one big car dealer as a client, you’re a nobody.

It took a while, but I finally did it.  I got the Chrysler dealer to sign a three month contract for $300 per month.  I walked out of that place on cloud nine!

Fast forward six weeks.  Now I was sitting at my desk, in complete misery.  As I looked over my reports it slowly dawned on me that I had messed up the Chrysler account.  When I had written up the schedule, I forgot to include everything in the contract.  We billed them the full price, but did not do everything we promised.

As the old timers say, I was in the horns of a dilemma.

If I told the Chrysler dealer that I had messed up his account, he might cancel, or he might not renew.  He might lose respect for me, “the kid,” and never buy from me again.

If I told my boss, he might credit the account, and take it out of my commission – something I definitely could not afford.

As far as I could tell, no one else knew about the error but me.  Maybe I could fix the schedule, make sure the client got everything he paid for, and not tell anyone.  Yes, that seemed like the best option.  Just keep it all under the radar.  I mean, why stir up trouble if you don’t have to?

So there I sat, in the horns of a dilemma.  What should I do?  Every option felt like a loser.

Have you ever been there? 

How did you decide what to do?

When we come to forks in the road like this, and we have to make a decision, we always base it on something.

Maybe we base it on what will cause the least trouble.

Or we base it on what will cost us the least.

Or we base it on what will make us look good.

There is some kind of core motivation that we fall back on.

Maybe it’s what we think our parents would do.

Have you ever analyzed this about yourself?  Think back to a time when you were at a crossroads.  You made a tough choice, so what did you base it on?

For me, it’s a little phrase that I always seem to fall back on.  I don’t remember the first time I heard it or the first time I applied it.  It’s not in the Bible, though it is certainly a biblical principle.

Here is the phrase:  Take the high road.

When I am faced with a dilemma, I remind myself, “Take the high road.”

Even if it will cost me, even if it makes me look bad, “Take the high road.”

To me, taking the high road means you are honest and true.  Your integrity is solid.  You can’t be bought and you can’t be swayed. 

Taking the high road doesn’t mean you are perfect.  Everyone messes up, but what do you do about it?  Taking the high road means owning up to your mistakes; own up, don’t cover up.

So there I was, sitting at my desk, pondering the Chrysler account.  And I fell back to that little phrase, “Take the high road.”

So I gulped real hard, picked up the phone, and called the client.  I set up an appointment because I wanted to tell him face to face.

In his office I told him what had happened.  Yes, he had caught the mistake.  He was glad that I stopped by and told him.  He appreciated my honesty.  And no, he didn’t cancel.

And you know what?  After three months he renewed his contract.  In fact, he stayed on for several years, becoming one of the biggest clients we had. 

Now I’m not saying taking the high road always ends so nicely.  Sometimes you still have to take your lumps.  But at least you’re clean.  At least you aren’t leaving behind little critters that will come back to bite you.

Deuteronomy 25:16 says the Lord detests anyone who deals dishonestly.  You don’t want to be in that crowd. 

So the next time you are in the horns of a dilemma, the next time you come to a fork in the road and you have a tough decision to make, use this phrase as a guide.  It’s like a little map, a little GPS system.  When you aren’t sure which road to take, let this little phrase be your guide:  Take the high road.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.

Proverbs 15:19 is a Bible verse that comes close to saying “Take the high road.”  It tells us that “…the path of the upright is a highway.”

Proverbs 16:17 says, “The highway of the upright avoids evil…”

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Do Not Be Anxious About Anything - Apples of Gold - July 9, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for July 9, 2008

“Do Not Be Anxious About Anything”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

“The older I get, the more I worry about my kids.”

That’s what she said, and I thought it was odd because her children were all grown up.  And there I was, just trying to keep my kids from getting under the sink and drinking poison.

That reminds me of the time when I was a kid and Mom took a bottle out from under the sink and drew an actual skull and crossbones on it.  That just made me want to pop the top and take a big swig.

Anyway, I figured if you kept your kids from killing themselves before they moved out, your worries were over.  Not so, according to this woman.  The older they got, the more she worried.

Now that my kids are a bit older, I think I see what she meant.  The stakes are higher as they become adults and start making major life decisions. 

And this old world, with the shape it’s in, what kind of life will my kids have?  What’s happening to the economy?  What will gas prices be five years from now?  What about terrorists and war?  What about grocery prices and unemployment?  Will they be able to get a good education?  And will it do them any good?

If you want to get stressed out, there are plenty of reasons to do so.  If you sit around and dwell on these things, you can literally worry yourself sick.

However, we are told in Philippians 4:6, “Do not be anxious about anything.”

With so many things to worry about, how can we not be anxious?  I mean, I can just watch the news for five minutes and feel a worry fever coming on.

Fortunately that same passage in Philippians tells us what to do about anxiety.

Philippians 4:6 goes on to say, “…present your requests to God.”

That is huge.  Worry happens when we bottle up our anxieties, letting them swirl around inside us.  The remedy for bottled up anxiety is to pop the lid and pour it out to the Lord.  Take it to the Lord in prayer.  Present your requests to God.

Then verse seven says that the peace of God will guard our hearts and minds.

So that’s a pretty simple formula.  When we feel anxious, we pray about it.  Then God takes our anxiety and replaces it with peace.

