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“Lose All Your Guilty Stains”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Cynthia Tucker is a Pulitzer Prize-winning writer for the Atlanta Journal-Constitution.

Yesterday she wrote about Tiger Woods, and here’s what she said, “…his behavior affects only him, his wife and his sponsors…”

Well that’s a mighty small circle of influence.  If Tiger Woods’ behavior only affected that little group, then he wouldn’t have sponsors to begin with.

When Nike paid Tiger a hundred million dollars, it was precisely because he affected tons of people.  Tiger wears Nike in hopes that we all will follow suit. 

I remember when Tiger first started wearing that plain Nike cap with just that little Nike swoosh on the front.  I thought it was quite boring and shameless advertising.  And yet all of a sudden I saw guys all over place wearing that exact cap.

Why did they do it?  It didn’t affect their golf game.  It was no different than a thousand other caps. 

Well they did it because Tiger did it.

See, Tiger Woods has sponsors precisely because he is so extremely influential. 

Now I’m not saying Tiger’s infidelities will cause others to do the same.  In fact, those very infidelities are costing him influence.

But millions are still watching him, just waiting for the next bit of news about Tiger.  It’s sad, and it’s turned into a train wreck, but people are very, very interested in Tiger Woods and what he’s going to do.

And what he does has the potential to be very influential.  Some people will see how he handles his problems and decide that that is how they are going to handle their own problems.

So here is what I hope and pray happens.

I hope Tiger calls a big press conference, choosing the time and location for maximum impact.

And then I hope, with many tears, that he confesses his sins.  Not in gory detail, but in glorious repentance. 

I hope he announces that he has confessed his sins to God, and that through Jesus Christ, he has received forgiveness. 

And I hope he begins beaming with joy, even as the tears roll. 

I hope he declares an awesome Christian testimony, of being saved and born again – that “the old has gone, the new has come!”

Then I hope he announces that he is taking a year off from the tour, that he is submitting himself to a pastor, to be discipled and to get things straightened out in his life.  And so he can focus on his wife and children and fixing some things that, right now, are very broken.

I have no idea how Tiger will end up dealing with all this, but I know that the right thing for him is the right thing for all of us.  Our problem is sin, and the solution is Jesus.

Isaiah 1:18 says come now, let us reason together.  Though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

Jesus died on the cross for our sins.  He paid the penalty so we could be set free. 

Ephesians 1:17 says we have redemption, and our sins are forgiven, through the blood of Jesus.

The old hymn says, “There is a fountain filled with blood drawn from Emmanuel’s veins; and sinners plunged beneath that flood lose all their guilty stains.”

I have experienced this personally.  I can testify that it works.  Jesus redeemed me and forgave me and saved me.  My sins were as scarlet, but He made them white as snow.  He removed all the guilty stains.

What a joy!  What a burden lifted!  What a cleansing that takes place when we bring it all to Jesus!

This is the joy that I want Tiger Woods to experience.  And I know that if he experiences it, he will influence many others to experience it as well.  Many will learn from him that this is the way you handle sin.  Like it says in First John 1:9, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Oh that Tiger would be free from this terrible burden!  And oh that, through his influence, millions of others would find freedom as well!

This is the Gospel, the good news!

Through Jesus, we can be delivered from the burden of sin.

Through Jesus, our sins, though as scarlet, will be made white as snow.

Through Jesus, we can gloriously lose all of our guilty stains.


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E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


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Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
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My Advice to Parents After Two Weddings in One Year - Apples of Gold - December 9, 2009 -vi-

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“My Advice to Parents After Two Weddings in One Year”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Okay, so my two oldest kids got married this year.

Our son’s wedding was in June, which was a warm-up for hosting our daughter’s wedding in November.

And the question is, now that I have two children successfully established on their own, what advice might I pass on to other parents?

Well here is one super important thing.  Parents, be involved in your child’s life. 

I know that’s pretty obvious when your kids are two or five or nine.  But as they become teenagers, and as they begin to forge a life apart from you, it’s tempting to step back and wash your hands of them a little bit.

Don’t do it.  Don’t ever stop talking to them and listening to them and spending time with them.  Yes, they will be moody and sometimes downright weird, but listen to this illustration I heard from Dr. Dobson.

He compares parenting to whitewater rafting.  For a while the water is smooth and everyone is having a nice time in the boat.  But then come the teenage years, which he compares to hitting the rapids.  When you hit the rapids, he says, the main thing is to just keep everybody in the boat.  Yes, you may get soaked, and you may lose some of your stuff, but focus on keeping them in the boat.

What that means is, stay in relationship with your teenager.  It may not always be pretty, but keep communicating.

And most of all, keep on loving them.  Be consistent.  Always want what is best for them.

A former pastor of mine said, “My children may choose to go off into the world, but they will have to climb over a lot of love to get there.”

This is what we did with our son and daughter.  We never stopped spending time with them and having conversations.  There were times when I would say, “Let’s go for a walk.”  Sometimes it’s good to just go for a drive, where you don’t have to face each other.  It makes it easier to talk.

So parents, stay involved in your teenager’s life.  Maintain the relationship.  Keep them in the boat.

