Monday, July 21, 2008

Loving People the Way Jesus Taught Us To - Apples of Gold - July 21, 2008 -vi-

Apples of Gold
 

Radio Script for July 21, 2008

“Loving People the Way Jesus Taught Us To”


Hello, I’m Doug Apple…with Apples of Gold.

Jesus said repeatedly that we should love one another.

But how, exactly, should we do it?

Well, we could make it up as we go, doing whatever seems like love.

Or we could do what Jesus said.

So today let’s take a look at specific, proactive things Jesus told us to do to love each other.

One of the biggest ways Jesus told us to love each other was by forgiving each other.

In Mark 11:25 Jesus said, “…if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him…”

Luke 11:4 indicates that we should forgive everyone who sins against us.

When we forgive someone, we tear down our side of the wall.  Then we go to work on their side of the wall.

Matthew 5:24 says, “…be reconciled to your brother…”

The next verse says, “Settle matters quickly with your adversary…”

Also in the Sermon on the Mount Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers…”

Jesus wants us to love one another, and that’s hard to do when there are walls between us.  So the first step to loving someone is to tear down the walls, to forgive and to be reconciled; to make peace.

Does that mean we roll over like a door mat every time someone sins against us?  Here’s the thing.  You are not loving someone when you let them get away with sin.  Yes, you forgive them, but yes, you hold them accountable. 

In Matthew 18 Jesus said, “If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you.  If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.”

When you love someone, you try to steer them away from sin.  You don’t let them wallow in it.

Another way Jesus taught us to love people is by being generous.  More than once Jesus said, “Give to the one who asks you.”  He said we should “give to the needy” and “give to the poor.”  In Matthew 26 He said we should give to the hungry and the thirsty, and to those who need clothing and shelter.

And when we give, we should not think about the payback.  In Luke 6 Jesus said we should lend to our enemies without expecting repayment.  In Luke 14 He said when we hold a banquet we should invite people who can’t repay us:  the poor, the crippled, the lame and the blind.

In the story of the Good Samaritan, Jesus illustrated how we should even love strangers, people who don’t know us and may not even like us.

Luke 6:38 sums it up in one word, “give.”

Now, how should we love our family?  To love our father and mother, we honor them.  To love our spouse, we stay married.  Of course the teaching about forgiveness and reconciliation really goes a long way when it comes to loving family.

One group of people close to Jesus’ heart is children.  So how do we love children?  By welcoming them – in His name, He said.  If you want to love children, you welcome them.

Another way Jesus stressed we should love people is by showing them mercy.  “Blessed are the merciful,” He said, and “I desire mercy.”

Then there are the spiritual matters.  We can’t love people but let them stay in spiritual darkness.  Jesus told us to let our lights shine before men.

We are to preach the good news to everyone, making disciples, baptizing them and teaching them to obey the Lord.  In Mark 16 Jesus talked about driving out demons, and placing hands on sick people to make them well.

He also taught us to love people by praying for them.  And He stressed praying for those who hate us and mistreat us.

When you boil it down, loving people means serving them.  Jesus taught repeatedly about being a servant, a slave to all. 

On the flip side there are many things we don’t do when we love people, but for this lesson I wanted to focus on the actions, the proactive things we do to love people, according to the teachings of Jesus.  And here they are again:

--We love people by forgiving them and being reconciled – keeping any walls down between us.
--We love people by holding them accountable, steering them away from sin.
--We love people by giving to them, and most importantly giving to people with urgent needs.
--We love people by showing them mercy.
--We love our parents by honoring them.
--We love our spouse by staying married.
--We love children by welcoming them.
--And we love people by helping them with their spiritual needs, by praying for them, by shining our light, by preaching the good news and making disciples, baptizing them and teaching them to obey the Lord.

You can probably think of a lot of other great ways to love people, but these are the ways Jesus taught about.  So as we strive to obey Him by loving people, let’s focus on the ways He said to do it. 


Comments?

E-mail me:  dougapple@wave94.com.

May God bless you today!  With Apples of Gold…I’m Doug Apple.


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