Then God gives us a way to avoid future anxiety.  Philippians 4:8 gives us a list of things to think about:  whatever is true and noble and right, whatever is pure and lovely and admirable, “if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, think about such things.”

Here are a couple more worry inoculations from Philippians chapter four.  Verse four says, “Rejoice in the Lord always.  I will say it again:  Rejoice!”  Verse six says we should come before the Lord with thanksgiving.

When you feel like you just can’t cope, look at verse 13, “I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.”

When you worry about the economy and whether you’re going to make it, look at verse 19, “And my God will meet all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus.”

Paul wrote that some people have their mind set on earthly things.  But that should not be us.  He said our citizenship is in heaven.

And then he gave us something to look forward to.  He said we eagerly await a Savior from heaven, the Lord Jesus Christ.  He will “transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like His glorious body.”

Yes, in this day and age there is plenty to worry about – but it does no good to worry.  So let’s take advantage of the wisdom God is giving us in Philippians chapter four.  And here again is what it says.

When you start to worry, don’t just sit there and marinate in troubling thoughts.  Instead, turn those worries into prayers.  Present your requests to the Lord, and He will replace your worries with His peace.

Then take control of your thoughts, and only think about good things.  Rejoice in the Lord, and thank Him for all His blessings.

Keep in mind that we can do all things through Christ, and that God will meet all of our needs.

And remember, we are citizens of heaven, and we eagerly await our Savior from heaven, who will take these old bodies and transform them to be like His glorious body.

Worry is a big bottle of poison.  Label it with a skull and crossbones, then throw it out for good. 

The Bible says, “Do not be anxious about anything.”

It’s time to take that advice, and enjoy the peace of God “which passeth all understanding.”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
If you want to be removed from this e-mail list, simply click reply and type UNSUBSCRIBE on the subject line.
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To search through the large archive of past articles, go here:  http://www.wave94.com/modules.php?name=Stories_Archive
If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Single and Obsessed - Apples of Gold - July 8, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for July 8, 2008

“Single and Obsessed”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

(open with dramatic music, “Gollum’s Song”)

It was Sméagol’s birthday – and his life was about to change forever.

He went fishing with Déagol, who was pulled into the water by a fish.  When he surfaced he had a ring.

This ring had a powerful effect on Sméagol.  It instantly became his obsession.  He demanded that Déagol give it to him as a birthday present, and when he refused, Sméagol strangled him and took it.

The ring was an evil influence, but Sméagol loved it.  It ruled his life.  Because of the ring, he was driven from his family, and he ended up living underground, hating the sunlight.

One day he lost the ring in the darkness, and eventually it was found by Bilbo Baggins.  For years Sméagol obsessed over the ring.  His life’s goal was to get it back. 

Years later, when the ring was about to be destroyed in the fires of Mount Doom, Sméagol got his hands on it one last time – then fell over the edge.  And even as he plummeted to his death, the last word on his lips was the nickname he had given the ring…

(sfx:  Sméagol saying “My Precious.”)

Now let me talk to some of you single people.  Like Sméagol, do you have an obsession with a ring?  I’m talking about a wedding ring, a symbol of “true love.”

A lot of single people are obsessed with finding “true love.”  Like Sméagol’s ring, it is always on their mind.   

This obsession can lead them into very dark places.  Seemingly good Christian people might find themselves at bars in their search for the ring.  Or there they are, trolling the internet, searching like Sméagol from cave to cave.

Sméagol would do anything to get the ring, and so do some singles.  In their quest for “true love” they end up doing crazy things.  They agree to meet people they shouldn’t meet.  They go places they shouldn’t go.  They put up with things they shouldn’t put up with.  Why?  Because they are blinded by their obsession.  At all cost they must get that ring.

For Sméagol, the ring came first.  It came before family and friends and everything else.  It was his god.

And for some single people, their quest for the ring comes first.  If they have to sacrifice their family, so be it.  If they have to give up their friends, fine. 

But the problem is, the ring, this search for “true love,” becomes their god.  It comes first.

Their decisions are made, not based on what God wants, but based on what will help them in their quest for the ring.

When they get up in the morning, they “dress for the quest.”  They join clubs and churches based on where the best “fishing” is.  Where will they go?  How will they act?  They might even take a new job or move to a new city.  Each decision is motivated by the ring.

The problem for the Christian is, this hunt for true love bumps God off the throne; the same God who said, “Thou shalt have no other gods before me.”  Jesus said, “Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and Him only shalt thou serve.”

The Lord is to be our obsession.  It is Him we seek, not a ring.  When we dress, we dress for Him.  When we decide where to go and what to do, it should be motivated by our passion to worship and serve Him.

In Tolkein’s “Lord of the Rings,” Sméagol was a moody creature.  He had moments of sanity, but then he would be highly agitated, all because of the ring.  He spent a lot of time depressed.

This happens to some singles.  When they can’t seem to find what they so greatly desire, they become agitated and moody.  They feel a surge when they think the ring is within reach, but when it isn’t they are depressed.  Up and down they go.

This is not God’s plan for your life at all.  He wants you to be stable, to build on His sure foundation. 

Hebrews 11:6 says that God rewards those “who earnestly seek Him.”

Jeremiah 29:13 says, “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”

It is the Lord we should be seeking with all of our heart, not some relationship.  That shiny golden obsession is actually fool’s gold.  It’s deceiving.  It promises things it can’t deliver.