Now, when they start dating, I think you should get to know the person they are dating.  I know we don’t have arranged marriages these days, but let me tell you, you do have some control over who they meet.

Both of our children married people from church.  Growing up, our kids didn’t know anything different but going to church.  We were always involved, always faithful, so that’s all our kids knew.  It’s no surprise, therefore, that they ended up meeting and marrying someone from church.

And these were kids who had been at our house.  We always tried to make our house kid-friendly.  It was a place where teenagers could feel comfortable.  One thing – feed them!  Young people love to go where there is free food.

Now it’s hard for a parent to step in and force a young adult to date this one and not that one.  But when you love them, and they know you love them, then you can offer your advice, you should offer your advice.

Then when their dating becomes serious, have conversations with whomever they are dating.  Get to know them.  Then you can offer wise advice to your child.  They may or may not take it, you can’t force them.  But you can sure offer it.

And if they don’t take your advice, don’t write them off.  Remember – keep them in the boat.  Maintain the relationship.

And begin to build a relationship with the other person.  They may become part of your family someday, so start building a relationship.  Begin to love them, and want what’s best for them.

You are probably noticing that the word relationship is popping up a lot.  That’s because that’s what it comes down to, your relationship with your child as well as the person they end up marrying.

And, as it gets serious, I think it’s good to get to know the other person’s family.  Their family has a profound effect on them, and it all affects the life they will forge with your child.  So get to know their family.

And now here’s something that I’m told is old fashioned, but I like it.  I think the young man should ask for the daughter’s hand in marriage.  This is a sit down with the future bride’s father, man to man.  Now you may want to get mom involved, and that’s fine, but I like the mano-a-mano.

My son had this meeting with his future father-in-law, and my daughter’s boyfriend met with me.  We spent a lot of time discussing his life and his vision and his own relationship with God.  And I told him what I expected of him as my daughter’s husband.

See, the main point is, get involved in the process.  Be involved in your child’s life, not just when they are little, but always.  Now this isn’t meddling and being pushy or trampling on their autonomy.  But it is involvement, grounded in love, and wanting what is best for your child.

And, of course, all this is bathed in prayer, much much prayer, asking God for wisdom, and for His blessings on your children.  We keep the kids in the boat, and we keep God at the helm of the boat.

So there you go.  My advice to parents, based on looking back after two weddings in one year. 

I’m glad to say that my children seem well on their way to establishing strong families of their own, and to me, a main key was the fact that their mom and I stayed involved in their lives.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


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Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
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I Had Only My Staff When I Crossed This Jordan - Apples of Gold - December 8, 2009 -vi-

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“I Had Only My Staff When I Crossed This Jordan”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

“I had only my staff…”

That’s what Jacob said in Genesis 32:10.

He was talking about the time, 20 years earlier, when he was fleeing from his brother Esau.  He had just stolen his brother’s birthright, and Esau decided to kill him.  So their mother, Rebekah, sent Jacob packing, off to find a wife in the land of their ancestors.

“I had only my staff when I crossed this Jordan…”

Well maybe that’s all he had as far as physical possessions, but there was something else Jacob had – a strong work ethic.

Take, for example, when Jacob first laid eyes on the beautiful Rachel.  She was bringing her father’s sheep to be watered at the well.  What did Jacob do?  He jumped up and moved the big stone and watered the sheep for her.

“Well, Doug, he just did that for the pretty girl.”

Yeah, well listen.  There are plenty of young men who won’t do any hard work, even to win the girl.

And that was nothing compared to what Jacob was about to do.  In order to marry Rachel, he offered to work for her father for seven years.

Then her father, Laban, pulled the old bait and switch, giving Jacob his older daughter Leah.  So Jacob had to work another seven years to get Rachel.  Now that’s 14 years of hard labor.

By then Jacob was tired of “working for the man.”  He was ready to take his family and go home.

But his father-in-law Laban had realized something.  He realized that God was blessing him through Jacob, so he told Jacob, “Please stay.  You can name your own wages.”

Well God gave Jacob insight, and Jacob set up the deal in such a way that he ended up amassing great wealth.  Laban tried to take advantage of Jacob over and over, but God kept blessing Jacob instead.

Now what was Jacob doing all this time?  Was he just sitting back and expecting the Lord’s blessing?

Not at all.  Look what Jacob told Rachel and Leah in Genesis 31:6.  “You know that I’ve worked for your father with all my strength…”

And was it easy work?  No.  Listen to what Jacob told Laban in Genesis 31.  I worked for you 14 years for your two daughters and six years for your flocks.  The heat consumed me in the daytime and the cold at night, and sleep fled from my eyes.  It was like this for 20 years.

Yes, Jacob worked hard – and God noticed.  In Genesis 31:42 Jacob said that God had seen his hardship and the toil of his hands.

So anyway, Jacob took all his people and stuff and left for home.  And when Laban found out, he went after him.  When he caught up him he said, “You have done a foolish thing.  I have the power to harm you.”

Of course, Jacob knew that.  In fact, Jacob said in verse 42 that he figured Laban would send him away empty-handed.