Sméagol’s obsession with the ring destroyed his life.   If you are single, don’t let this happen to you.  Yes, you may want it, but do yourself a favor.  Deny yourself.  Take your eyes off the ring and fix them on Jesus.  He alone is our obsession.  He alone is worthy of preeminence in our lives.  He should be our motivation in all things.

And the payoff?  He is the payoff. 

Does being single make you feel like you have gaps in your life?  Ephesians 1:23 says that He “fills everything in every way.”  The Lord alone can fill all the gaps in your life.

So don’t end up groveling like Sméagol.  You are worth so much more than that.  No one’s value is based on that ring.  Instead, seek the Lord first, and let your value come from being a dearly loved child of God.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
If you want to be removed from this e-mail list, simply click reply and type UNSUBSCRIBE on the subject line.
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To search through the large archive of past articles, go here:  http://www.wave94.com/modules.php?name=Stories_Archive
If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000

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Why Didn't I Do Some Big Thing With My Life? - Apples of Gold - July 7, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for July 7, 2008

“Why Didn’t I Do Some Big Thing With My Life?”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

There was an engagement party for my son last night.

A year from now he will be married.

Also yesterday I helped him move out.

It was a big day, and big days make you think about the big picture of your life.

As we drove along he asked me why I had spent my life working at local Christian radio stations.  Why didn’t I do some big thing with my life, such as join a national ministry, or even start my own.

I told him I didn’t really know.  Here is the way I have lived my life.  I simply try to walk with God, then do what I think He is leading me to do.

I compared it to being a simple private on D-Day in World War II.  Imagine a private that wasn’t too bright, and never did well in school.  General Eisenhower and other brilliant strategists drew up all the plans for the invasion, including all the soldiers and the training and the supplies and the ships and planes and bombs and weather and coded messages.  A million details, and the simple private – just thinking about it made his brain explode.  He literally did not have the brainpower to comprehend it.

However, he knew enough to do what he was told.  “Get off this boat, get across the beach, and take out that machine gun nest,” or whatever.  He couldn’t comprehend the entire plan, but he could do what he was told.

That’s the way I feel when I try to understand what God is doing in the world.  Just thinking about it makes my brain explode.  I can’t comprehend it.  Billions of people all over the planet, all doing things every day.  All those dreams and hopes and hurts and disappointments.  All the love and hate and intrigue.  I know God is up to something in everyone’s life, but I can’t grasp it.  Honestly, I can’t even grasp what He’s doing in my neighborhood, or in my own church.

So God is the brilliant strategist, and I am the simple private.  Who am I to make my own plans?

So I try not to.  Instead I try to walk with God, then do what He leads me to do.

That is how we ended up in Florida.  I believe it was the Lord’s leadership that brought us here.

And that move greatly affected my son.  We moved in the middle of his junior year in high school, and he didn’t like it.  He was uprooted from all his friends, and everything looked bleak.  He didn’t understand why we moved, and all he talked about was moving back. 

And all I could say was, “This is what I think the Lord was leading us to do.”

Of course now he sees things quite differently!  The Lord has done many great things in his life since then.  He is more fired up for God than ever.  He has made great new Christian friends.  He is involved in ministry.  And best of all, he is engaged to a wonderful Christian young lady who shares his passion for the Lord.  They are best friends, and their future is incredibly bright.

And I think that happened because, instead of making our own plans, we were willing to follow the leading of the Lord.

Who knew that things would turn out so well for my son? 

God knew.

What would his life be like if I had done what was wise in my own eyes?

Back to that lowly private.  Picture him standing at the edge of a mine field.  Sure, he could step out and do whatever he thought was best.  But that’s asking to get blown up.  The best thing would be if someone could walk with him, walk him safely through the mine field. 

To me, life is like a mine field.  If we step out and go wherever we think is best, we risk getting blown up.  But when we walk with God, He will lead us exactly where we need to go.

God is the brilliant strategist.  He knows what is best.  I am the lowly private.  The best I can do is walk with Him.

Then the monkey is off my back.  I don’t have to carry the weight of the world on my shoulders.  I don’t worry about things I can’t control, which is almost everything.  God will have to take care of all that.

My part is to simply do my part.  And today that means working at this radio station, helping out at church, and caring for my family.  No, it’s not a “big” thing.  But it’s a “called” thing.  It’s what I’m called to do at this time.

Now a lot of people will ask, “How can I know specifically what I’m called to do?” 

How did Noah know to build the ark?  He knew it because God said it and Noah heard it.

And what put Noah in a position to hear God?  Genesis 6:9 says, “…he walked with God.” 

And that’s the key.  You want the Lord’s leadership?  You want to hear from Him, receive His guidance? 

Then give up your own plans.  Take that map you’ve drawn up for yourself and throw it out.  In a complex world, we simply cannot know what is best. 

Instead, we do like Noah.  We do like Enoch.  We do like all the great ones over the years.   And what did they do?  They simply walked with God.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
If you want to be removed from this e-mail list, simply click reply and type UNSUBSCRIBE on the subject line.
If you want to catch “Apples of Gold” in its original audio format, go to www.wave94.com
To search through the large archive of past articles, go here:  http://www.wave94.com/modules.php?name=Stories_Archive
If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Don't Dress Like a Boy Magnet - Apples of Gold - July 3, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for July 3, 2008

“Don’t Dress Like a Boy Magnet”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Don’t dress like a boy magnet.

“But I want to be a boy magnet!”

Oh, you better think about that.  Start by thinking about this:  what percentage of the male population are you trying to attract? 

Probably a very tiny percentage, right?  After all, you’re not trying to attract the dirty old men, are you?  You’re not trying to attract the losers and abusers.  I’m going to guess that the only guys you want to attract are the guys that you are attracted to.  I bet you’re not trying to attract any unwanted attention from guys you aren’t attracted to.

So really, it’s a very small percentage of the male population you are trying to attract, so don’t dress like you’re trying to attract them all.

So how many do you want to attract?  This is important.  I hope your answer is…one.  If you are a single Christian female, then the most you should be trying to attract is one, and that would be your future husband who will become your one and only. 

And what kind of husband do you want?  A strong Christian, I hope.  A good, godly man with high principles and strong morals. 

If this is the kind of husband you want, then how should you attract him?  First Peter 3 talks about how women should make themselves beautiful.  It’s not their hair or their clothes or their jewelry that makes them so attractive.  Instead it’s what’s inside, their holiness, their gentleness, their peace, their hope in God. 

If you want to attract a godly man, then you must be a godly woman.  You need to work on your inner qualities and your walk with God.  And with that comes a de-emphasis on your outward appearance.

“Yes, Doug, I want a good Christian husband someday.  But I want to be attractive.  Is there anything wrong with that?”

I think you need to drill down and see what your motivation is.  Does it make you feel good to get the boys’ attention?  Is your self esteem riding on this?  Is that why you dress like a boy magnet?

Now think this through.  If this is what makes you feel good about yourself, then what will you do when you are married?  After a while, many women fall back into the rut of making themselves feel good by attracting the boys’ attention – even though they are married. 

And what will you do when you get older and lose your attractive edge?  Some women panic with those first signs of old age.  That’s why you see mothers and grandmothers dressing like boy magnets.  Their self esteem hinges on grabbing the boys’ attention.

This is a rotten place to get your self esteem.  It’s fleeting.  It’s never really there. You are always chasing it but never really catching it. 

The problem is that it’s like a drug.  It feels so good to snag the attention of an attractive member of the opposite sex.  It gives you a high that can last all day.  Then like other highs, once it wears off you need another one.  And to get it – now listen – to get it, what will you be willing to do?  Will you wear your clothes a little tighter?  Skirts a little shorter?  Tops a little racier?  What will you do to attract the boys?

Now let’s talk about the attention you are getting.  When you dress like a boy magnet, what you are attracting is the eyes of the boys.  They are looking at your body.  Or let me say this, they are looking at your body parts.  If you wear tight jeans, they are looking at your rear end.  If you wear short skirts, they are looking at your legs, and on and on. 

Now don’t get too excited, thinking they are looking at you.  They are not really looking at you.  They are looking at your parts.  Listen, they may love your chest, but they may not like you at all. 

This is not what you want, is it?  It’s demeaning.  It’s depersonalizing. 

So think about it.  You dress like a boy magnet to draw the attention of the boys, which makes you feel good about yourself.  But in reality, they aren’t even thinking about you as a person.  They are just enjoying the display.  It could be anyone.

So if you think you want to be a boy magnet, you need to think it through.  I don’t think it’s going to bring the results you want.

If your goal is to attract a good, godly husband, then dressing like a boy magnet is not the way to do it.  Instead, work on your inner qualities, such as your holiness and your walk with God.

“But Doug, if I don’t dress to attract, I’m afraid I won’t attract anyone.”

Let’s go back to First Peter chapter 3.  Verse 6 says you should “do what is right and do not give way to fear.”

Yes, I think it’s a legitimate fear to think you might miss out on attracting a good husband.  But do what is right, and don’t give way to fear. 

You don’t have to dress like a little “hottie” to attract a godly man.  In fact, I think a godly man will disrespect that.  It’s more likely to repel than attract.

And you know what?  A man doesn’t want to be married to a boy magnet.  When a man marries, he wants you to himself.  He doesn’t want to share you with the rest of the male population. 

So think this through, and pray about it.  What are your goals?  What is your motivation?  When you get to the bottom of it, I think you’ll find that it doesn’t have any good long term effects. 

It’s just not a good plan to dress like a boy magnet.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
If you want to be removed from this e-mail list, simply click reply and type UNSUBSCRIBE on the subject line.
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Eternal Vigilance is the Price of Liberty - Apples of Gold - July 2, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for July 2, 2008

“Eternal Vigilance is the Price of Liberty”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

What if China made a deal with OPEC to buy all the oil they had?

What if they sealed it with a threat of invasion?

One little deal like that on the other side of the world would radically change our lives in America.

You think high dollar gas is bad?  Imagine this – no gas.

What would we do, go to war?

Why hasn’t something like this happened?  Is it because we have the power to nuke them off the face of the earth?

Now think about this.  Why haven’t there been any more big terrorist attacks in America after 9-11?  Are you telling me they couldn’t just make up their mind and do it if they wanted to?

Why hasn’t there been another world war?  What’s stopping Russia or China or India or Iraq from marching out and gobbling up their neighbors?

And you can rest assured, if any big thing happens in the world, it will involve us, the United States of America.

At this point we have immense freedom and peace in America.  But there is no guarantee that will last.  If we take it for granted, we will lose it.