So what made the difference?  In this case it wasn’t Jacob’s work ethic.  It was the blessing of the Lord. 

When Laban went after Jacob, God came to him in a dream.  Who knows what Laban was planning to do, but that all changed when God stepped in.

So what we see here is a one-two combination.  Yes, Jacob had a stellar work ethic.  He toiled with his hands for 20 years.  But in the end he still would have been ripped off by Laban, if it had not been for the blessing of God Almighty. 

That led up to this very emotional moment.  When the whole affair with Laban was over, Jacob prayed:  “O God of my father Abraham, God of my father Isaac…I am unworthy of all the kindness and faithfulness you have shown your servant.  I had only my staff when I crossed this Jordan…”

And he went on to acknowledge just how much God had given him since then.

Jacob worked hard for 20 years and grew very rich, but he was still humble before God, knowing that he owed it all to Him.

And that’s the attitude I want to have.  Yes, I want the great work ethic.  Like it says in Colossians 3:23, whatever I do, I want to work at it with all my heart, as working for the Lord and not for men.

But sometimes when we work hard we can lose our humility.  We can take on the attitude “I deserve this,” and “I worked hard for this.  It’s mine.”

Well I don’t want that.  I want to be like Jacob who, even though he had worked hard and grown wealthy, could still humble himself before God, bow his head and say, “I had only my staff when I crossed this Jordan…”


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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And There They Are...The Nouns - Apples of Gold - December 7, 2009 -vi-

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“And There They Are – The Nouns”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

What do you call that thing on your car door that keeps it from swinging open and bashing the car next to you?

No, it’s not the hinge. 

And you know how the door will open part way and kind of stop?  What does that?

Well, whatever it’s called, it was broken on my mother-in-law’s car. 

So I called Napa and the guy didn’t know. 

Actually, on the internet, I did find a name:  the “door check.” 

“A ‘door check?’” said Mr. Napa.  “Never heard of it.”

Now I’m no mechanic, but this finally gave me the excuse to do something I’ve wanted to do for a long time.

There’s this place called Pick-n-Pull, which is basically a car junk yard.  You pay a dollar, sign a release, get your hand stamped, and off you go.  They turn you loose with your tools to go find whatever parts you want and you actually get to “extract” them yourself.

Maybe it’s the little boy in me, but who wouldn’t want to go rip pieces off of cars?

The woman behind the counter knew everything about car parts, answering everyone’s questions . . except mine.  “A ‘door check?’  Never heard of it.”

So I went out on the lot and found the twin to my mother-in-law’s car, and wouldn’t you know it.  The driver’s door was half ripped off.  It was just hanging by . . . guess what.  The door check.

But it looked fine, so I extracted it, which was great fun.  I took it back to the woman and, honestly, I think she just picked a random price of $5, and . . . what on earth?  Where is my bank card? 

Oh great.  I put on my grungy work clothes and I forgot to . . . oh well, I knew my daughter was nearby so I called her to come pay for me. 

And while I waited I looked around the office where they were selling things people left in their junk cars, and I picked up a book called “The Practical Writer.” 

It included an essay by David Long which began like this.  Now if you are a writer or a pastor or teacher or anyone involved in communicating, listen to how he started this essay.  Here’s what he said. 

“I’m reading along and realize I’ve lost the thread of the sentences – maybe I’m drowsy, maybe the writing has become bogged down in abstraction.  I skip ahead, wanting something solid to light on.  And there they are, the nouns…”

What a great line!  “And there they are – the nouns.” 

How much is this book?  One dollar? 

“Too much,” I think.  “A quarter, maybe.”

So I kept reading.  “A book should consist of examples,” he says.

“That’s so true,” I think, and the value of the book goes up.

Then he says, “How alert we become at the sound of: for instance…”

Oh my goodness!  That is so true!  How many times has my mental screen saver come on during a sermon, only to be brought back by the words “for instance” or “let me illustrate”? 

We can only take so much abstraction, and then we want concrete.  We want stories.  We want people and places and things.  We want the nouns.

This especially happens when we are sharing spiritual truths and biblical doctrine.  I’ve seen people bloviate on and on about some deep spiritual truth and nobody gets it.  Nobody’s even paying attention anymore because it’s a boat load of abstraction. 

Pastors, as soon as you see those eyes glaze over, it’s time to illustrate.  It’s time to bring it home, paint a mental picture, engage the theatre of the mind.  It’s time to bring on the nouns.

Jesus was the expert at this.  He could have talked for hours about the abstract “love your neighbor,” but instead he told a simple story full of nouns, the story of the Good Samaritan. 

In the Great Commission, in Matthew 28, Jesus said to go and make disciples, and to teach people to obey everything He commanded. 

We are to communicate God’s truth, but you know what?  Have we really communicated if the people don’t get it? 

Well it’s our job to communicate clearly, to bring it out of the abstract.  Jesus set the example with His many stories and parables and illustrations.

It’s easy to say, “Follow Jesus,” but it’s the stories that bring it home.  It’s the testimonies of people who did.