One of my all time favorite quotes is this, “Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty.”

The only way we can keep our liberty, for us and our children, is by constantly working on it.

Will another country attack America?  It could happen, you know.  That’s why we never stop working around the world.  That’s why, for example, we are part of the Six-Party process regarding North Korea, which brought about that country’s commitment to denuclearize. 

Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice says the fight for freedom never ends.  Her view is that if we want to stay free in America, then we must work to bring about freedom everywhere.  She calls it “transformational diplomacy,” which means we partner with foreign citizens to better their own lives and build their own nations.  She says, “We must begin to lay new diplomatic foundations to secure a future of freedom for all people.” 

So why do we care if other countries are free? 

One reason is because if they believe in freedom, then they will grant us our freedom and their neighbors their freedom.  When you believe in freedom, you aren’t going to attack your neighbor and take away their freedom.

So spreading freedom is one strategy for keeping our freedom.

Of course not everyone wants to grant their citizens freedom, but we still have to work with all those countries.  We have to work with them in order to maintain our own freedom.

Diplomacy is great, but all some people understand is force.  That’s why we must keep a strong military.  It’s called “peace through strength.”  We must stay so strong that every other country looks at us and says, “No, messing with them is not worth it.”

Keeping our liberty is a job that is never done. 

But now think about this.  Who is doing all this work?  Well a ton of it is done by government officials, people you’ve never heard of.  And let me tell you, I hope and pray that these people know what they are doing!  I hope they are smart and wise and diligent, because our nation hinges on these unknown workers.

A lot of this work is done by our soldiers.  They are stationed all over the world.  This “peace through strength” comes from real people doing their jobs day and night, putting their lives at risk so we can live at peace, without fear of invasion.

And you know what?  We constantly need new people to do these jobs.  People come and people go, and who will take their place?  I hope and pray that good, qualified people are always there to protect our liberty.

Now you might think, “Well, there will always be someone to do it, so I don’t have to.”  Maybe and maybe not.  If enough people take that attitude then we are in trouble. 

Remember Proverbs 18:9, “One who is slack in his work is brother to one who destroys.”  You don’t have to fight against this nation to destroy it.  All you have to do is be slack in your work for this nation.  So think about what part you can play.  Pray about it.  Say, “Lord, what do You want me to do for the good of my country?”

One big thing we should all do is pray.  First Timothy 2 says we should pray for all those in authority so we can live peaceful and quiet lives.  And yes, I think our prayers and God’s answers are one reason why we have kept our liberty so far.

As we prepare for another Independence Day celebration, let us not take for granted the precious freedoms we enjoy.  They come at a great cost, both in the past, and to this very day.  The price for our liberty is never paid in full, because the price of liberty is eternal vigilance. 


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.

Here is a great website to keep current on our dealings with other countries.  It also makes a great prayer list!

 

http://www.state.gov/

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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Being Famous is the Counterfeit of Being Known - Apples of Gold - July 1, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for July 1, 2008

“Being Famous is the Counterfeit of Being Known”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

How many stars can you name from 1908?

How many great athletes or entertainers or authors from just 100 years ago?

It was a presidential election year.  Do you know who was running?

Honestly, the only thing I know about 1908 is that it was the last time the Cubs won a World Series.  (If they win it this year, I think we’re starting to see a pattern...)

Now here’s the thing.  In 1908 there were so many people working so hard to be somebody, and yet now they are almost entirely forgotten. 

Let me go back to when I was a kid, in the early 1970’s.  Who were the stars in my little mind?  Well there was Wilt Chamberlain, David Cassidy, Muhammad Ali, Johnny Unitas, Lou Brock, Bob Gibson.  I didn’t know any authors.  I shook President Nixon’s pinkie at a state fair.  I saw Billy Graham on TV.  And I liked the Harlem Globetrotters with Meadowlark Lemon and Curly Neal.

Now if I walked in my wife’s first grade class and asked about those names, how many do you think the kids would know?  Maybe Billy Graham and President Nixon. 

Bounce a few names off some kids you know.  It will be an eye opener.  Ask if they know who Michael Jordan is.  As famous as he is, many kids just shrug.  The only people they will know are those who are in the limelight right now.  Tiger Woods is huge…right now.  But can you name a golfer from 1908? 

My point is that fame is fleeting.  Even if you become the best in the world at something, as time goes by you will be forgotten, and new people will come along and take your place.  To become famous is not a worthy goal.

Not everyone wants to be famous.  Most people don’t have that drive.  But do we all have something in common?  I think the common element is the desire to be known.  For whatever reason, we want to be known.

To become famous is a counterfeit to becoming known.  It seems like it gets you there, but it doesn’t.  It doesn’t scratch where it itches.

In their day, everyone knew about Frank Sinatra and Elvis, but did anybody actually know them?

In Jesus’ time we see the Pharisees falling for this counterfeit of being known.  In Matthew 25 Jesus said, “Everything they do is done for men to see.”  He said, “…they love the place of honor at banquets,” and, “…they love to be greeted in the marketplaces and to have men call them ‘Rabbi.’”

Why did the Pharisees want this recognition?  I think it’s the desire to be known.  Since that was the goal, they did what it took to meet that goal.  And it worked.  People knew them as the religious stars of the day. 