And it’s not just for preachers and teachers.  This is for all of us.  We are all called to make disciples and share the faith. 

And we can do that more effectively by making it concrete, by sharing the stories, by including people and places and things.

We do that by bringing on the nouns.


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May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


© 2009 The Arrow’s Tip 
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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A Leadership Shortage Is Coming Soon - Apples of Gold - December 3, 2009 -vi-

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“A Leadership Shortage Is Coming Soon”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

We shall apply the digit “0.”

That’s how much wisdom and knowledge we are born with.

Now I know we have certain base instincts and drives.  Certain things are hardwired into us, but I’m not counting those.  I’m talking about things we have to learn, the things that are generally considered wisdom and knowledge.  So in my system, our total count at birth is zero.

And let’s say if we spent a lifetime becoming the smartest and wisest person on earth, at our peak we would hit the number 100.  So that’s our scale, zero to 100.

Now let’s say we could somehow have a big meter that would tell us, at any given moment, the average amount of wisdom and knowledge, per person, in the whole world. 

So let’s say that, right now, I’m at about a 70.  My wisdom and knowledge has grown quite a bit in 46 years, but I still have a lot to learn. 

So if I’m at about a 70, and a new baby is born, then the average between us plummets to 35.  

Are you with me so far? 

On December first, the world’s population was estimated to be 6,800,435,588 people.*

By January first that number will go up by 6,537,936. 

So a little math here, if 150,000 people die each day**, that means that, every day, we have over 350,000 new babies in the world – with a wisdom and knowledge rating of zero.

That’s every single day – we are adding all those zeros to the world average of wisdom and knowledge.

Now, what kind of world will it be if our total average of wisdom and knowledge goes down?  I would think it’s bad enough already, but what if it goes down? 

Now stop for a minute.  Put this whole line of thinking on hold.

I want to share with you something I read in a book by Ken Blanchard called “Leading at a Higher Level.”  Listen to this first sentence in chapter nine.  It says, “In companies all over the world, surveys are showing that a leadership shortage is coming soon.”

Did you hear that?  A leadership shortage is coming soon.

But you know what?  Someone will still be leading.  There will always be someone in charge, whether they are prepared or not.  There will be presidents and CEO’s and CFO’s.  There will be senators and governors and mayors. People will fill leadership positions whether they are fit for them or not.

Well what kind of world will we have if our leaders are less than wise and knowledgeable?

Okay, now back to our original discussion, the idea of an overall world average of wisdom and knowledge.

Here’s what I’m saying.  We need to do our part to raise that average.  We must.

It starts with ourselves.  We must raise our own level of wisdom and knowledge.  We must never stop growing smarter and wiser, for the sake of everyone.

Then we must share that wisdom and knowledge with everyone around us.  We must pass it on.

My daughter got married last week.  Does that mean my raising and training of her is finished?  Not at all.  True, she is no longer in my home as my responsibility.  But I will never stop helping her grow in wisdom and knowledge.  For example, now that she is married, I will try to pass on to her everything I’ve learned about building a strong marriage.

The other day I picked up a CD set from the library.  It contains the wisdom of people who have lived to be 100, and you know what?  I want to know what those people have to say.  They’ve seen how things go.  They’ve seen a lot of sowing and reaping.  They’ve elevated their level of wisdom and knowledge, and they will help me elevate mine.

And let me say this, if you are an older person out there, and you aren’t sharing things you’ve learned, shame on you. 

“But Doug, no one wants to listen.”

Well write it down.  Create a blog on the internet.  If you don’t know how, have someone show you, it’s not that hard.  Make a video and slap it up on Youtube.  Heaven knows there is plenty of ignorance on Youtube, so how about a little wisdom?  Or just handwrite it and photocopy it for the grandkids – anything to elevate the level of wisdom and knowledge in the world.

Proverbs 13:14 says, “The teaching of the wise is a fountain of life…”

In fact, the Bible tells us repeatedly to teach and admonish and exhort one another.  We are to constantly be helping each other grow in true wisdom and knowledge.

If we don’t, then the worldwide average will go down.  There will be a shortage of leaders.  The kids will still grow up, but they will be less prepared – if we don’t teach them every step of the way.

So think about this today.  What can you do to raise the total average of wisdom and knowledge in the world?


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


* http://www.census.gov/ipc/www/popclockworld.html
**  http://www.chacha.com/question/how-many-people-die-each-day-around-the-world

Ken Blanchard talks about the importance of coaching to develop new leaders.  I call it raising up new layers of leadership.  In any organization, if we want to have strong leadership in the future, we must be raising them up now.  Churches must constantly be training and equipping people for ministry.  Businesses must constantly be coaching and developing lower level employees so they can rise to the next level.  People never stop arriving, so the education wheel must never stop turning. 

© 2009 The Arrow’s Tip 
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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We Always Need Something to Look Forward To - Apples of Gold - December 2, 2009 -vi-

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“We Always Need Something to Look Forward To”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

There was a square vent in the floor with an old fashioned cover.

It allowed the heat from downstairs to rise into our second story bedrooms.

And it also gave us a good angle on the fireplace below.