But being famous is the counterfeit of being known.  Underneath their famous surface the Pharisees were hollow.  All they had was that fame, and when Jesus threatened it, when He began to peel back their whitewashed surface and reveal the dead men’s bones inside, they panicked.  And when they got the chance, they killed Him.

So if being famous is the counterfeit, what is the real thing? 

I think it comes in two layers.  The first is being known by God.  Being known by God is not hollow or fleeting.  It’s not based on your poll numbers or recent victories.  Being known by God is a solid, real thing. 

Galatians 4 says that God knows us.  And not only that, He redeemed us so that we would have full rights as His children.  He even placed His Spirit in our hearts, and from our hearts His Spirit calls out to Him, “Abba, Father.”  He knows us and we are His children and His heirs.

In First Corinthians 13 Paul said, “I am fully known.”

First Corinthians 8:3 says, “…the man who loves God is known by God.”

In Jeremiah 12:3, Jeremiah said, “…you know me, O Lord…”

In Second Samuel 7:20, David said, “…you know your servant, O Sovereign Lord.”

Psalm 44:21 says that God even knows the very secrets of our heart.

Psalm 139:4 indicates that God knows us so well, that He even knows what we are going to say before we say it.

So if there is a desire within us to be known, it is fulfilled in being known by God.

And then there is the second layer, which I think is fulfilled within the body of Christ.  It’s the true fellowship that God designed to take place within the church.

James 5:16 says we are to confess our sins to each other and pray for each other.  Why would we do that instead of just confessing to God?  One reason is that it meets the need of being known.  It shreds the superficial and gets down to the real. 

Here is where the word fellowship blossoms into its full reality.  We become known as we fellowship with God and as we fellowship with each other.

This is God’s design.  It meets our needs.  It scratches where it itches. 

So the root desire is to be known, and that desire is met as we are known by God and known by our fellow believers. 

And that desire to be famous?  Look at the big picture and I think you will see that being famous is just the counterfeit of the real gift of being known.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Train Yourself to be Godly - Apples of Gold - June 30, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for June 30, 2008

“Train Yourself to be Godly”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

My daughter is in training.

It’s summer vacation.  It’s 7 a.m., and she is in training.

The first volleyball game is weeks away, but she is in training.

If the other team isn’t training already, they are falling behind.  When they lose, they may blame a lot of things, but the losing or winning begins right now, in the training.

One thing training involves is hyper-focus.  In volleyball you will spend hours developing the rhythm of “Bump, set, spike.  Bump, set, spike.”  In basketball the coach says, “We’re gonna shoot free throws until you can do it in your sleep!” 

Actors will focus on a scene until they have it down.  Musicians will focus on a solo.  Firefighters practice rescues. 

It’s all training that we do ahead of time, so that when it’s time to perform, we are ready. 

With that in mind, look at First Timothy 4:7.  “Train yourself to be godly.”

We know what it means to “train yourself to swim the 200 meter freestyle.”  But what does it mean to train yourself to be godly? 

What is “godly” anyway?  We are godly when we reflect the characteristics of God.

So how can we train ourselves to be godly?  Well it makes sense to me that we could pick one of the characteristics of God, then work on it. 

For example, God is pure.  So what can we do to be more pure like God?

My son introduced me to a new idea called “Simple House.”  He is talking about moving into a house with other believers, and one of the goals is to purify themselves from worldly influences.  For example, at Simple House there will be no TV or internet. 

This is one example of Christians training themselves to be godly, in this case training toward the godly characteristic of purity.

Let’s pick another characteristic of God:  slow to anger.  How could you train yourself to be slow to anger?

First of all, when are you likely to be quick to anger?  Is it while you are driving?  Are you quick to anger during sports?  Then train yourself to be more godly.  Put a Bible verse on your dashboard if you have to.  Chew on black licorice at the ballgame if you have to.  Whatever you have to do, train yourself to change your behavior.

See, sometimes we want to leave this all up to God.  “Yes, I have a temper problem.  God just needs to take it away from me.”

But the Bible says “train yourself to be godly.”  That puts the ball in our court.  We need to work on it, to go into training.

Here’s the thing.  We will train in all sorts of areas.  Many people spend hundreds of hours in training for everything from track to cello to tracheotomies.    

If you went to a piano contest, then messed up halfway through, wouldn’t you say you should have practiced more?

So why do we leave our godliness up to some kind of osmosis?  Godliness is not some slippery quality that we either have or we don’t.  It’s something we can train for. 

It’s right there in the Bible, in First Timothy 4:7, “Train yourself to be godly.”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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When the Changes Don't Come Fast Enough - Apples of Gold - June 27, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for June 27, 2008

“When the Changes Don’t Come Fast Enough”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

She had a big fight with her boyfriend.

A huge fight.

A “you’re such a jerk the wedding’s off” fight.

The next day they were both in Orlando on business, so he asked her to meet him for dinner.

“No,” she said.

“Well there’s a big, special church service at the civic center tonight.  Will you at least meet me there after dinner?”

“Okay,” she said, just to be polite.

As they walked through the civic center that night she created a chilly force field around herself.  “Don’t you dare try to hold my hand.  Don’t even touch me.”

The service was nice, some kind of Assemblies of God conference with thousands in attendance.  Eventually the speaker said, “Maybe tonight’s the night you are going to ask Jesus Christ to be your personal Savior.” 

At this, Tracey Cochran bristled.  She had heard altar calls before, and she had always told herself, “I’m not about to walk down in front of a bunch of people.”

Then the speaker said, “Turn to the person beside you and ask, ‘Is this the night you ask Jesus Christ to be your Savior?’”

The woman beside Tracey turned and asked her that question, and as bad as she wanted to say no, she found herself saying yes.

And the next thing she knew she was doing just what she had no intention of doing, walking down in front of a bunch of people to publicly accept Christ.

Tracey had heard a lot of testimonies, so she figured that her life would instantly and radically change.  But when she got home that night, and when she woke up the next day – it really wasn’t that different.

She went back to work and went about her business and, really, no big deal.  She wasn’t doing anything awful at the time anyway, so what big changes could God make?  She was a nice person, a good person before coming to Christ.  Now what?

Then one day she was driving down the highway on a business trip.  She was listening to a Whitney Houston CD, and started to notice the song lyrics.  She saw them in a new light, and thought, “Why, this is drivel.  Why am I listening to this?”

She looked at her music collection and thought, “I need to get some new music.”  So she went to the Christian bookstore and invested in some Christian music.

This may not sound like a big deal, but it was a big deal to her.  It was the first obvious change that she saw God making in her life.  Not something a preacher told her to do.  Not something she read in a book.  Just something that the Holy Spirit within her called her attention to and brought about a change.

Then she noticed something else – a growing desire for her family to come to Christ.  None of them were Christians, and she said that over time she just felt it stirring inside her, a burning desire to share the Gospel with her parents and siblings.  And before long she was able to lead both her mother and her father to Christ.

So Tracey didn’t notice any huge changes when she first became a Christian.  But big changes did come as the Spirit of God moved within her.  And the two big things she noticed was a change of her taste in music, and a desire for her family to be saved.

That story reminds me of Philippians 1:6, “…He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

When we come to Christ, that is just the beginning of His good work within us.  It doesn’t all happen at once in one giant morphing from human to Christlike.  It tends to happen more gradually as Christ carries on His work inside us.

Have you ever seen someone come to Christ, and then you thought of a hundred things they needed to hurry up and change?  They need to stop drinking, smoking, cussing, and fooling around.  They need to stop being lazy and selfish and deceptive.  They need to change their hair and their clothes, and what about those tattoos and piercings?  They need to witness and tithe and help orphans and widows.  But meanwhile, there they are, content to just sit around and play their rated M video games.  Now what?

You may be tempted to dive in and try to turn them into super Christians, made in your own image.  But maybe you need to leave some room for the Holy Spirit.  God is the one who saved them.  He is the one who drew them in the first place.  God is the one who began the good work, and He is the one who will carry it on to completion.

I don’t know what Tracey would have done if someone would have told her to stop listening to Whitney Houston, or told her to immediately go drop a Gospel bomb on her parents.  But I do know this.  When the Holy Spirit stirs up a conviction inside someone, it becomes a true conviction. 

So be encouraged today!  In your own life, and in the life of those Christians around you – sure, maybe the changes don’t seem to be happening fast enough, or big enough – but never forget those great words in Philippians 1:6, “…He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.

Tracey Cochran and her husband Thom own the Little English Guesthouse Bed and Breakfast in Tallahassee:
http://www.littleenglishguesthouse.com/

Soon you will be able to hear Tracey’s complete testimony on www.TestifyTallahassee.com as well as on Wave 94.

© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Those Who Know How Will Always Work For Those Who Know Why - Apples of Gold - June 26, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for June 26, 2008

“Those Who Know How Will Always Work For Those Who Know Why”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Those who know how will always work for those who know why.

For example, those who know how to weld will always work for those who know why they are welding.

“Come on Doug.  It’s obvious.  We are welding to hold the building together, that’s why we are welding.”

No, that is not it.  Knowing the “why” means stepping back and seeing the real reasons.

You are welding so that people will have a nice hotel to stay in when they come to your town for the next 20 or 30 years.  You are welding to give hundreds of people a nice place to work.  You are welding to build a profit-maker for the owners.  You are welding to build a tax-producer for the government.  You are welding to add one more reason why people should spend their money in your town instead of going somewhere else.

And you thought you were just welding to hold the building together.

See, you may know how to weld, but do you know the why?  If you can see and understand the big picture, then you will understand the “why.”

And it’s good to know the “why” because remember this.  Those who know how will always work for those who know why.

“Well, Doug, maybe I’m content just knowing how.  Anything wrong with that?”

Okay, let’s look at what kind of company you are putting yourself in.

Proverbs 17:16 indicates that it’s the fools who do not desire to get wisdom.

Proverbs 1:7 says that “fools despise wisdom…”

Man, you don’t want to be in that crowd.

Alright, you want one good reason to learn the “why” of things?  Job security.  The more you learn about how things work, the more likely you are to always have a job.

Leaning the “why” will cause you to rise up in any organization.  You will grow in wisdom, and the wiser you are, the more people want you around.  They need you around.  People will come to rely on you.  They won’t want to make a move without getting your input.

Thousands of investors know how to invest in the stock market.  But Warren Buffet knows why.

Thousands of people know how to tinker with technology.  But Steve Jobs knows why.

Thousands of directors know how to create a motion picture.  But Steven Spielberg knows why.