If you had to go to bed, but you wanted to keep an eye on the fireplace, and especially the Christmas tree, then that vent was the place to be. 

So that’s where my siblings and I camped out on Christmas Eve . . . on the floor by the vent, peeking and listening.

If there was ever an example of “eagerly awaiting” something, isn’t it kids on Christmas Eve? 

For me, that was the big one.  Birthdays were second.  Summer vacation was third. 

And here’s one for kids in the snow states.  I remember sitting by the radio, waiting, begging, pleading that school would be cancelled due to the snow.  You felt like a death row inmate waiting on that call from the governor.

Or what about when you have a big date lined up?  That’s one of the most exciting times in your life.  You can feel the electricity in your veins just thinking about being with them.

Then you get married and have kids and work a lot and what do you look forward to?  Vacation!

This “eager anticipation” is a universal feeling.  Something good is coming, and we get excited just thinking about it.

In fact, the eager anticipation is a big part of the fun.  It’s the big build up. 

I once heard that it takes three things to make us happy.  We must have someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to.

Eager anticipation is especially valuable when you are in a less-than-perfect situation.  Today may be cruddy, but like the song from Annie, there’s always, “Tomorrow!”

As long as there is a carrot out there somewhere, we can keep going.   

For example, I have a friend who doesn’t much care for his job, but he plows through knowing that something good is coming:  retirement.  It may be 20 years off, but that’s what he’s eagerly awaiting.

But then what?  So many retirees get to that point, and then what?  What do you look forward to now?

Death?  Do we get to the point where all we have to look forward to is death?

Gee, that sucked all the joy out of the room.

Well here is the great thing about being a Christian.  We always have something very exciting to look forward to!

Philippians 3 says, “…our citizenship is in heaven.  And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ…”

And look at verse 21.  It says Jesus “will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like His glorious body.”

What we are eagerly awaiting is our coming encounter with Jesus.  Hebrews 9:28 says we “eagerly wait for Him.”

First Corinthians 1:7 says we “eagerly wait for our Lord Jesus Christ to be revealed.”  And verse eight talks about “the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

Romans 8:18 says, “…our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.”

Verse 23 says, “…we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies.”

This is something to look forward to with eager anticipation!  Our lowly bodies will be redeemed and transformed to be like His glorious body.  Glory will be revealed in us!

What exactly does that look like?  How will it go?  When will it happen?  I don’t really know.  It’s like when we kids were huddled around that vent.  We didn’t know exactly what was happening, but we sure were excited about it!  We knew it was going to be good, and we could hardly wait.

And that’s the way I feel about my future encounter with Jesus Christ.  I have something great to look forward to.  I’m waiting for it with eager anticipation.

I guess it’s universal, this desire, this need to have something to look forward to.  And I’m so glad that God has given us just that, something to look forward to every day of our life – the day we are redeemed and transformed and glorified by the Lord Jesus Christ.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.

I wonder if this is why, in the Old Testament law, they were given so many annual events and festivals?  And then things every seven years or fifty years.  It always gave them something to look forward to.

 

I wonder what atheists look forward to, or those who don’t believe in an afterlife? 


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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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How to Live a More Peaceful Life - Apples of Gold - December 1, 2009 -vi-

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Radio Script for December 1, 2009

“How to Live a More Peaceful Life”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

“All this training and I never got to kill anybody.”

That’s what a friend of mine said one time when he was home on leave.

I didn’t know what to say.  It kind of shocked me.

I think he really wanted to go to battle, to kill some enemies.  He had all the training.  He was all revved up to go, but it never happened.  He didn’t see any action.

Well, to me, that was the point.  We want soldiers completely prepared for action, and the very fact that they are so prepared helps ensure that they will not see any action.

In a fallen world there will always be bullies.  I saw it often on the playground growing up.  If you want to see a microcosm of the world at large, just watch kids on the playground. 

And what do bullies do?  They prey on the weak.  Just think back through your own experience.  I don’t remember the strongest boys being bullied.  It was always the weaker boys.  The bullies avoided the stronger boys, for obvious reasons.

Do you remember the ads for Charles Atlas back in the day?  It was a body building system targeted towards 98-pound weaklings.  And one of the stated purposes of the program was to keep you from being picked on by bullies. 

Yes, you could live a more peaceful life simply by being stronger.  It’s true for boys on the playground, and it’s true for nations. 

And I think it’s true spiritually as well.  We will live more peaceful lives as we grow in spiritual strength.

Ephesians 6 says, “…be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power.”

We are not to be weak, we are to be strong . . . in the Lord.

Verse 11 says, “Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.”

Verse 12 says our battle is against “…the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”

Yes, there is a devil.  There are spiritual forces of evil, and they have evil plans. 

I see the devil and his forces as the ultimate bullies.  First Peter 5:8 says the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.  Then verse nine says, “Resist him, standing firm in the faith…”

A lion on the prowl is a lot like a bully.  Who is their prime target?  The weak.  Why would a hungry lion bother with the strongest antelope in the herd?  The weakest will be just as tasty with a lot less effort. 

Lions will avoid adult rhinos.  Why?  Because they are too big and strong.  They are just too much trouble.

Well it makes sense to me that maybe it works the same way in the spiritual realm.  If the devil is looking for someone to bully, wouldn’t he just go for the easy target, the spiritually weak?

To me, that’s a real good reason to obey Ephesians 6:10, “…be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power.”

Here’s a story from Second Chronicles 17.  It says that King Jehoshaphat sought God and followed His commands.  Then verse 10 says, “The fear of the Lord fell on all the kingdoms of the lands surrounding Judah, so that they did not make war with Jehoshaphat.”

See, Jehoshaphat made himself strong in the Lord, and he built up his armies.  The surrounding nations took notice, a fear settled on them, and they decided not to make war with Judah.

This is called peace through strength.  A strong boy has more peace on the playground.  A strong rhino has more peace in the savanna.  A strong nation has more peace in the world.

And I believe a strong Christian has more peace in his life.

Now I have no special sight into the spiritual realm.  I don’t see a demon behind every rock and a devil on every hilltop.  But the Bible makes it clear that we have such spiritual foes, and that we must strengthen ourselves in the Lord to stand against them.

So would you like more peace in your life?  Can you fathom the possibility that the devil is a bully and you are his 98-pound weakling?

Then it’s time for some spiritual body-building.  Instead of turning to Charles Atlas, we turn to the Lord God Almighty. 

We heed the counsel of Ephesians 6:10, to be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power.

It’s called peace through strength, and I believe it holds true in the spirit just as it holds true in the world.

We can live more peaceful lives as we grow in spiritual strength.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


Someone is going to say, “But Doug, you need to tell people that being strong in the Lord doesn’t guarantee a peaceful life.”  That is true, it’s not a guarantee, but it’s a general principle.  Being a strong nation doesn’t mean you’ll never be attacked.  Being a strong boy doesn’t mean you’ll never get hit on the playground.  Being an adult rhino doesn’t mean the lions will never ever try to take a bite out of you.  But the principle is still true, you are more likely to live in peace if you are strong than if you are weak.

© 2009 The Arrow’s Tip 
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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The New Tallest Structure in the World - Apples of Gold - November 30, 2009 -vi-

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Radio Script for November 30, 2009

“The New Tallest Structure in the World”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

How high can Superman jump?

Why, he can jump over the Empire State Building!

When I was a kid, that was the ultimate measurement.  When you wanted to say how high or tall something was, you simply compared it to the Empire State Building.

Then along came the Sears Tower, and the World Trade Center.  And now, dwarfing them all, is the Burj Dubai in the United Arab Emirates.  The exterior of the Burj Dubai is now complete.

And get this.  It’s over twice as tall as the Empire State Building. 

The builders of the Empire State Building used around 60,000 cubic yards of concrete.  The builders of the Burj Dubai used about that same amount of concrete . . . in the foundation.

That’s over a hundred thousand tons of concrete, in the ground, before they even started building up. 

The foundation for the Burj Dubai begins over 160 feet deep in the ground.

When it opens in January it will be a modern marvel, but it sure didn’t pop up over night.  They say the construction will have taken over 22 million man-hours.

Now there are some pretty simple lessons we can draw from this.  If you want to build something tall and strong, it’s going to take a lot of time and effort, and you have to start with a deep, rock-solid foundation.

That’s true for building a skyscraper, and it’s true for building a good life.

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about Jesus’ words in Matthew 7.  In verse 24 He said, “…everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.”

Then in verse 26 He said, “…everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand.”

Okay, so do you want to be a wise man or a foolish man?  Do you want to build your house on the rock or on sand?

I’ve lived long enough now to see both ways.  I’ve seen people build their lives on the rock and I’ve seen the stability they get from it.  And I’ve seen people build their lives on the sand, and the resulting problems and instability.

So what is the key to building our lives on rock?  Jesus said it is hearing His words and putting them into practice.

It’s a two step process.  Hear His words, then put them into practice.

Today, let’s focus on step one:  hearing His words.  Have we heard Jesus’ words?  Do we really know what Jesus said?

Most people hardly know anything Jesus said.  Most of us have a mind full of various philosophies and ideas that we’ve picked up from all over the place:  from our parents, our teachers, our friends; plus television and books and movies and music and magazines.  And throw in our own desires and inclinations and that makes up our personal philosophy of life.

Well here’s the way I see it.  Our life is solid in areas where our philosophy intersects with Jesus.  But any place our ideas veer away, then we are building on sand and the results will be ugly.

So if we don’t want ugly results, then we must hear the words of Jesus, and put them into practice.

But like I said, there is a general ignorance of what Jesus said.

I see it in my own life.  Even though I’ve spent years studying the Bible, I’m afraid my own philosophy still includes some sandy spots.

So I am ready to begin a new building program.  I want to build my life to be tall and strong in the Lord, so I must begin with a deep, rock-solid foundation. 

It starts with hearing the words of Jesus, but Jesus warned that some people are “ever hearing but never understanding.”  I don’t want to be that guy.  I want to be a guy that hears and understands.

I want to hear the words of Jesus in a way that I never forget, in a way that I comprehend them, in their proper context.