Have you ever been to a conference in your industry?  There you are, sitting in the crowd, listening to the speakers.  Afterward you see the industry leaders huddled off to the side.  All of a sudden, just as you are walking by, they call you over.  They want to know if you have anything to say about your industry.

This will separate those who know why from those who know how.  Would you have anything to say to these industry leaders? 

Now listen to what it says in Proverbs 24:7.  It’s talking about a fool, and it says, “…in the assembly…he has nothing to say.”

The Message Bible says this about fools, “…in a serious discussion they haven’t a clue.”

Man, you don’t want to be that person! 

A friend of mine is an electrical contractor.  He told me that when he was a young electrician he decided to read the electrical code book.  That sounds like exciting reading, doesn’t it?  But it caused him to rise up in the ranks.  Instead of just knowing how to do electrical work, he began to learn why things were done the way they were.

Now he is the boss over other electricians. 

And now get this.  He sees guys sitting around on their break, reading things like People magazine.  He said he tries to get them to read things that will increase their knowledge of the industry, and he said they scoff at him.  These are guys that will never rise up in the ranks.  In the assembly of leaders they will have nothing to say.  If you tried to have a serious discussion with them about electricity, they wouldn’t have a clue. 

Man, you don’t want to be that person.

Proverbs 4:7 says, “Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom.  Though it cost all you have, get understanding.”

This applies to whatever you are doing.  If you are married, get wisdom about marriage.  If you have children, get wisdom about parenting.  If you own a car, get wisdom about taking care of your car. 

And if you work in an industry, dive in and learn all you can about that industry, even about the jobs you may never do yourself.  The more you learn, the more you will understand the big picture of how it all works together.  Then you will begin understand why they do the things they do.

And it’s good to understand the why, because those who know how will always work for those who know why.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


© 2008 The Arrow’s Tip
To subscribe to your own daily “Apples of Gold” e-mail, write dougapple@wave94.com.
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If you have trouble reaching me at my main e-mail address, try this one:  douglas_apple@msn.com

(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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A Santa Bag Full of Strife - Apples of Gold - June 25, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for June 25, 2008

“A Santa Bag Full of Strife”

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

So we were sitting around the dinner table the other night, and I noticed the young man to my right was horking down his food.

I said, “Does it taste good?”

“Yep.”

“How do you know?  It’s going straight down your throat.”

I told him to slow down, then I decided to show him how it should go.  I made a big production out of taking a bite and saying, “Mmmmmmm.  Enjoy the flavor of every bite.”

Then I did it a couple more times, you know, to drive the lesson home.

“Mmmmmmmmmmm,” I said.

“Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!”

Well that last “Mmmm” finally crossed my wife’s irritation threshold.

“Alright,” she said, “You made your point and now you’re killing it.”

Then my youngest daughter piped in, “Yeh, Dad, really…”

So I turned to my wife, and I wasn’t smiling.  I waved my hand toward my daughter and said, “See – you start it and she just reflects your attitude.”

The little Christian family dinner was turning into the Sopranos.

Then a little sound changed everything.  We all stopped when the young man to my right, with food in his mouth and a twinkle in his eye, said, “Mmmmmmm!”

And that was that.  Peace was restored and we went on to enjoy a nice meal and a happy rest-of-the-day.

Now listen to the role that young man played.  He played the role of peacemaker.  It was a bit of genius really, and we can all learn a lot from what he did.

So here’s the question.  What do we do when suddenly the peace is broken?  How do we respond?

Well here is how God wants us to respond.  He wants us to make peace.

Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers.”

There are a host of scriptures that tell us to be peacemakers. .

First Corinthians 7:15 says, “…God has called us to live in peace.”

First Peter 3:11 says, “…seek peace and pursuit it.”

Romans 12:18 says, “…as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

Romans 14:9 says, “…make every effort to do what leads to peace…”

Hebrews 12:14 says, “Make every effort to live in peace with all men…”

So it’s obvious that peace is a high priority for Christians. 

The biggest question is always, “How can I be a peacemaker with someone who constantly stirs up strife?”

I don’t know.

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Comments?

E-mail me, Doug Apple…

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Just kidding.  :  )

But seriously, is there a way to be a peacemaker around someone who seems to carry a big Santa bag full of strife and every day is Christmas?

I think the first step is to make sure you start with peace in your own heart, and that comes from the Holy Spirit within you.  Peace is a fruit of the Spirit, so if you can let the Holy Spirit rule in your own heart, that’s half the battle.  That will keep you from reacting poorly when they hand you a big box of strife.

Then what you need is what James 3:17 calls, “the wisdom that comes from heaven.” 

Really, when you are dealing with a peace-wrecker, you can’t deal with it off the top of your head.  You need wisdom from God.  You need to pray for what I call “keen insight.”  I pray that often, “Lord, give me keen insight into the situation.” 

James says that wisdom from heaven is impartial and sincere.  It doesn’t choose sides.  It doesn’t react or fly off the handle.  It doesn’t burst forth in a rage.  James says it is full of mercy and good fruit.

Yes, the Bible stresses our role as peacemakers, and there you have two ways to step into that role.  First, keep the peace in your own heart through the fruit of the Spirit, then second, ask God for wisdom from heaven to deal with stressful situations when they occur.

And the next time things take a Corleone twist at the dinner table, you can snatch it from the jaws of misery and end up with an enjoyable rest-of-the-day.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


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