It takes a lot of man hours to build a proper foundation.  It takes a great commitment – a lot of time and effort.

So here is what I’m going to do.  Starting tomorrow I’m going to begin memorizing the book of John.

I’m going to do it in my usual way – one verse per weekday.  With well over 600 verses, it will take me over three years. 

And knowing how things go, I will miss a weekday here and there, so here is my schedule.

Right now I’m just over 46 years old.  My goal is to have the entire book of John memorized before I turn 50.

I announced that to a group of young men last night, and one of them popped out that he could do it a lot faster.

I don’t doubt that at all.  It’s not a very aggressive plan.  But it will allow me to really marinate in the words of Jesus.  They will become part of me and shape my philosophy and my life in ways that, right now, I can’t even imagine.

Like I said, it’s a new adventure, and I’m excited about it.  It’s like standing at the bottom of a mountain, preparing to climb.  It’s like staring at a piece of dusty ground and preparing to dig a deep foundation on which to build a skyscraper.

So the book of John – I’m going for it.  I want that deep foundation.  I want to build on the rock, and that comes by hearing the words of Jesus and putting them into practice.

I can’t do that without truly knowing the words of Jesus, and that’s where the Bible memorizing comes in.

So anyway, learn the lesson of the Burj Dubai.  If you want to build something tall and strong, it’s going to take a lot of man-hours and a strong foundation.

And the way we do that in our lives is just like Jesus said – by hearing His words, and putting them into practice.


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


One other thought – I’m going to turn 50 one way or another.  The time will pass whether I do this or not.  I would rather set a goal and meet it than just let the time pass without such a goal.


© 2009 The Arrow’s Tip 
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Do You Think You Will Cry? - Apples of Gold - November 25, 2009 -vi-

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“Do You Think You Will Cry?”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

“Do you think you will cry?”

That’s what I keep hearing as we prepare for our firstborn’s wedding, which is this Saturday.

She is the daughter of a radio man, and when she was tiny I used to get up at 4 a.m. to do the morning show.  And she got into this weird habit.

I would be sitting at the breakfast table in our little apartment, and here she would come, out of the crib, in her little footed pajamas.  I would hear the plastic feet padding down the hallway into the kitchen, and she would climb up on a chair and join me for breakfast.

Before she ever started school she was on the radio, plus I would use her voice for special projects, such as this one I made for her mom.  I had the tape recorder rolling, and her tiny little voice was all primed to say, “Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!”  She practiced it a few times and we were all ready to go in 3…2…1… 

And then, with a sly twinkle in her eye she said, “Happy Birthday Mom!”  And she squealed with laughter at having pulled a fast one on her old dad.

We took her to Sunday School and Vacation Bible School, and read her bedtime stories and said prayers every night.

Then one day I was at a prayer meeting with some other men at church, and out of the blue this question popped into my mind.  “Are you going to send your children to the lion’s den?”

My daughter wasn’t old enough to go to school yet, but in my heart I knew what that question was about.  So we checked it out, and ended up sending her (and all of our children) to a local Christian school. 

There she memorized scripture and sang Christian songs and made Christian friends.  And we enjoyed what some call the golden years, from when your child is about 5 to about 13. 

Then some of her friends went to the public high school.  We kept her in the fledgling high school program at the Christian school, but she didn’t like it.  The summer before her sophomore year she was really chomping at the bit. 

This is where things start to get sticky for parents.  At some point, kids have to begin making their own decisions, but what is that point?  And which decisions? 

I prayed and prayed about it, and then I went for a long walk with my daughter.  And I finally said, “I want you to stay in the Christian school for your sophomore year.  Then you can decide.”  And I stressed the importance of seeking the Lord and seeking wisdom before she made that decision.

Well she chose the public school, and all the usual temptations were there waiting for her. 

Oh, she was still a pretty good girl.  She worked three jobs to pay for her own car.  She stayed in church and never rebelled against us or turned our home into a pit of misery, nothing like that.  But she certainly stepped over some boundaries and did things unpleasing to God and her parents.

It’s one of the greatest challenges of parenting.  How far do you let your 17-year-old go in making their own decisions?  We talked about it often, and prayed a lot.  And sometimes it’s just anguish as you let out the rope and see what they do with it.

And sometimes you have to step in and lay down the law.  But at that age, if you don’t do it with love and wisdom, you might just push them away.  It’s a minefield, and you have to walk through it circumspectly.

I remember one night when her mom was out of town, and I was painting our laundry room as a surprise.  And my daughter was helping me. 

Well she wanted to go do something and I told her no.  And she tried a couple of different angles and I finally just cracked down hard.  Absolutely not. 

So she left to go to work, and there I sat, alone in the middle of the basement floor.  I started praying and crying out to God, interceding for my daughter.

Meanwhile, I was listening to some new singles that were sent to the radio station.  And right then a song by Kathryn Scott came on, “At the Foot of the Cross.”

And during the song my heart finally broke for my daughter.  And I wept alone on that cold basement floor. 

Well she went away to college, and we figured she was doing things she shouldn’t be doing.  But, amazingly, she called almost every day.  She had no idea how thrilled I was when she would call while walking to class, just to tell me how cold it was up there.

And then I believe God opened the door and led me to take the job in Tallahassee.  When we decided to make the move, the first person I called was our daughter.  We wanted her to know as soon as possible so she could decide whether to stay in Illinois or move with us. 

And she started crying.  And she immediately said she was coming with us. 

Later on she told us the story.  She knew that moving to Tallahassee was her chance to start fresh, to repent and create a new life. 

And that’s what she did.  She surrendered her life to the Lord, caught fire spiritually, and got deeply involved in church. 

And there she met a fine young man who is also on fire for Jesus.  And now they are getting married Saturday. 

And you want to know if I’m going to cry…


(close with old tape of “Happy Birthday Mom...Happy Mother’s Day!”)




© 2009 The Arrow’s Tip 
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(Proverbs 25:11 – “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”)

Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

Doug Apple
General Manager - Wave 94
Christian Radio for Tallahassee
PO Box 4105
Tallahassee, FL  32315
(850) 926-8000
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Ingratitude Is No Small Sin - Apples of Gold - November 24, 2009 -vi-

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“Ingratitude Is No Small Sin”

 

Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Second Timothy three says, “…mark this:  There will be terrible times in the last days.”

Wow, terrible times.  This Apples of Gold is off to a good start already.

“There will be terrible times…”  Then it launches into a list of what people will be like during those terrible times.  For example, it says they will be proud and boastful and abusive.  They will be lovers of money but not lovers of good.  They will be lovers of pleasure but not lovers of God.  They will be loveless and unforgiving, slanderous and brutal. 

And now listen to what else is on that terrible list.  They will be ungrateful.

What helps make the times terrible?  People being ungrateful.

This is something we need to look for in our own lives.  Are we ungrateful?

It is a sin, you know, being ungrateful.  And I like the way Nancy Leigh DeMoss said it on her radio program yesterday, “Ingratitude is no small sin.”

But we have so much, and we take it for granted.  Plus, we work hard.  We’ve earned a lot of what we have.  So I would understand it if you said, “Doug, I just don’t feel grateful.”

Something else, we tend to compare ourselves to people who have more and better.  So we look up, and compare ourselves down, and it’s hard to feel grateful when you have so much less.

The way I handle that is, instead of looking up and comparing down, I look down and compare up.  It’s easier to be thankful for every meal when you think about those who don’t have a meal.  You’re more grateful for your job when you think about those who don’t have a job. 

It’s a simple change of perspective.  Instead of looking at those who have more and feeling ungrateful, you look at those who have less and it makes you more grateful.

Now let’s talk about the “feeling.”  What do you do if you just don’t feel it?  You don’t feel grateful.

Well I think this falls in the category of “fake it ‘til you make it.” 

The Bible tells us over and over again to give thanks.  Psalm 107:1 says, “Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.”

Ephesians 5:20 tells us to always give thanks to God the Father for everything.

First Thessalonians 5:18 says, “…give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you…”

Colossians 2:7 uses this phrase, “…overflowing with thankfulness…”

So according to those verses, thanksgiving should always be flowing out of us, for all things, in all circumstances.  We are always giving thanks, whether we feel it or not.

But . . . as we do it, I think it changes our perspective.  Even if we are faking it, I think it still changes our perspective. 

Giving thanks forces us to think of things to be thankful for, and that prepares us to actually be more thankful. 

I have experienced this personally.  I decide to give thanks to God, so I begin telling Him what I’m thankful for.  Then in the process of giving thanks, I begin to feel thankful.  In fact, at times I’ve had a great wave of gratitude sweep over me, just sensing how blessed I really am.

And you know, there is a humility in gratitude.  It’s realizing I’m not “all that.”  My blessings are not because I deserve them, but because of God’s grace.

Gratitude is also a foil for covetousness.  We are less likely to covet what others have when we are truly thankful for what we have.

Have you ever heard of a thankful spoiled brat?  No.  The act of giving thanks inoculates you from being spoiled.

Have you ever heard of a thankful jerk?  No.  It’s hard to be a jerk when you are always overflowing with thankfulness for everything in all circumstances.

Giving thanks changes your perspective.  It changes your attitude. 

And listen to this.  It actually changes who you are.  It changes the very dynamic of your being.

So like it says in Psalm 147:7, “Sing to the Lord with thanksgiving…”

Or like the man did in Psalm 119:62, rise at midnight to give thanks.

Whether you feel grateful or not, give thanks to the Lord.  Be grateful always – yes, on Thanksgiving Day, and every day.

Just make the decision and do it.

And if you decide it’s no big deal, then let this linger in your mind for a while.

Ingratitude is no small sin.


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May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


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Why “The Arrow’s Tip”?  Each morning, after diligently seeking the Lord, I write Apples of Gold.  Then before I release it to the public I pray one final prayer, “Lord, send forth your arrows.”  I envision Apples of Gold as arrows, tips dipped in the river of the water of life that flows from the throne of God (Rev. 22:1), sailing toward the hearts and minds of men and women around the world.

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